2007-09-15 14:34:56 · 15 answers · asked by suharris1262 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Almost every town has a battered woman's shelter or a hotline. Go to this website and look at the info and phone numbers. Call one and ask for advice.
http://www.feminist.org/911/crisis.html
2007-09-15 14:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ginger/Virginia 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My dear friend: I have suffered through three (3) extremely abusive relationships. It may seem like you do NOT have a place to go. Any place away from him is better than staying with him and enduring his abuse.
There are shelters for battered women in most every city in the country. Please call the National Center For Domestic Abuse toll free hot-line. They will help you find a shelter near you.
If you do NOT have transportation, the shelter will make arrangements to meet you somewhere to pick you up and take you there.
Do NOT let your husband know you have or are planning on calling them. This will enrage him!
Please call them immediately even if it means walking or driving to a pay phone. If you don't do this immediately, the next beating may be your last.
I myself have spent time at three different shelters for battered women and they really will help you, I promise! If you have children, you can take them with you.
I sincerely hope you will take my advice. Here is the number to call: 1-800-799-SAFE
http://www.ndvh.org/
2007-09-15 22:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Buddie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not true. There are many organizations for battered women. You need to get away from him. Do you want to end up dead. I know it is not easy, but staying with a monster like that will only bring misery and pain. Don't you have family? Come on sweetie, where there is a will, there is a way. There is a link down bellow, go and check it out. But whatever you decide to do, please get out. Get away from him. You deserve better.
2007-09-15 22:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Ricardo R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can speak from experience also, there are places to go, Do Not stay, it will only get worse!!! Call 911, call a friend, call the nearest shelter, call someone and get out of there!! You are too special to put up with this from anyone!! Please Be Careful and Get Out of There!!
2007-09-15 22:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ginny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always someplace to go : a church, a friend, a family member, a hospital, a victim service agency, a woman's shelter. Fine one and go.
2007-09-15 21:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by green_clovers66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex used to hit me all the time and I cried and delt with it. One day I decided to turn the tables and start fighting BACK. He then was only mentally abusive NOT physically. It has made me %100 stronger then I used to be
2007-09-15 22:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by I love America♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call 800-799-SAFE or go here http://www.ndvh.org/ and get information that can help you.
You do not stay with anyone who abuses you, period. Call the cops and have his sorry self arrested. Then you can stay, and he can live in the local prison.
2007-09-15 21:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes every women says that when their marriage turns to custard "I have nowhere to go". There are plenty of options available to women try a refuge, women's centre. Don't think your life is over.
2007-09-15 21:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave and never come back. There is always a place to go.
2007-09-16 01:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always somewhere to go.Call 911 for help.They can find somewhere for you to go after the cops come and take your husband away.
2007-09-15 21:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by Teresa 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋