Here's the story. I need advice on what to do. I have a freind that never comes over to my place,?

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yet I go there about once a week. I call them to just chat. When I go over we talk for a bit then he and his wife plug themselves into their computer. Normally there are three computers in his computer room so I end up surfing. He also never calls me on the phone. A few weeks ago he and his wife asked if I wouldn't mind watching their kids once a week so they can go bowling. Instead of calling me during the week, I get a call the day of when I am supposed to baby sit. I felt a bit put out, and thought " sheesh guess I am just good for a baby sitter" I think I am right to feel slighted any comments??

Answer 1

They are not very polite are they?
Seems like they don't value your friendship like you do with them.
They are pretty wrapped up in their life.
I would feel a bit put out myself.

Invite them over and see what happens, some people will only come over if invited.

Give it a try, faith