i am in love with this divorced lady but this thing coming to my mind that she had been with someone else, will she able to give herself fully to me? or i should change my mind and go for a lady who hasnt been married before?
2007-09-15 10:11:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If this is all you value in a person then I don't think your ready for marriage at all.
2007-09-15 10:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just because a woman hasn't been married before doesn't mean she is a virgin. No one on earth can tell for sure whether a woman is a virgin or not, not even her gynocologist, if an unmarried woman says she is a virgin you will have to take her word for it...As for your question, when a woman (virgin or divorcee) loves a man deeply she is willing to give herself totally to that man. If that man has a problem with her being a divorcee then it is HE who is not giving HIMSELF totally to her in marriage.
2007-09-16 00:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd have to say go for the virgin if u have that oppurtunity, if the divorcee got dumped once then theres a good chance she'll work u over too. i know from my own expierence, i married a divorced women and well here i am now myself, divorced also. don't be a sucker and believe her b/s story that she had to leave her first husband because he was no good. theres a reason it didn't work out the 1st or 2nd time for her and believe me i sure did try. don't settle for leftovers.
2007-09-15 17:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A divorced woman will have the experience to please you properly. She'll appreciate you more because she knows what she's missing in her life and you are it. She'll have more emotional baggage, but with enough love for her, you can make it work out so great and give her an opportunity to experience love that she neve got to have.
2007-09-19 16:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the difference is that the divorced lady has been plucked by some already.
if you find a virgin, you might be the one to pluck her.
however, be warned that ladies calling themselves virgin have been plucked already but come up with some creative rationale about their status.
2007-09-15 17:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with her and you are quite sure she loves you, then go for it. A divorce usually means that she didn't have a successful relationship with her ex-husband which means you shouldn't worry about it.
2007-09-15 17:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by Labyrinths 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for a virgin, the other lady was divorced for some good reason, maybe she doesn't do well in relationships since her first marriage didn't work.
2007-09-15 17:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 5⤋
like apples and oranges... follow your heart.....
2007-09-15 17:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋