I met this guy and he really seemed wonderfull. We both work in the same place but in very different levels (he has very high function). We get along good and went out twice at the company's parties, and once just me and him. He said he wanted to be with me and he's treat me like a princess and offer me everything I wanted (I know his ex, and she lived like this while she was with him).
I appreciated the fact that he didn't press for getting my phone number or asking me to go to his place, each time he made sure I'd get home safe.
I wasn't very sure of my feelings tho, so I postponed things for 2-3 weeks, but suddenly he told me he thinks I don't want to be with him, but it's ok we can be friends and he'll support me whenever I needed.
But what surperised me is that he asked me if I wanted to date a friend og his, that is a great guy. Why? If he likes me, why he said this? Or is it just a test?? I thaught he liked me...
2007-09-15 02:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by lilith 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I doubt it is a test. He probably means what he said, which is he doesnt think you want to be with him. I'm not sure what you mean by you postponing things for 2-3 weeks, but if you avoided him or backed off for 2-3 weeks that would give him reason to believe that you don't want to be with him. What did you say when he said that to you? Did you tell him you really do like him and want to be with him? Or is this man right and you really don't want to be with him. It doesn't matter if he likes you or not, dating and relationships go both ways. He has to receive some reassurance from you that you like him and want to be with him....that is if you truly do. If you don't really like him, then let him go. From what you have written, I don't see anywhere that you mention that you like him and are attracted to him.
2007-09-15 03:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Andee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be playing games, which is a big red flag. Can't you two just honestly discuss where you are at instead of trying to second guess motives?
Honesty is the best foundation for any relationship.
2007-09-15 03:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Fancy That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows. Maybe he was testing you- but if so then you might re-think liking him. Maybe he is trying to prove that he cares so much for you that he would hook you up with his good friend. You should talk to him and ask him how he feels and why he did that. Dont lead him with any answers though- let him tell you why.
2007-09-15 03:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's trying to figure out if you really want to go out, but not with him. It could be a test.
2007-09-15 02:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by sonyvet2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being polite and wanted for you to trust him,so go out with his friend.
2007-09-15 03:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c yuou haven't shown that you like him and doesn't want to play the hard to get game so if you are not interested in him maybe he wants to help find someone for you
2007-09-15 02:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you for the fool you are if you believe all of this crap!
2007-09-15 02:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by whiteroses202004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋