At same time, he don't know if I exist around the house or not dang it. Yes I have talked to him in a calm and decent way, and he just don't get it. I'm running out of patience here with this man. Been married to him for 7yrs, I have no kids with him, we have our own from diff. marriages, my youngest is 14 yrs old and his is 18 (his still living at home), total, he has 3 girls and a boy from other two previous marriages, only the boy is living with us, and I have 2 boy and girl at home. Its been hard for both. I don't know what else to do to pay attention to me, we hardly talk, and if we do, always disagree and end up arguing.
2007-09-15 14:54:17 · 5 answers · asked by Frania727 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you two can find something to do together on a weekly basis like take a class or go to a sports event every week. Do stuff together, without the kids, and you'll have more in common and more to talk about. Hopefully that works. Definitely don't just quit on your marriage. There was a reason you married eachother. Sometimes we just need reminding.
2007-09-15 15:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want this to work do something unexpected .send all the kids off somewhere and you and him have some alone time.wear something that insinuates your body and go for it.if this does not get the message after you force the issue by doing this ,he may not be the guy.I know this what you have but love is something that you need and as a women you should not compromise this.YOU NEED TO PUT YOUR FEELINGS FIRST AND DO WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD.
2007-09-15 22:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by kingml213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't sound like much of a relationship at all. If he isn't willing to change, do you want to continue living like this? You could decide to stay living with him but get on with your life without his involvement. Or, you could decide to end this relationship so that you can be free to pursue someone else who would like to have a more active relationship with you.
2007-09-15 22:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move out and on.
2007-09-15 22:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you start feeling desireable and you know it threw and threw that you deserve some love you will get it. be love and you will get it in return.
2007-09-15 22:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋