hey guys, i always hang out with my friends, alot, and well the past year, my boyfriend and i hang out now, but my friends hang out too, i still talk to them and call them, (even tho they almost never call me, or wish me Happy b-day or nething) i still try, and then i see pictures of them hanging out together on myspace and stuff, why do they not include me anymore....should i just forget about them or not take them seriously??
2007-09-15 07:21:58 · 37 answers · asked by vernoica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
they obviously dnt really care so i suggest ur find sum new ones
if they cnt tell u wen they have a problem which they probabyly do they are young and u dnt need that in your life
theyre probably talkin about you thats how my frends were and now there not my frens u dnt neeed ppl in your life who cnt help you move forward.
2007-09-15 07:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by carmen mendez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens a lot during adolesence, sometimes your friends may not hang with you for a while because they are trying to form their identity. Sometimes that involves hanging out with new friends and shying away from old ones. But that usually goes away quickly after they finish that stage. Eventually they will either include you with their other friends or not hang around them anymore and hang with you instead. I remember going through the same thing during adolescents. So take advantage of that moment to get new friends but dont forget your old ones.
2007-09-15 07:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are your friends single? It's proablly because you hang out with your boyfriend, single people dont always want to hang out with a couple, the girls are probablly out talking and partying with guys, which they know u wouldnt be into...you and your b/f should try hanging out with couples, you'll have an easier time with girls that are in relationships like you are, they will want to do the same things.... and if your friends are still remembering your bday and stuff , then it means they still care about you and arent trying to hurt your feelings, im sure if you and the guy ever break up your girls will still be there for you
2007-09-15 07:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by ~amber~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends come and go. Single girls don't like to hang out with a couple. In order to meet new friends, sometimes you have to let go of your old friends. Why would you want to hang out with people that don't like you anymore. You are no longer their miror. You are a kind and caring person seeking friendship with the wrong crowd. You are seeking love and acceptance from people who know not of what true love is.
You wanted to be intimate with your boyfriend, that is why your friends have moved on. Instead of starring at their pictures on mySpace, why don't you spend more time on Yahoo360. Make friends online you never meet in real life. My online friends saved me when all my past friends deserted me when I had my heart attack. Today, most of my friends are online and I have great friends online. My friends online cannot betray me in person. Humans can be brutal.
Come and visit me on Yahoo360, I am Lapis Lazuli
Caroline, Seattle, Washington, USA
2007-09-15 07:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lapis9Lazuli666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your friends if they don't think enough of you to include you. Your friends are supposed to make you feel like you belong. Besides, only time will tell you who your real friends are. My best friend the past 11 years was not someone that I knew from school/college, but someone I met at work. She's better than a sister because we have never had a fight.
2007-09-15 07:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to them and say,"Hey, I know me and my boyfriend have been hangging out a lot, and I know I haven't been hanging out with you guys as much, but I still want to be friends. Can we set up a movie night or something, without my boyfriend?"
2007-09-15 07:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jordan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they moved on, if they keep ignoring you try and find you new friends but don't forget about them just because you have a bf thats one of the things that friends really hate call them one day and ask to hang out with just them no bf and see how that goes.
2007-09-15 07:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make more effort. Chances are when you got this boyfriend you started ignoring them a little without realizing it. There is always a chance to get close to your friends again. They are most likely thinking the same way you are.
2007-09-15 07:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by ϑennaß 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forget about them. Look for other ones. Friends should never ignore you. I hope you didn't do anything to them to make you ignore them. Like I said just make some new ones who will be there for you, that's what friends are for.
2007-09-15 07:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by SexyAnimal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm able to understand your emotions yet in specific circumstances it takes place to all human beings , even it got here about to me. My acquaintances in specific circumstances pass away me by myself and ignore approximately me. while you're like me, quiet and not too social (nicely I didnt was once) then may well be human beings dont talk with you as lots by way of fact of that, or may well be they ask you issues and you probably did no longer pay attention and that they think of you are trying to ignore approximately them. Thats what my buddy stated i become doing by way of twist of destiny! may well be while you're sensible additionally, or have a high quality that they choose, they'll ignore approximately you by way of fact of their busy time table too. yet i did no longer care lots by way of fact I went with different set of acquaintances . so because it fairly is it. Take it cool. do no longer ignore approximately them, that makes no distinction between you and them. Do choose them on their birthdays, anniversaries, specific activities and on different important days :) wish this helped! :) thank you.
2016-10-20 01:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋