Family & Relationships - 15 September 2007

My kids are 2 and 5 and I have a part time job, I need my husbands help with my two year old, my husband is home while I am at work. He owns his own buissness and on occasion needs to oversee jobs.He insists I get daycare. I want my husband to help more. Am I expecting too much?

2007-09-15 12:10:19 · 26 answers · asked by James 4 in Marriage & Divorce

does this guy like me he kicks me in class messes with me asked for my number talks to me called me fine and everything lol but i think he is shy and that sucks cuz i am scared to tell him i like him so i want him to ask me out and i have been flirting like woah but still nothin he just flirts back whats with this guy why wont he ask me out i am to scared to ask him if he likes me so i want him to tell me i dont know why i am scared i just am so help me!!

2007-09-15 12:09:12 · 3 answers · asked by ***Lovin*** 3 in Singles & Dating

I was watching re-runs of Sex and The City and they were saying you have two great loves in your life. I thought it was an interesting question... any takes on that?

2007-09-15 12:07:53 · 11 answers · asked by lilmama06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 12:04:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 12:03:47 · 23 answers · asked by Reina De Reinas! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If they are ordered to pay child support and the mother is taking care of the child like she is supposed to, then why are they so obsessed with knowing where the child support check is going? My best friend is in this situation. Her son's father doesn't want to see her doing well at all. She doesn't need the pennies that they are sending her anyway ($350 - $400 per month), but he is trying to get his payment reduced because he thinks she is using that money to get her hair and nails done. So what if she is? She spends way more than any $350 - $400 on that child. She works full-time, pays for daycare, food, clothes, shoes, medical expenses, etc. Not only that, he NEVER sees the father. He is 4 and and has seen his father 3 or 4 times. It all balances out so why does he care? Most of the men that are like this aren't hardly paying anything, so I don't understand it. Where he sees it as "extra" income for he, she sees it as his responsibility.

Why are so many men like this?

2007-09-15 12:02:31 · 18 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do?
How can I tell if she is or not ?

2007-09-15 12:01:28 · 2 answers · asked by Rissa 2 in Friends

just wondrin' if u guys are ok with gaL&gAL boY&boy relationship? u cAN choose one of em which you think is better???? lolx.. =)

2007-09-15 12:00:42 · 6 answers · asked by -trEx- 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my crush have art together. ok so when we get out of art, he gets together with his friends in the hall and they keep turning around and looking at me and smiling and turning back and talking and laughing (but i KNOW they are not making fun of me) and when i get in front of him in the hall, when i turn around, there he is looking right at me. do you think he like me??

2007-09-15 11:49:28 · 9 answers · asked by Megg 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't mean in a bar or social place, but just like on the streets/park/shop. Do you think its weird for guys to do that, would u be flattered or offended?

2007-09-15 11:48:58 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On Friday, me and my friends went to a b-day and we played truth or dare. So after we go swimming my friend comes up to me in private and dared me to hug him. So I did. Then I dared him to hug me and he said he had a better idead. We go through my firends gate into alley and he said this is what I realy wanted to dare you and he started to rub against me. So I've had a crush on him for sometime and I just found out that he liked me. So at first I was happy but then he is all I think about. What should I do? Should I risk our friendship or not?

2007-09-15 11:46:50 · 8 answers · asked by water_guardian_temple_19 2 in Friends

if they ask you if your gay how could you tell them no and a comeback together?

2007-09-15 11:44:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am struggling to come up with ideas for gifts for my bridesmaids. I will already be paying for their hair and jewelry, but I want to get each of them something more special as a gift. Any ideas?

2007-09-15 11:44:18 · 12 answers · asked by SMLB78 1 in Weddings

i don't have a big *** but i have big breasts my friends say i'm not thick at all so my question is do all black guys only like girls with a big *** and am i thick?

2007-09-15 11:42:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 11:41:45 · 1 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

" I'm stressed" " It's hormones" "my boss is mean" "I have big bones" and so many more,
They're all B.S. there is a simple scientific fact that if you burn the same amount of calories you consume, your weight stays the same.
Has anyone ever heard a woman say "I'm fat simply because I eat too damn much". ?.

2007-09-15 11:41:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

his foster-brother. But my boyfriend is ugly, fat, dumb, and all of the above but a good personality. His foster brother is cute, skinny, dumb, and a good personality. Everyone told me to say yes because we would be a good couple but all alnog I liked his foster brother. And the way he asked me was really cute and hard to say no. My boyfriend told me he loved me yesterday and then he asked me if I would go to one of his football games. Then this morning I was redaing him screen savers (over the phone) out of a magazine, and I read one that said "Angel by day Devil by night" and he said "That doesn't fit you, you are always my little angel". I think one of my friends would be mad at me if I dumped my boyfriend because she knows how much he likes me, and my other friends say dump him really nicely and then wait a while and then ask his foster brother out. So I don't know what to do. Please help. Below are some examples of how I know I like his foster brother more then my boyfriend.

2007-09-15 11:41:11 · 8 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 11:40:05 · 12 answers · asked by soccer grl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 11:37:28 · 14 answers · asked by baseball 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know if I'm going to work out in my first foster home becuase I thnk they are looking for someone who is perfect and I am not like that and I am tired of being undercover. This foster home doesn't know the real me at all and they seen me smoking and I think they hate me now. But thats one of my problems. I try to tell people about me and smoking but I just can't its to hard. Around these people I feel all waird now. Please someone help me out somehow

2007-09-15 11:36:02 · 5 answers · asked by bloodyrose91 1 in Family

This is for emotional abuse. Ok. well it used to be physical abuse until my mom and i left my step-dad. but then she let him move back. now he emotionally abuses me. My mom and i don't know where to move because we don't have a lot of money. We cant move back with my aunt because we already lived there the first time we left my step-dad. What are we to do?

2007-09-15 11:31:45 · 20 answers · asked by Bowchickawowwoww 3 in Family

When I came home from camp, I heard my parents were divorcing whenever my dad find's a appartment with a good rental rate. I don't want them to divorce so I have been trying to get them to get back together with my only friend who knows about it, kinda like in the Parent Trap. They don't listen and continue to think a divorce is better then trying to get along. I don't want them to divorce but slowly and surely the divorce is happening. I don't know what to do. People with parents having to divorce please give me some suggestions. I need them fast. My dad is loking up appartments on the internet and adding the web pages to favorites. He might purchase an appartment soon. HELP!
-Schmaier

2007-09-15 11:23:10 · 8 answers · asked by Schmaier 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi when i was younger i used to have a pen pal, in Switzerland, and i loved to receive my letter's but now no one sends letters its all email, and i would love to have email pals around the world, i live in England and I'm what is called a mad Geordie, i have a wonderful partner so I'm not looking for love, just to be a good pal, would love to hear from any one, thank you

2007-09-15 11:16:01 · 9 answers · asked by Halfpint 2 in Friends

I'm living with my fiancee and I just started working and he's still in school...I'll be working the evening shift which is from 3 to 11 and I won't be able to see him that much and so I thought that the weekends would be our time to spend together but he blew me off to spend time with his friend. I always stay at home and I never get to go anywhere thats why I started this job and I really need the money but when I started working I figured we would be able to spend weekends together and he said he would spend them with me and then today he told me that he hasn't seen his friend in a week and he's our next door neighbor and he's over like every day....what should be more important me the person he's gonna marry and hardly will see or his friend that he sees everyday in school and who happens to be our neighbor???

2007-09-15 11:15:40 · 18 answers · asked by crystlehart05_06 1 in Singles & Dating

There's This boy in my 4th period, art class.
He's really cute. He's mexican, and i'm white. I really like him! and i think he likes me too, because he's always looking at me, and even when i look at him (well, i glance, and look away really quick, like...im just looking around the room), he still kind of looks at me.

Sometimes he'll talk 2 me, like, really little stuff, like this boy asked for my paper, and i gave it to him, and the boy i like said he wouldn't have given the other boy that paper.

and when i walk into class, he looks at me for a little bit.
he has some friends in art.

but when we go to lunch, he doesn't look at me at all.
and he doesn't look at me when we're in the hall together.

I'm SUPER SHY, so i probably would never ask him out, or even talk to me.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? DOES HE LIKE ME OR NOT??

2007-09-15 11:15:23 · 9 answers · asked by Mandy95 2 in Singles & Dating

umm yeah how do u makeout with someone. i have never rele kissed anyone before and i have a feeling im gunna be rele soon so plz help!

serious answers only plzz!

2007-09-15 11:15:12 · 4 answers · asked by ashabean15 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ones i felt him he brough me that girl.... and he said he wanted to work things up and she told me that they were just going to let me know that they are gonna be together....

2007-09-15 11:08:43 · 36 answers · asked by diana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 11:07:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am about to sleep with somebody for the first time. He has been with many experienced ladies, and seeing that it will be my first time, I am afraid I am not going to be any good. Any tips for me? ( I havent had oral sex either, so that can not help me). What can I do to be less bad in bed?

2007-09-15 11:06:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 21 and I'm finally able to move out of my mother's house. From that moment on, she became increasingly irritated with me. She says mean things, barges in on me and torments me with a smile. I know I'm not perfect but she's acting like I'm nothing more than an annoying servant to her. It's gotten to the point where she drills on me until I burst into tears and then yells at me for crying. I even asked her for a hug and she said no because she's irritated and it's not going to change. I don't know what to do, I'm feeling suicidal...does my mom hate me?

2007-09-15 11:03:23 · 25 answers · asked by tea_green22 2 in Family