I am so afraid that I will never find the RIGHT guy....... So I never comitt
Any advise?
2007-09-15 14:45:42 · 7 answers · asked by Mindi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes Mindi. I know the feeling. I suffer through same situations. When i commit I am loyal but its difficult to find people who we could trust to be the same.
I think there are right people, but we will take time and hey rather be safe then sorry.
Just not the type who will jump into relationships.
but dont give up there are people out there and you will get them, I promise.
2007-09-16 13:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by Chigzy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one! I was married for two years and have been divorced for 19 years! I am also afraid of commitment and can't seem to find the "right" guy".
2007-09-15 21:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by green_clovers66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not finding the right guy, but instead finding the right guy for you. Take your time, there are millions out there and one or two will fit in. I would say love blindly, thats what I did, but I just got hurt more, so instead I just enjoyed my single life until my wife came around. We met, hung out, but weren't looking for a relationship. Your best friends become your greatest lovers, so take your time, get to know people and you'll be fine in the long run.
2007-09-15 22:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Otis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i swore I'd never get married again! Even dating gets to be to much for me if the guy starts getting to mushy! So yes some of us are afriad of commitment!! I personally just don't want the financial burden of another spouse. When my husband passed away the finances were awful! it's taken me nearly 12 years to get back on my feet and I still have some of his bills to pay!
2007-09-15 21:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by bluebonnets1952 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think about commitment constantly and then i remember im only 20 and i have my whole life ahead of me..Give it time, one day that special guy will come around believe me there is always hope!
2007-09-15 22:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mindi: What is a right guy according to you? What do you require of someone to be able to contribute to your happiness? Lets talk about this when you want too. E-Mail me. Dan
2007-09-15 21:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am afraid of commitment also....... but that is a good thing if u think about it. i think that there is one person out there for everyone and when i or in this case u find that person i don't think that u'll be afraid anymore because u'll know that they are the one..................;)
maybe its me ;)
2007-09-17 05:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by schultzie2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋