a picture of me. why won't i get a boyfriend?

Question

im 13 almost 14.
i know im young, but i want
that "guy" i can fully trust, i can have his back, and he can love me for me. i have been single for a long time, but it hasent worked. am i ugly or what? i dont understand. i have the personality,confidence, and humor.

here are pics of me, and what ethnic do i look like??

http://s148.photobucket.com/albums/s20/rimmagirl13/?action=view¤t=ad003.jpg

http://s148.photobucket.com/albums/s20/rimmagirl13/?action=view¤t=ad003.jpg

Answer 1

At 13-14, you haven't been ANYTHING for a "long time"!

You look like a mix between white and black.

Don't start judging yourself at such a young age! Have confidence, have fun and guys will come.

Answer 2

Well I'll start out by telling you the truth, & the truth of the matter is that you are absolutely drop dead GORGEOUS!
Not ugly...no way...no how.
But you knew that didn't you! You are just looking to have your precious ego stroked a little aren't you?

That's OK, even the beautiful people like you need to have a little boost of the ego once in awhile.

Having said that let's talk about this "why can't I get a boyfriend" thing.

My answer to you is....you're 14.
You. "I have been single for a long time"
Me. "No you haven't...you're 14"
You. "I have the personality, confidence, & humour"
Me. "Your beautiful big smile makes me agree with you about the personality & the humour, but the idea of posting your picture here asking for opinions makes me have doubts about your level of confidence"

I am not going to answer your request for what ethnicity I think you appear to me as, because I don't think it has anything to do with it. To any boy of any race, you would appear to be beautiful, & I think that's all that matters.

Just stay true to yourself, & you will meet the boy or "guy" that you described here in your question.
When you do, I just hope you hold him to the high standard of conduct around you that you deserve, because you obviously deserve the best that the world can give. :-)

Answer 3

You are a very pretty girl, the problem is that you are still a little girl! At your age it is normal to be interested in guys, but believe me your time is best spent developing friendships, pursuing your hobbies, and focusing on school. Now is a great time to learn how to be friends with boys. That is a real confidence booster for later in life because you have a built a foundation that supports your belief in yourself as having something worthwhile to offer a boy, aside from sex and attractiveness. Try studying social skills, improving communication, and how to be a charasmatic person, one whom everyone will flock too. The older you get the more you will realize the value of FRIENDSHIPS and the importance of having a network of friends who support you and watch your back! No one goes far in this life unless they are likable and win friends in this lifetime. There is nothing wrong with you that a shift of focus can't change. A boyfriend isn't the answer to the end of your lonlieness or self doubts. In fact, getting involved at too young of an age can be the catalyst for more of the same. Focus on friends, being a good friend and finding a good friend. In the end you will be happier and feel more confident. You have the whole rest of your life to date. Boys are cool, but confident, independent girls RULE!

Answer 4

I'm so sorry honey but I guess there's time for everything. I'm 21 soon to be 22 but haven't been lucky with a girlfriend. But I hope to meet the right person soon. At a point in time, I considered myself a social leper especially when my colleagues come around with their girlfriends.

Just keep your cool girl and move on with life. You're such a nice person and trust that you'd find The One but how soon...I can't tell. Just pray that he comes around and be vigilant coz not all that glitters is gold. Or yet still, we can start out as friends if you don't mind.

Gud luck

Answer 5

You are absolutely beautiful. I can't tell what you are but it really doesn't matter anymore the world is becoming so mixed. I'm said to be white but what races of white? I think I have English & Irish, then my family gets into arguments about what else we all are so when it comes down to it what the heck are we? Who cares! My current boyfriend is 100% Puerto Rican and I love him very much.

Also, in that picture you look older but I'll tell you something, not to be conceited (I can email a pic of me at your request) but I am beautiful also and guys were intimidated by it. They hesitate to ask me out and when I do get boyfriends most of them leave me because they say I'll never stay with them, I'm too good for them, blah, blah. It's pretty sad that they know the truth about themselves but sometimes being beautiful is more of a curse than a gift.

Answer 6

Hey, you're wearing a sweatshirt from my school, so I like you already. I know it seems like you've been single for a long time, but that's actually a normal state for a 14 year old young lady. All of this stuff will happen for you in due time, and you won't have any trouble attracting men....( ironically, that's when the "trouble" will begin) so enjoy life as it is right now, because change is coming. Good change, at times but challenging, nonetheless.

Answer 7

Your beautiful... but you have a life time to find that guy your young...be young...have some fun and be a teen..that doesn't always just mean boy's and sex....there's alot to life... live it some before you try to find that guy? He might just come to you given the right place and the right time..explore..while you are you might just bump into him...concentrate on yourself and what you can do to better your self and your future...that way life is a little easier as an adult..worked for me..couldn't hurt to try..Good Luck

Answer 8

You're very pretty, but your'e also very young. don't worry about guys right now. you have some really stunning features about you and you have quite an exotic look that will probably only get better as you mature. let yourself be a kid for a while, you have all the time in the world to date and worry about guys later.

Answer 9

No, you are not ugly. Far from it. I do not want to talk down to you , but you are still young and have plenty of time to date. I grew up in a diff generation, but when i was at that age, guys and girls where not wanting to have a BF/GF so badly. Just be yourself and go out and do things. Enjoy yourself. I find it that people met other people when they are not out hunting for someone. Good luck

Answer 10

Sweetie, I know this isn't want you want to hear, but please please please believe me when I say this....in 2 more years, when guys start to become more confident and outgoing themselves (since this happens with girls first usually becuase we mature quicker) guys are going to be beating down your door. I remember being 13 and asking the same thing and someone told me that and not only did I not believe them, but I just didn't want to wait. But, amazingly enough, it was true. You are very, very cute and you have nothing to worry about. Keep up that personality, confidence and humor and stay away from the punk guys out there that will try and get you!