My husband is trying out for a thing in the military in another state and he will be returning soon. He has been gone for 1 month and I want to do something special for him upon his return home. He will have gone through some hard times physically and mentally and I want him to come home to something nice and relaxing, but special. Candlelite dinners and movies are boring. I thought about buying a sexy costume and dressing up for him, but I would have to go and pick him up from the airport, so I may or may not do that. (Especially dressed like a french maid!) I need to do something super creative and something to blow his mind away and say WOW, that was special. Can anyone shoot me some ideas? Thanks:)
2007-09-15 09:58:01 · 5 answers · asked by jtlip2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
cook.. prepare a meal that u think he will love .. a sexy costume is a thumbs up..
2007-09-15 10:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by aicoh_aicoh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband also has a very high stress, high mental and emotional exhaustion job. He has told me that the best thing I can do right off the bat is to give him some space to get his head back in the game at home. When he gets home after being gone a long time I naturally want to jump right in his arms and do something fun, but a lot of times he doesn't have the time or the mindset to do this. After a few minutes, or sometimes a couple of hours, when he is rested and relaxed a little on his own, then the fun can start. Also, my husband says that one of the best things I can do is to actually listen to what he wants to talk about and leave alone what he doesn't want to share. Don't assume that he is in the same place mentally that you are. Ask and don't be offended if his idea of a good time is different than yours. If you really want to do something special for him, ask him what that would be and then do it.
2007-09-15 17:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by loveneverfails 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some body oil. Put it by the bed. Have some relaxing music ready to play.
When you get him home from the airport, take his hand. Lead him to the bedroom. Turn on the music. Dim the lights. Slowly undress yourself down to some sexy new Victoria's Secret wear.
If he hasn't already undressed himself, do it for him slowly. Then ask him to lay across the bed on his stomach. Give him a great massage. Make it a full body massage on his back side. Then tell him to turn over.
Do the full body massage again. Take it almost to the "happy ending" type massage with oral sex. When you notice that his body is tensing up like he's about to ***, stop what you're doing.
Straddle him, and finish him off. But go very slowly to make it last as long as possible. You both should get full pleasure out of it.
After you cuddle with him and sleep for a while, offer to shower with him. Let him take over the action in the shower.
Enjoy! I'm sure he will.
2007-09-15 17:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by back from the dead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 I hope you don't think Special Forces Training is only a month long. It's longer and requires training in several locations.
#2 The best thing my wife did for me was pick me up and take me to a hotel. There was rose petals on the bed and a hottub ready and warm. We had room service that was the best weekend I ever had.
#3 She did pick me up but it was not a civilian airport it was a military airport and if your picking him up at a civilian airport he was on normal vacation which means you need to ask him some questions like where have you been? What have you been doing? I might call a lawer and get ready for a divorce.
2007-09-15 17:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Randy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have kids i would bring him back and then tell him wait a minute. while hes sitting on the couch. then come out of thebedroom with nothing on i think that would shock him and he would like that best.
2007-09-15 17:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋