2007-09-15 03:20:11 · 22 answers · asked by trincanniere 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh honey, there are thousands of ways! Go to an adult store together....just GOING there is a rush if you've never gone and can create huge sparks between the 2 of you. There's something about looking at naughty toys and videos that gets most people going. Buy some lingerie that is super naughty - like nothing he's ever seen before. Buy a porno and watch it together......although you have to be careful with that one. Only do it if you have total trust in the r'ship. Some men can take this as a sign of "oh...she doesn't mind so now I can watch porno night and day." Just be careful w/ that one.
Goodluck!
2007-09-15 03:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
role playing, watching movies, different positions, all kinds of things. candles, massage, music, all can set the mood for a spicy night. depending on how far your "kinkyness" goes. Kamasutra(not sure of that spelling) get a movie on that.. also there is an older move called 9 1/2 weeks.. rent that movie.. thats pretty crazy too.. set up your bedroom with strawberries, champagne, candles and some kenny g music.. goodluck
2007-09-19 02:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by notaclue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite me round for a 3 some that should spice things up a Little
2007-09-15 22:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 11 years of marraige this question I am quilified to answer..lol... I agree with some of the others here go to an adult video store and just look around together. You may see some things you have never even thought about..sparks some ideas. maybe buy a toy or movie..be very selective.. you don't want to jump into heavy stuff to start with. try some thing on the skinamax level ( porn on late nite cinamax cable). this is a good way to start off, maybe try a few things that you see in the video.
You can always start making erotice phone calls to each other, send each other text msgs that describe the things you want to do to each other that night, gets him thinking and your juices flowing. Set up an "appointment" with each other and when he arrives tell him your last appointment just left and you will be with him in a few minutes...make him sit out side the room while you "freshen up" take that time to make sure you have every thing you might want to use for the night. )toys lotions and movies , magazines, ect.) light candles, favorite music if your opting out of the videos. set the ambiance of the room and make him feel like he is walking into his favorite place...your arms...need more just let me know....jagreengirl@yahoo.com
2007-09-15 03:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by jagreengirl 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you could try playing out some fantasies, get some toys and stuff, maybe what you need is another person to add a bit of variety into the bedroom! a threesome is often a mans/womans fantasy with variation on the gender of the third party!
2007-09-15 03:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by skullian 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just watch other married couples from a distance. I'm constantly bombarding my wife with tons of mental sex in my wife's mind as much as possible to get her in the mood for some super hot intense sex with me her husband. lol hahaha
2007-09-16 13:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by pain_of_unhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch pornos. if your brave enough you could go to a strip club on your own, for research purposes, learn some new moves and when your ready, try them out for your spouse. nothing gets men hotter!
2007-09-15 03:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda z 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have Disco Stu give you some special boogie lessons!
2007-09-15 03:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
rent a room, play out a fantasy, buy a book Kama Sutra comes to mind...has different positions. don't be afraid to be bold.
2007-09-15 03:24:51 · answer #9 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tabasco sauce.
2007-09-15 04:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋