If went out with this guy for about two months. I was his first girlfriend and we are both in our late 20s. He is a pretty shy guy and doesn't have alot of self-confidence. I got really upset back in August and I ended things with him. Mostly because he liked to play a lot of "online games" and he was talking with another girl from a million miles away and he told me upfront about it and he also told me that she had plans to come visit him in September.
Well apparently she was out here last week and her "boyfriend" or "ex-boyfriend" found out and he broke into her myspace account and I guess he left some really "mean" and "threatening" things on his myspace.
Anyway, yesterday I get contacted by this guy I dated. He was asking me if I had been fooling around and sending him messages, breaking into his account, etc. He was pretty nice to me. Of course, I responded with a HUGE no, cause I had no idea what he wanted.
So, after meeting her why is he now contacting me? innocent?
2007-09-15 17:09:51 · 2 answers · asked by jadamoonstarlovesu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before she came out here, he was saying how he was falling for her and he was also falling for me. It's like he wanted me to "wait around" while he met her, even saying stuff like "not sure if I should meet her because you feel so right and so good."
I'm just totally confused. Did he just use his current situation in order to email me?
Is he trying to get me back? If so, it's a lame and lazy way to do it.
Should I expect to hear from him again?
New to the dating world, been married and now divorced so I have a hard time figuring guys out and what it is they want.
Thanks!
2007-09-15 17:10:14 · update #1
I agree with waterdragon. He wanted to check out the other chick and see if she was better than you, and if she was he would dump you and if she wasn't he would try to get back with you. Exactly what he's doing now. He's slick for a shy guy. Just tell him to leave you alone because he looks like a player in making. You will find somebody don't worry. Good luck.
P.S. I'm sorry I just say that you only wanted guys to answer. Sorry. :)
2007-09-15 17:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by DoLz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry it looks like he wants to have his cake and eat it --- keeping you "no hold" so to speak while he checks out this other lady --- if he cant decide now its best to leave him alone --- he will either dither around or cheat on you all the time more likely both ---- best wishes
2007-09-16 00:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋