I have a problem. I fell in love with a married man. We have had oral sex and I love his D. I tried telling his wife but she just laughed and said as long as she gets his check she don't care. So how do I get them to break up?
2007-09-15 15:04:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How would you feel if someone was trying to break up your marriage? She laughs because he's done this before and ALWAYS comes home to her which he will ALWAYS do. You're obviously a joke to her and him for that matter. I don't condone what you did and feel people that mess with someones marriage deserve what they get so at this point you need to drop out of the picture. Why put your self through, you are fighting a losing battle he knows what you have to offer yet stills stays with his wife. Doesn't that tell you something?
FYI, It wasn't YOUR place to tell his wife!
2007-09-15 15:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Georgia Peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So - what makes you so sure that IF you get him, he won't turn around and cheat on you with another woman?
What makes you think there isn't another woman out there just like you that will help him to cheat on you and find ways to break you two up?
And being infatuated with his "equipment" does Not qualify for "being in love" - that's called lust!
And why on earth would you go and tell his wife about your affair - so she'd leave him right? And it backfired on you. What if now he don't want you at all because you interfered?
I definitely suggest 1) counseling because you have some serious issues that need addressed and resolved; 2) find yourself a single man you can be with.
Best Wishes to you all.
2007-09-15 22:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Ariana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should leave that married man alone with his wife and read your question again did you fall in love with him or his d but if he loves his wife then back off but if they mariage is fallin apart then do yo thang and tell the man how you feel and if he wants to leave his wife and go with you then he will do that but if he loves his wife a lot i think u gone have a hard time breaking them up but think about what you do befor you do it thats my advice to so take it and use it wisley
2007-09-15 23:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by patricia c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a married man won't leave his wife for his mistress. trust me i learned this the hard way. and why would he?? he has the best of both worlds. the best thing for you is to step away and find a single man to fall in love with you.
2007-09-15 23:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all u r wrong. If he wanted to be with u then he would leave his wife. The wife do not care because she sick. I would be very hurt and mad if my husband did it to me. What goes around and comes around. Let it go you deserve someone who will be honest and u known it. Let him go he is not right and u do not want to be caught up in drama.
2007-09-16 00:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he isn't going to break up with an intelligent woman like his wife to wind up with a stupid whore. I'm sure he has more self respect than that...Of course his wife laughed AT you...you're being used. I would laugh at you too.
2007-09-15 23:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are nothing but a homewrecker , why do you want a married man ? He is never going to leave his wife you idiot and why would he when he can have you both DUH ! get a clue and a life of your own , and leave the man with a wife alone !! Grow up !
2007-09-15 22:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you haven't fell in love, you are lusting after yourself. You should avoiding the fruit of adultery. The man who commits adultery is an udder fool, for he destroys his own soul. Proverbs 6:32
2007-09-15 22:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you don't get the picture that he is not leaving his wife for you. What comes around goes around.
2007-09-16 03:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you aren't. Further, why would you want to? She knows he cheats, he knows he cheats and neither one cares.
There's an old saying..."if they will cheat WITH you, they will cheat ON you."
You deserve better....walk away from both of them. Find someone who isn't that shallow. There are guys out there who are worthy. Look and you will see them.
2007-09-15 22:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by Wendy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋