Family & Relationships - 15 September 2007

well i watch this kid mon wed & fri,20 total hrs for $50 a week. my low price is my catch u kno like it's how i get more attention. so they r the reason i issued a 48 hr notice policy. if u couldn't come i got 48 hrs notice then no charge 4 the day, otherwise it was still reg price. @ first i didn't think i would need such a policy but i got tired of the 3 days n a row being called @ 950 when they were supposed 2 have her here between 930-10. well last week they couldn't pay me cuz the dad hadn't got paid yet so i let it go & they paid me the next wed. so this week they can't pay again & asked 2 hold off till next fri. normally np but my hubbie got a lousy check so we need it. i feel bad cuz they're n the same boat my fam is in the cash area but i also kno they aren't helpin me but i'm tryin 2 help them. so do i tell them i can't watch her till they pay me? & should i talk 2 them & tell them 2 find some1 new on an hourly basis so they don't waste my or some1 elses time & their $$?

2007-09-15 18:00:26 · 4 answers · asked by dkchick123 2 in Family

My god, all you Top Contributors do is cut and paste long asss answers from Wikipedia or give 7 paragraph advice that ends "talk to a lawyer" or "see a doctor"

STOP IT

2007-09-15 17:57:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in your opinion.

2007-09-15 17:54:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Its my boyfriends 18th birthday soon and i need gift ideas. I'm thinking of making a big box containing 18 things he likes in it (one thing for each year). I've gotten him a t-shirt already and i was thinking of a bumper sticker for his fav band, a chelsea soccer shirt, and some lacrosse gear for him.

Any other ideas? What sorts of things do guys like?? And please don't say "hide naked in the box" or some stupid crap like that! Thanks!

2007-09-15 17:53:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tonight my mom didn't follow through on promising to pay our loan for two months while my husband is in between jobs. She never said she'd pay the whole loan, but she never said she wouldn't pay any of it either. She left us under the impression that she'd pay the $167 for 2 months. Now we're screwed. But to make matters worse, my father in law was the one who got it for us under the condition that my mom would pay it for those two months. My husband is livid and I'm stuck in the middle. My mom thinks he's using me to abuse her emotionally because he said he's no longer going to help her out with anything, and he basically feels burned. I am stuck choosing my loyalty to either her or him and I just want to curl up in a ball and escape from this hell.

So, is he abusing her/me? Is she using us? Or is it just an unfortunate situation leaving everyone hurt and "wronged"?

2007-09-15 17:48:13 · 2 answers · asked by rhiamon 3 in Family

i thought im the only one who experience slept with her when i knew (she told me when i ask her), eventually she admit that she slept with all of them when they were her bf. I couldnt believe that as i know i was already her bf when she has another 2 bf. i just knew that she has slept with all of them. now she told me it was past thing, i know she tell the truth, i was picked out from the 3 bf she had. but now i know what she has done while she was with me, and it shock me, hurts me. i just want to know, should i continue this relationship, i got all her love but the past story really haunted me, i couldnt slept with her anymore, and i dont want to. i swear i wont touch her anymore until we marry. Please i need some light. my head is terribly mess.

2007-09-15 17:45:57 · 10 answers · asked by xc 3 in Singles & Dating

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2007-09-15 17:45:32 · 6 answers · asked by Obama's GF's BF 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it real? Thanks for your answers.

2007-09-15 17:45:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Problem: The groom wants to make all the decisons in the wedding plans. First, we are planning on getting married at his church, we are planning on using his extended family catering business to do the food, we already got his cousin doing the invitations, he already inviting more guest than me (120 of my guest, and 250 of his guest), he also has more people in the wedding party than me, he also wanted a Junanoo to present us to the reception, we have his aunt to be the MC during the reception. So I decided to hire a wedding planner to help me with the rest, but the groom thinks I am wasting money and that wedding planners rip people off. So now, he wants his other cousins to do the decorations for cememony and reception, get the limos, and etc. Basically everything. So, I told him that I really want my family to be involved in this wedding planning. He tells me that I am dissing his family. So, my question is who is the bride and who makes the most decisions in wedding plans?

2007-09-15 17:39:43 · 23 answers · asked by Diona S 1 in Weddings

It's quite interesting to me... not that I've ever had a significant other who held my hand.... but I was just wondering...

2007-09-15 17:35:06 · 21 answers · asked by Kelly 4 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend acks lk hes listeing to wat i say but i can tell hes not how do i get him to listen and want to listen without being nagging no one lks that!!!

2007-09-15 17:34:46 · 7 answers · asked by alannabanana 2 in Friends

im a worthless piece of crrap...i feel lonely , i have a lot of friends and they always introduce me girls, but im a **** shy and always ruin it. im 17 and havent even kissed a girl . i CANT do anything right , im a clown. also, i cant have sex! i have phimosis,cant retract my foreskin. IM DOOMED. there is no remedy in my life.

2007-09-15 17:32:38 · 23 answers · asked by moimaesrase34 m 1 in Singles & Dating

It would be fun to learn about other people and places by exchanging emails.

2007-09-15 17:31:20 · 9 answers · asked by Spencer 1 in Friends

my mother passed away suddenly last saturday...when i saw her, she really looked as if she was sleeping...which made me feel ok since my siblings would have that memory as well...she was not an organ donor, but we decided to donate a small portion of her skin for skin graphing...they promised to respect her body and not violate either what we gave permission for, or her remains...my mother was a pretty woman, but when i went to the funeral home to preview her before then viewing, what was there, was not my mom...they took everything including her bones...that face is burned in my memory for ever...it looked like an ugly mask...i am so thankful to God that i decided to go view her alone that day...i would not be able to live with myself if my siblings had seen that...now, i have to live with the fact that i denied them the right to see their mother before burring her...i had to order the casket be closed...she was loved by so many people...they didn't get to see her one last time...

2007-09-15 17:28:24 · 8 answers · asked by la21unica 4 in Family

i am very hurt about it and am against it in my marriage. i dont understand why he does this and am ready to divorce him for this and other things he has done in the passed. i feel that i have given up on trying to work it out when all he does is screw up.

2007-09-15 17:26:37 · 18 answers · asked by elizabeth c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

should i leave him alone, or keep seeing him, i'm in love with him. he said that he was not happy with his wife, the only time he's happy is when we see each other.we live 5hr away from each other. tell me. i do not know what to do.

2007-09-15 17:26:08 · 39 answers · asked by fatkat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for 3 1/2 years, and right after we were married I found out I was pregnant. During the time I was pregnant my husband worked maybe a couple of months, and some of the time he was actually lieing about going to work. The whole time we have been married he has bounced around from job to job leaving us far in debt, without food many times in the house, and evicted from three different homes. After three years I would think something would change, he is not a cheater and loves me very much but I could not deal with the stress. We have been split up for the last month and a half and I am working on getting the divorce, meanwhile living with my mother in law. This is a very difficult situation, as I am seeing someone that I work with. I like this person very much and I often go see him overnight....my mother in law always makes comments about this situation and how wrong I am because I'm technically still married. I need advice and words of wisdom?

2007-09-15 17:20:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

heres the facts: hes 9 years older im 23 hes 32, has a GF of 2 months, he works at a resort (where they basically get paid to flirt) however, we really hit it off we hung out after he got off work hanging out at the resorts bars, talked all day while he "worked", on his days off he invited me to a beach, and his pickup football game. i shrugged it off cause i figure oh its his job,to talk and be friendly. but i found myself really falling for him...hes so humble and sweet and kinda shy. He would walk me back to my hotel room every night to make sure i was safe,a few nights because i probabally wouldnt have made it back without his help, i kissed him good night on the cheek a few times and there were hugs exchanged but he never tried anything. My last day i met him at his car and he had tears in his eyes, it took all i had not to ball my eyes out (im not that kind of girl) i miss him so much and moving there wouldnt be horrible for me but i dont know if i should for a guy i just met

2007-09-15 17:14:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If went out with this guy for about two months. I was his first girlfriend and we are both in our late 20s. He is a pretty shy guy and doesn't have alot of self-confidence. I got really upset back in August and I ended things with him. Mostly because he liked to play a lot of "online games" and he was talking with another girl from a million miles away and he told me upfront about it and he also told me that she had plans to come visit him in September.
Well apparently she was out here last week and her "boyfriend" or "ex-boyfriend" found out and he broke into her myspace account and I guess he left some really "mean" and "threatening" things on his myspace.
Anyway, yesterday I get contacted by this guy I dated. He was asking me if I had been fooling around and sending him messages, breaking into his account, etc. He was pretty nice to me. Of course, I responded with a HUGE no, cause I had no idea what he wanted.
So, after meeting her why is he now contacting me? innocent?

2007-09-15 17:09:51 · 2 answers · asked by jadamoonstarlovesu 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend son is 5 years old he still wears a diaper nothing is wrong with kid. my friend is just a lazy poor exuse for a farther. (I THINK THE KID DOES IT ON SPITE)The kid mother is out of the picture. He tryed to send his son in school wearing a diaper. The school obviously won't take him. He is under the impression it is the school responsibility to take him they cant rufuse a child's education. I never heard of any teacher thats going to change a 5 year old? wouldnt social services get involved? Even if the kid got into school wearing a diaper wouldnt the other kids make fun of him if not potty trained?

2007-09-15 17:09:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 28 years old and yes, I have never had a girlfriend and I do not believe in sex before marriage so I am also a virgin. Also, I have not even experienced my first kiss. I just haven't had the opportunity yet with the right person. I have had chances to "fool around", God I hate that term, but I turned them down because it didn't feel right, plus a part of me wants to see how long I can keep up my uber-vigin streak! Lol, it's kind of funny I think. But my friends and even some people in my family are starting to suggest that I should start dating. I have gone on maybe 3 in my life and I hated them, they were so awkward. My family members suggest only dating, but my friends go even further, telling me to think about the future. I don't think I want to get married or have kids. The friends say I will die a lonely old man. I am not married or in a relationship now an

2007-09-15 16:56:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 16:56:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 16:50:15 · 1 answers · asked by fourtyplus 1 in Singles & Dating

So here is the scenerio,

I like this person and he just started Dating someone else :0(

I need to get him out of my head!!!. I have prayed to Jehovah already, but i feel like i need to to my part in trying to forget him as well. my friends are pretty much tired of me talking about this person so much so i dont want to be a burden on them anymore then i already have regarding this topic

Does anyone have any advice on how to not like a person anymore? im tired of going to sleep thinking about him eventhought i know he is dating. it really hurts me that i still think about him even thought i know he is dating someone else. :0(

2007-09-15 16:49:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last year, I accidently found out my new husband had been "using "porn secretly quite a bit. We had been very active sexually, and I was very happy. I can't get over the feeling that there must be something wrong with me for this to be necessary. I guess I haven't had too much experience with other men to feel confident, because this has distroyed my self confidence as a woman. We did alot of fun stuff sexually, and I am attractive, I think. What is the solution?

2007-09-15 16:42:19 · 26 answers · asked by Skye7112 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, My sister and brother-in -law and their two chinesse pugs are living with us.
I would have it no other way.
I love them here.
They are trying to get on their feet and I am glad to help them
BUT,, The two pugs smell god awful...
They have my house smelling like a shut down kennal.
It is horrible.
She has bathed them. It doesnt help. They are horrible.
I am a clean freak. Well not freak. but, I do enjoy a nice clean and smelling clean home.
My house smells horrible.
Any advice?

2007-09-15 16:37:54 · 8 answers · asked by stacie m 4 in Family

my parents arnt exactly the ones to go to help they fight cuss at me hit me they do alot to make me cry in my room. if i go to a counsler i will get them in trouble and to top it all my mom found out she has cancer.

2007-09-15 16:36:42 · 18 answers · asked by diana k 1 in Family

I work with this woman (not in my department). We've gone out a couple of times and we take the same smoke breaks. Two nights ago, we've talked on the phone for about 2 hours, shared a lot of laughs, etc. And one time, we actually kissed.
Now all of a sudden, things have changed. Whenever I walk by, she ignores me. Whenever I step out to have a smoke, she quickly walks back in, regardless if she just lit her cigarette or not. Whenever she's around our mutual friends and coworkers, she quickly cuts her eyes in my direction and suddenly I'm getting the cold shoulder all around, and I'm thinking that she may or may not have said something bad about me.

I know I'm probably gotta get in trouble for saying this but WTF???! I could deal with her just telling me to shove off, but this passive aggressive crap is pissing me off. Is it something I said or did to her directly or indirectly? Or is she just taking the "hard to get" role to a whole other level?

Somebody...anybody...HELP! l LOL

2007-09-15 16:35:50 · 8 answers · asked by Prince_of_Storms 2 in Singles & Dating

ok this guy that has been talkin to me for like 3 weeks asked me out to the movies. which is great and all but then my parents want to meet him.. he says ok and then the day before he is all like~
why do ur parents want to meet me??
i was like~ IDK they just do
He was like~ well ok i just wanted to make sure that u didnt think we were dating or gonna date.!!

WOW what am i supposed to do??? do i still talk to him and try to hook up with him? or do i just completly iggnore him from now on???

everyone told me that he likes me and he knows i like him.... im soooooo confused!! can u please help me!

2007-09-15 16:33:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here is the deal...my husband has been working out of town for the past couple of months..he is maybe home a day or two every week if he is lucky. I am home with our 3 kids ( all boys) 11, 3 ,and 3 months old. My birthday is next week and I would like to go spend that night up there with him, he is about 4 1/2 hrs away. I ask him about it and he says NO WAY..he doesn't want me up there at his job.Well first of all I would not be at his "job".... I would be at the hotel where he is staying and I would love to have a break from the kids. The reason he gave me was he did not mix business with family....some lame excuse. I really DO NOT know what to think about it. I mean he constantly tells me of the other guys cheating on their wives and girlfriends while they are working up there. SO if you were me would you go on up there even though he has said NOT TO and surprise him? or should I go up there and "OBSERVE" what is going on or should I JUST STAY HOME? I need some advice. WWYD?

2007-09-15 16:16:19 · 56 answers · asked by Suzie Q 2 in Marriage & Divorce