i have this boyfriend but he doesnt give me time and I couldnt feel his love for me...but there are this other guys who is courting me...the other 1 is the ex of my close friend..he is lately having communications with my friend but he tells me that im the one who really loves but I think he is also trying to court his ex..l8ly he asked me to come to his place and have some fun...do some intimacies with him that is...
then there is this other guy...he is my childhood friend,family friends and he is very loyal to me for 4years now..he doesnt court but he has great love for me.tested and proven.and our families really knew he has feelings for me...
and this last guy, he is my ex and he is very popular!he is handsome and has nice voice and he is good in dancing,,,we broke up last january but now he is trying to win my heart again but he seldoms have time for me since he is in 2ndyear college and im a senior in highschool..he never gives me any testimonials in friendster...
2007-09-15 00:17:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love my man but i do not know if im learning to love the 2nd guy...
I pity my childhood friend a whole lot and I really do not know if i do not love my ex anymore...but i am always hurt to see him flirting with other girls.
2007-09-15 00:19:33 · update #1
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2007-09-15 00:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are still young and you should not concern yourself with a serious, committed relationship if you have several boys that are of interest to you.
First, break up with your present boyfriend if you do not feel that you should be together. Then, stay away from the guy that asked you for sex. That is all that he is after, especially since he is trying to be with your friend as well. These kind of guys are what we call "players"...stay away...they will only break your heart.
Date the other boys, and any other that comes along, but do not commit or become sexually active with any of them until you are sure that you want to be committed to them only.
Remember, looks and popularity are attractive, but a boy that will treat you well and be kind to you and take care of you is a much better choice.
2007-09-15 00:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by simmychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno whether u guys choose a rude answer as best..
but i just enter what i feel..
gal.. frankly i don't think you love anyone..
we call it infatuation, crush, gaga, etc.
it comes in this age (gosh.. am also a college student.. y am talking like dis..)
you can live without those anyone you mentioned..
the definition about love which you've now will change after some years..
you are so sensitive that you get hurt for not writing testimonial..
there are predators.. beware silly girl..
be like no one can get your love just like that.. if you give then after some time they will leave you just like that..
my definition for love is simple "if both of you love each other and can live separately without any kinda communication and after a year also if you both have the same feeling about each other its love. All others are just flirting, entertainment, time eating, passing clouds.. betcha..?"
My suggestion is listen to "genie in a bottle" song and decide whether you gonna give your heart just like that to some one..
All the best
Regards,
Gokul
2007-09-15 00:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by gohulkumara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you really need to do girl is to look very very deep inside your heart and think whom do you really love and with whom you will be happy, for your ex you feel just a jeleousity it happens alot its not a reall feeling couse all of us when we are with somebody and that someone pays attantion to only us and than after a while we see that he is with somebody else it hurts but hurts our ego not heart so even don pay attantion on it, or what you can do that is just let the time pass alil bit and u will see yourself who really deserves your love and who is not becouse more important with whom you will be happy... and nobody can make this decision instead of you
2007-09-15 00:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by Svetlana D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 15:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the popular ex is the way to go
but give your childhood friend a shot at the title or something to remember before you go your separate ways and never see him again. So he doesnt regret you for the rest of his life.
good luck.
2007-09-15 00:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by James10 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what's best for you. I say take a break from your boyfriend and test them all out. See who has the time and who doesn't. See who is there for the long run and who is there just to have a little fun.
2007-09-15 00:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I am a freshman and there is this junior that I think is REALLY HOT!!! I cannot stop thinking about him..i always talk about him and whenever I walk pass him i always get this funny feeling in my stomach and whenever I get close to him I cannot stop smiling! But, I have never had a conversation or talked to him before so i barely know what his personality is like (people say he is REALLY nice). Do I like this person or what??? My friends say that I can't like him because i have never really talked to him b4 but I cannot stop thinking about him. What is it???
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I am a freshman and there is this junior that I think is REALLY HOT!!! I cannot stop thinking about him..i always
2007-09-15 00:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by jrgosse1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are definitely not in love or you would not be considering anyone else. I would suggest that you become single again, and date them all until you make up your mind.
By the way, if your "friend" is courting his ex and having intimate moments with you, I would not trust him as far as I can throw him. He is not sincere with his feelings.
2007-09-15 00:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thanks for that, hon. It gives us a real look into your character and inside your mentality. Have a great day.
2007-09-15 00:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋