Family & Relationships - 15 September 2007

I have a problem. I fell in love with a married man. We have had oral sex and I love his D. I tried telling his wife but she just laughed and said as long as she gets his check she don't care. So how do I get them to break up?

2007-09-15 15:04:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 15:03:12 · 12 answers · asked by updo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend just got a tanning package. I don't even tan. I told him he doesn't need to tan, he looks fine, but he insists on doing so.....What do you think?

2007-09-15 15:03:02 · 9 answers · asked by kris10dice 4 in Singles & Dating

Late-twenties guy.

I'm short and thin. I'm self conscious about this since people treat me like a kid since I look like one.

I haven't been able to get a gf since I'm short and even short girls want someone taller. Girls think I'm cute, but they wont date since Im short

How can I deal with this? Thanks

2007-09-15 15:02:33 · 3 answers · asked by . 1 in Friends

Both my parents (even though they are divorced) are Protestant and I am converting to Catholicism. PLEASE! When replying to this, don't rag on Catholicism or Christianity...

Anyways, my mom and I recently had a big arguement, and she has decided she is coming out to my place (she is flying out here next weekend) to discuss it with me and meet my boyfriend who is Catholic. She believes I am converting because of him. (which I am NOT)

I know I can't convince her that Catholicism is a good thing, but how can I manage being around her, and letting her meet my boyfriend, when she is so bitter and nasty about it? Any tips on dealing with it?

2007-09-15 15:01:58 · 5 answers · asked by Treasa 5 in Family

im 14 and by state of law i can work with a work permit.my mom won't let me have one.what should i do.

should i ignore her and hate her till she gives me one?

2007-09-15 15:01:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My sister is going out with a real scumbag felon. I lent her money several months ago and she has yet to pay me back. What I am pissed off about is she drove, because this piece of .... doesn't have a license, to NJ to gamble and lost $4000. I have a family and was under the impression that I was to be paid back. I think this person broke parole. I want to contact the PA parole department. What do you think?

Also, if she admits that she is doing wrong by seeing this person and she moved out THREE times, how long do you all think this BS will last. It is upsetting me, MY father, and our entire family despises this person and her for degrading our name.

2007-09-15 14:59:51 · 4 answers · asked by cappatown23 3 in Family

I think little things that a guy does or doesn't do are important in a relationship. My guy loves me very much, but sometimes he's just so clueless. I know he's a guy and guys aren't perfect, at ALL...but some things he does make me sad and he doesn't realize it. I try to casually mention them but it's hard.

2007-09-15 14:57:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sis ndI got into a huge fight last nite.Shes the type of person that will come forward and say sorry first, but ive found that her apologies mean nothing. she says a lot of hurtful things repeatedly and she never learns anything from her mistakes(she'll never admit that she's wrong)Anyways a lot of the things she was sayin to me was about guys/relationships and how i am completely selfish/don't listen to her problems, and i always talk abotu myself. i know i dont', becuz i try to lisen to a lot of what she says..and all i do is giv her advice nd try to relate, isn't that was most normal people do? i giv her real advice, but i know she just wants me to act a punchin bag she can vent to but that gets overwhelming and annoying sometimes cuz i have my own problems to deal with if she can't take critism, y does she ask? now, i don't noe wut 2 do because i don't want her to depreciate me lik that if she at least cant apreciate me. i dont want her 2vent on me anymore, but sheIS my sis.

2007-09-15 14:57:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok 18th bday and he has everything he wants already.what could i possiby get him?

2007-09-15 14:55:16 · 1 answers · asked by dmjara 1 in Singles & Dating

At same time, he don't know if I exist around the house or not dang it. Yes I have talked to him in a calm and decent way, and he just don't get it. I'm running out of patience here with this man. Been married to him for 7yrs, I have no kids with him, we have our own from diff. marriages, my youngest is 14 yrs old and his is 18 (his still living at home), total, he has 3 girls and a boy from other two previous marriages, only the boy is living with us, and I have 2 boy and girl at home. Its been hard for both. I don't know what else to do to pay attention to me, we hardly talk, and if we do, always disagree and end up arguing.

2007-09-15 14:54:17 · 5 answers · asked by Frania727 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I seriously need one right now.I need one that will make me mad at him instead of wishing I was still with him.What could I listen to?Please help!!!!!I have been crying for 2 hours and I want it to stop!

2007-09-15 14:50:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We start going out for 3 months he told me w e are going to fast he kind of broke up with me but still want to see me and text me almost evry day!!! what should I do??

2007-09-15 14:49:07 · 1 answers · asked by Maria 2000 1 in Singles & Dating

signed anything (he wasn't aware of this), and now she stopped making the payments. I do have an account in the same bank, and Im worried they take my money out to pay my husband's ex-wife account...Could they do this???
Can they take my money out even though my husband is not in my account? we are legally married and they were not, and my address is the same she used in the joint account.

2007-09-15 14:46:44 · 17 answers · asked by Laila. McCarthy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am so afraid that I will never find the RIGHT guy....... So I never comitt
Any advise?

2007-09-15 14:45:42 · 7 answers · asked by Mindi 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 14:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-15 14:37:36 · 36 answers · asked by suharris1262 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a long abusive relationship. I let my Husband beat me badly and hit our three month old baby in head. We have been separted for senven month now. I miss him dearly so do the children. He says he has changed. I talked to him on the phone the other day. He yelled at me and talked about me so bad I knew if we were face to face, he would have beat me. What do I do DO I let him come back try it again or get a divorce. We have tried cousoling twice we never had more than two sessions. I need some help some support some advice. From men and women please!!

2007-09-15 14:35:13 · 58 answers · asked by WHY ME 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 14:34:56 · 15 answers · asked by suharris1262 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you were without a car for years, catching bus and bumming ride for years, even walking home in the dark sometimes, and mum wasn't even trying to help you get a car, then later on, you are finally in a position where you can get your OWN car and don't worry about nobody, but mum is completely against you getting your car for stupid reasons, while your dad was actually taking you to car lots to look around, would you disobey your mother and get a car anyway? I'm a 22 year old man and I think I should do what I want with my own hard earned money. I NEED a car. I should be able to make my own decisions. What would you do though? Make her stop you from getting your car, or get the car anyway?

2007-09-15 14:23:21 · 7 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Family

Okay Last night i went skating. My friend told me to meet her there cause she wanted me to meet her boyfriend. I met him. Im skating with my friends and someone goes "Oh look. Trevor's here. " I was like WHERE!!! (Trevor is the guy i have been crushing on for a while) I saw him, and you know how guys say hi by like doing a head knoddy thing, well he did that and got his skates on. I tried making conversation but the more i talked the more stupid things came out of my mouth and the more weirder he looked at me. But anyways. I was in line talking to my friend cause we were about to get a drink and he skated towards me and he came up behind and slapped my butt and i was like "Im gonna get you back. " He turned around so i could slap his butt and i did. Then hes like I shouldnt of came here i could of been at the movies making out with this girl named Holly so I skated off. but we had a good convo after that. Idk if he likes me or not cuz after that he was flirting with these other girls.

2007-09-15 14:22:06 · 21 answers · asked by Rachel N 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you like a good girl? Besides answering the question, can you also write how old you are. Please be honest.

2007-09-15 14:20:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like I will talk to anyone who needs someone to talk to or let someone use my cell phone. My mom says I should not trust peole so easy she thinks am going to b raped or hurt really bad, Cuz I hate being mean. I told her that is not going to happen she just keeps saying that she wants me to b mean sometimes cuz she said I might have to be mean to be safe what goes she mean?

2007-09-15 14:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is this girl named C.C. She is very beautiful and im kinda fat and have never been liked by a girl. She asked personal questions like if i have a girlfriend. if i liked anyone. if i had anyone to go to homecoming with and who would i take. This is shocking to me as i have NEVER been asked these question. At first i never thought of her as a possibility of who i would ever go out with. But after i kinda got confused. First i cant tel if shes sending hints or just being curious. what should i do to

Find out if she likes me.
See if she was just asking.
What i should do to approach the situation

She still talks to me. She is very pretty and i will get all sick if i were to eventhink about asking out. She is not my type because she is so outgoing and flirtatious and i have always been interested in shy girls but ilike her so can someone help me out. I asked a similar question but im trying to get as many answeres as possible cause i have no past experience whatsoever

2007-09-15 14:18:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone,

What do you think about my life? How can I improve it? (Sorry for the poor grammar--English is my second language.)

I am 22 years old. I am a lower middle class. I am a virgin. I am a good person. I am studying full-time (last year in a Master's program) I am working two part-time jobs. I want to save my money ;therefore, I have no cars, no phones, and living in a little room. I hardly have a social life because I am spending my time working and studying.

Sometimes, I am proud of myself because I will have my master's without debts or student loans. Sometimes, I feel so discourage and down to see other people my age have fun and enjoy life while I have to work so hard.

What do you think? Please advice. Thank you so much for your kindness.

2007-09-15 14:17:55 · 7 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everyone is crazy over my cooking, but my ex-boyfriend didn't like a home-cooked meal.

2007-09-15 14:08:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, please hold back judgements and remember that I am in pain. For those of you who remember, last week the guy I was dating broke up with me because he felt like he had to give things one more try with his ex-wife (yes, ex they are divorced) for the sake of their two kids. She has always wanted him back and he has not. Although he feels very guilty because of the kids. I'm sorry. I still love him. I know I should be hoping they get back together, but I am human and still wish we were together. I so don't understand what has happened here. So, in your opinion how often do second chances actually work after they have already divorced???

2007-09-15 13:57:24 · 9 answers · asked by Sleepless in Seattle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I cook
I clean
I stay home with the kids
I give him sex when he wants and hold nothing back
I don't nag
I do get edgy about once a week

2007-09-15 13:51:08 · 13 answers · asked by dennis w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I can't find an affordable place with our own space and he suggested we move into one of the trailer parks here. The rent is the same as in the boarding house we stay in now but we wont have to deal with all the crazy people. But i don't want to I mean that's like hitting rock bottom! And I've never had to stay in a trailer or even an apartment for that matter! It's bad enough I have to take the bus everywhere now that my mom has taken back the car she gave me to use since I got married but to live in a trailer? That's too much! My husband said i was just being a spoiled brat and got mad at me and said he was going to move there if I went with him or not! But that's not fair because without him I have nothing: nobody and no money since I'm unemployed! I mean would you live in a place like that?

2007-09-15 13:46:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is dating a 20 year old and his parents don't care. I'm really worried though. He said the guy has come onto him and stuff already and they've been.. messing around. I would just tell the authorities, but I don't live in the same state as him anymore. What should I do?

2007-09-15 13:43:55 · 15 answers · asked by x1jessx 1 in Friends