I don't mean in a bar or social place, but just like on the streets/park/shop. Do you think its weird for guys to do that, would u be flattered or offended?
2007-09-15 11:48:58 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd be curious of to which he was looking at, my body or my face.. because I would either feel violated or flattered haha. Depending on how old the guy is too.
2007-09-15 11:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have done a couple of times in nightclubs but the funniest was when i used to work in a department store for a cosmetic house anad there was a young lad who would go past each saturday shouting out a compliment then running out the door bless him he was young , possiblly just having a laugh or doing a dare but nether the less it brightened my day and made me snile, it can be a compliment and flattering just depends how it is done and who by,older people doing it would be quite freaky id say!
2007-09-15 11:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it has happened to me. But, I'm neither flattered nor offended. I smile and say thank you. I know there are many reasons why a person would come up to me and say that I'm attractive, beautiful, etc. Some persons really want to see my reaction....see if there is an "open door" for him to say more...to see if he can "get over". Others are interested in me paying to join their modeling agency (they will say that it is free, but that I should take classes....and that's where the money come in.) And yes, some compliments are truly that....a compliment. Nothing is expected in return. Such compliments I treasure and am humbled because those compliments come from the heart. :-)
2007-09-15 12:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by SWTBRNSGR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see- It's a nice charm line- guys are good at that. I wouldn't be flattered, but not offended neither I have learned to not take every guy seriously that told me that. I mean honestly if I had a dime for everytime I was told that I would be rich- It's a pick up line that I don't fall for
2007-09-15 11:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, and it depends. If the guy is like a hobo with a crack pipe Id be creeped out, but if he seemed nice then Id be flattered. Actually either way id probably be a little bit flattered haha.
2007-09-15 11:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and most of the time I find it rather flattering. Sometimes I get a creepy vibe, in which case I just keep a stoney, glower German face and move on quickly.
2007-09-15 11:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by Priscilla B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
particular, that has occurred to me on social gathering and it makes my day. i think of there's a deferential thank you to do it and a leering thank you to do it, although. for example, as quickly as i replaced into popping out of the food market and a guy instructed me I had ideal legs. I stated thank you, he stated you're welcome and that replaced into the tip of it. It made me sense like a million greenbacks. yet over lower back, i replaced into walking to paintings and a couple of adult adult males provided me a trip. I stated no, i like the exercising. the driving force stated it quite is purely too undesirable given which you're truthfully ideal. And he replaced into particularly warm himself. :-) That boosted my self-self belief somewhat, exceedingly through fact i'm purely approximately 40 and he could no longer have been extra beneficial than 25. on the different hand, adult adult males hooting and hollering at me walking as they are using by using is particularly offensive.
2016-10-09 06:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... but that's because I'm not beautiful or gorgeous, heck, even my boyfriend doesn't think I'm beautiful, lol. but that's okay with me, beauty is only skin deep, i know I'm pretty on the inside. but yeah, i would be flattered if someone told me i was beautiful, why would anyone be offended?
2007-09-16 06:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this has happened to me before and the way it happened it kinda freaked me out i was in grade 9 and he was older and he pulled up next to me in a car and was like hey baby whats up and stuff. If it was in a different way i would be flattered.
2007-09-15 11:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by ouelkrysp3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's flattering but also embaressing if your being hollered at by some guy. It makes the girl look good but the guy just looks really stupid.
2007-09-15 11:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋