On Friday, me and my friends went to a b-day and we played truth or dare. So after we go swimming my friend comes up to me in private and dared me to hug him. So I did. Then I dared him to hug me and he said he had a better idead. We go through my firends gate into alley and he said this is what I realy wanted to dare you and he started to rub against me. So I've had a crush on him for sometime and I just found out that he liked me. So at first I was happy but then he is all I think about. What should I do? Should I risk our friendship or not?
2007-09-15 11:46:50 · 8 answers · asked by water_guardian_temple_19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like he might want more than you need to be offering him, so you might need to slow down considerably. Going together is ONE thing. Sex is quite another. The "rubbing himself against you" is kinda like a red flag in my opinion. Just be careful, ok?
2007-09-15 11:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already did, when you complied with the "rubbing up against". He sounds like a game player. You should just keep him as a friend and never speak of the incident again unless he brings it up. He sounds like he's about to mess up your friendship already by being evasive now after he put the moves on you. Be careful. He sounds like a Hurter. Don't walk into being the Hurtee. Good Luck.
2007-09-15 18:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Nuveau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take things slow, it is best to start as friends as you know you have things in common. Just don't rush and be careful! Don't listen to what others say about your sexuality, it doesn't involve them. JUST TAKE IT SLOW
2007-09-15 18:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he really likes you and don't act so eager to be with him. Let him chase you for a little bit. And give it up to he tooo quickly
2007-09-15 18:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by Feelsolost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel it's the right thing to do, and that your friendship is strong enuff to hold up even if youns end up not making it.
2007-09-15 18:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh that's sexy, but i think you should build your relationship as friends a tiny bit more then make the plunge.
2007-09-15 18:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah go for it and if it doesnt work out break it off gently
2007-09-15 18:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Monica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys really like each other,try it out,if you dont like it, try and make it that you are still friends.
2007-09-15 18:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by Ede3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋