I cook
I clean
I stay home with the kids
I give him sex when he wants and hold nothing back
I don't nag
I do get edgy about once a week
2007-09-15 13:51:08 · 13 answers · asked by dennis w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sweetie him cheating has nothing to do with what you will or wont do for him or to him. its a character flaw in him and some deeper issues that he has to sort out and face with a professional. you need to get yourself together and stop allowing this man to walk all over you. you deserve much better than the treat he is giving you. stop focusing on him on start focusing on you and the kids. you have to do whats best for the kids you dont want your little girl accepting this crap from her husband and you dont want your boys treating their wives like this so you need to put your foot down. and let husband know that enough is enough and if he doesnt want to be here with you and the kids anymore get to stepping. you dont need this.life is too short for this non sense sweetie. put a end to this ASAP. GodBless
2007-09-15 14:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't beleave its a gender thing. i've been married twice. My first wife cheated several time's with no reason. I made a better choice this time.
In neither case have i or did i cheat. Never thought about cheating. This also goes for seriuos relationships i never cheated.
I don't window shop for something i don't need, maybe thats it.
So i have no idea why people cheat. Mental issues best i can think of. As my first wife is now remarried and in an abusive relationship and on welfare. I wasn't abusive and have a good carreer, stable.
2007-09-15 21:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by ball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive never cheated. Dont cheat on me and i will return the favor. You cheat on me i will leave. Some people cheat others dont. There are just as many women cheaters as men. How sexist a question i am truly offended. I was gonna ask you women how i can keep you from cheating on us fellas.
It sounds like you are good partner if you know for a fact that hes cheating leave. He has violated the trust your relationship was founded on. Plus you will get the kids and a good chunk of his cash flow for a while. Although this will be VERY HARD on your kids you have to take care of yourself and its not your fault if you leave its his for not attending to YOUR needs
2007-09-15 21:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the person. some do. some dont.
oddly it almost seems that those the dont oft end up with those that do.
also depends on the reasons they do. all have their reasons their inner logic for they act. because of how they felt. the rush they get from it. because they thought it was a good way to get abck at some one. because it hurts someone. maybe other things, maybe a mix. some look for reasons/excuses first, some dont.
what your asking is tantamount to the greatest sin in a realtionship that I know of. trying to change the other person.
wanting him/her to change who they are. part of their personal identity maybe a cheating. trying to change them maybe your thing. staying with them proves that. so doing that keeps you.
losing you means they move on to someone else thats more intrested in being treated like that.
2007-09-15 20:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by Andy C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it always have to be your way or no way??
Do you think that your petty things are most important issues in the world?
Do you take care of yourself?: that includes trimming nails, put good make up, keep yourself look fresh and clean, wearing good style cloth...not just plain old cowboy look (t-shirt, jeans). Yes and do you iron your cloth?
Are you fat? lazy? are you good listener?
Plus you have to be a woman, stop taking over hammering nails, fixing stuff and prove that you do it better. Feminism IS NOT sexy.
Well that is most reasons why I quit dating my exes
2007-09-15 22:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't believe that anything keeps a man from cheating, the problem with men is that they are afraid to talk about things that are troubling them so instead they turn to someone else. Men need to learn how to communicate with their partners and be happy with who they marry.
2007-09-15 20:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by christina37isfree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated and never would.
Some guys, no, they're going to cheat regardless of what you do. There's a good chance it's not even your fault, it's just who they are. Don't let those types make you bring yourself down and generalize men. Sorry you have to feel that way...
2007-09-15 20:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jinton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be dominant sometimes. Show you cannot be pushed.
Instill some kind of fear in him. You need to think how.
Plan things that will make him fear the worst if he strays.
2007-09-16 11:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sleuth! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would need a male Chasity belt to keep men from cheating.
2007-09-15 20:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would take you. thats all i would ever want out of a women besides a female that is also caring and would also talk and not hold anything back
2007-09-15 20:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by souljaboy4id 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋