i thought im the only one who experience slept with her when i knew (she told me when i ask her), eventually she admit that she slept with all of them when they were her bf. I couldnt believe that as i know i was already her bf when she has another 2 bf. i just knew that she has slept with all of them. now she told me it was past thing, i know she tell the truth, i was picked out from the 3 bf she had. but now i know what she has done while she was with me, and it shock me, hurts me. i just want to know, should i continue this relationship, i got all her love but the past story really haunted me, i couldnt slept with her anymore, and i dont want to. i swear i wont touch her anymore until we marry. Please i need some light. my head is terribly mess.
2007-09-15 17:45:57 · 10 answers · asked by xc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-09-15 17:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by markcon75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same-ish thing happened with my boyfriend. I found out that he had slept with a girl and lied to me about it before we had started going out. I was very hurt by it, but we talked though it. The reason that your girlfriend didn't tell you is probably because she didn't want to upset you, and she didn't think that it mattered since it is in the past. Either that or she didn't want you to think less of her because of the number of people she has had sex with. Just remember that they broke up, and just because she has had sex with other guys doesn't mean she doesn't love you and enjoy it when you two do. I don't think it is a good enough reason to break up with her if you really love her. Just talk it out.
2007-09-16 00:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you're in love with that girl. I would suggest leaving her since she just play feeling with guys. She doesn't fit you and I don't know what is her purpose of doing that.Maybe sex???If you'll marry that girl, you regret and end it on a divorce. She's not satisfied with one man. Do you think when not sleeping with, she's loyal to you? Don't be too hero for that girl. Find another woman that really compatible for your love.
2007-09-16 00:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was definately wrong of her to keep that from you. If its something that you can not get over it seems like you should end the relationship. Who's to say that if you are to ever get married that your feeling about not wanting to touch her would change.
2007-09-16 00:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so confused by your question! But IF I understand. You are angry because your girlfriend said she didn't sleep with her other boyfriends and she did!
If that's it, then get over it. What really bothers you. That you are not the only one or that she did not tell you the truth!
Sounds like.......that you are NOT the only one!
2007-09-16 00:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has skeletons in their closet. Just be thankful that hers are out and that the feeling you're having right now is the worst feeling you'll experience. It'll get much MUCH better. Just wait it out.
2007-09-16 00:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Chris Clayton 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's lying to you about this stuff. Don't date her and for God's sake don't marry her. You need to take some time away from the dating scene yourself I think.
2007-09-16 00:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by jehovah_nostra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but I, for one, will be needing that in English.
2007-09-16 00:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by mosaic 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What language are you writing this in?...................anyway, she is obviously a Ho...........so just forget about her
2007-09-16 00:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by Hercules 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She ****. Dump her do it now.
2007-09-16 00:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by atheleticman_fan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋