There's This boy in my 4th period, art class.
He's really cute. He's mexican, and i'm white. I really like him! and i think he likes me too, because he's always looking at me, and even when i look at him (well, i glance, and look away really quick, like...im just looking around the room), he still kind of looks at me.
Sometimes he'll talk 2 me, like, really little stuff, like this boy asked for my paper, and i gave it to him, and the boy i like said he wouldn't have given the other boy that paper.
and when i walk into class, he looks at me for a little bit.
he has some friends in art.
but when we go to lunch, he doesn't look at me at all.
and he doesn't look at me when we're in the hall together.
I'm SUPER SHY, so i probably would never ask him out, or even talk to me.
WHAT SHOULD I DO? DOES HE LIKE ME OR NOT??
2007-09-15 11:15:23 · 9 answers · asked by Mandy95 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-09-15 11:53:07 · update #1
I AM VERY INTERESTED IN HIM!!!
lol
can't get him out of my head
and we don't like art, we just rather not chose band/choir, lol.
2007-09-15 12:38:44 · update #2
type question in 'search for answers' box
2007-09-15 11:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
First off, it's impossible to know if he likes you. In all probability, he's probably wondering the same things about you (if he likes you, that is).
Speaking as a guy who was shy in school, your person of interest also sounds shy. I'll clue you in on something most men hate to admit: men are scared of rejection. Everyone expects the guy to make the first move, so there's a lot of burden on the man.
What you have here are two shy people who are too shy to make the first move overtly.
Someone has to make the first move. This could be as simple as finding some common interest (art) and talking about that...seeing how the conversation goes...and taking things slowly. Having lunch together regularly is a great start towards a friendship.
I wouldn't move too quickly. The guy sounds like he's sensitive and you sound like you're nervous. You need to get a level of comfort between you two. That takes time and shouldn't be rushed.
Also, depending on your age, you may not want to get that serious this early in life.
If you trust your parents, you might run this by them. I'll bet they lived through this in their lives when they were younger. I think we all deal with this problem.
2007-09-15 12:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by PMP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can think of is to try to find out through some of the guys you have seen around him whom you are acquainted with. If this doesn't work. Try this: "Accidentally" bump into him and drop something. Apologize profusely as you both scramble for your books, pencils or whatever you "choose" to drop. Try to focus your eyes on him as you are scrambling and gently bump him again. He will think he tripped you up and start apologizing to you. You will start talking and laughing and the acquaintance, perhaps relationship will begin. Hope I've helped. BTW this worked for a couple who have been married now for 33 years, when they were in high school.
2007-09-15 13:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by Emissary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be in the same problem until we started giving hugs to each other now you can't tell who likes who because everyone gives everyone hugs. So yeah i am really really shy to so just start a conversation with him. Ask him like some random question and that will start something.
2007-09-15 16:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things to look for:
1. look at him in the hallway for a second when passing then look back away. if he glances at you its good, then dont look next time, if he still glances its a good sign.
most guys wont search you out at lunch and stuff.
2. start a conversation in class and if he does anything embarassing or struggles to find words its good.
3. get to know him more then ask him out, he seems like he would say yes
:D
2007-09-15 12:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by hoffster12 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Might he not want to appear interested in you in front of his friends - is he afraid they might rib him about that ?
Are you interested in him ?
2007-09-15 12:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Beardo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... in the time you took to write that, you could have asked him out...
...and he would have said yes...
...because otherwise you would talk him to death...
2007-09-15 12:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he does if he smiles at you when you pass eachother in the hall
2007-09-15 12:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i uh don't really think so. he might just think that you're very attractive and can't get enough of you, so he's gotta keep drinking you in.
2007-09-15 11:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Kris 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋