He generally does not have a foul mouth and loves me and says I'm the perfect woman for him etc etc etc, but during a fight and in a fit of anger he called me this. I can't seem to get over it. Bit++, I could get over, but not this......what is the general consensus from woman regarding this?
2007-09-15 09:47:44 · 27 answers · asked by Rachel☺ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ATTENTION, I worded it that way so it doesn't get censored. I know what I was called.
2007-09-15 09:53:03 · update #1
Next time come back with a small pecker comment
2007-09-15 09:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by Brandi 5 · 3⤊ 6⤋
The question here, does this happen often, and if you see that your fights seem to be getting worse and your husband language more foul.
I have said a lot of things when I fight with my partner and so has he, but the issues that are facing your marriage, as in; what precisely are you fighting about and how often should be addressed in a mature manner. Name calling and insults will not get results and if this escalates you need to make sure you are not staying in a portentously dangerous and abusive relationship.
2007-09-15 10:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter which word he used? One is not better or worse than the other, their both derogatory remarks. When two people are in a heated arguement, words you normally wouldn't say or use come out. One person will say something just to rile up the other. Once things have cooled down, talk to your husband and ask for an apology for the remark. If he refuses then express your dislike in him using them. Then let it go. If he does it again, put your foot down!!!
2007-09-15 09:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has never called me a name during an arguement...NEVER...but I can't say that I have honestly never called him a name...For some reason that word that begins with C and ends with T...and has UN in the middle just sounds soooooo disgusting.....Like you said...I would prefer the B word over the C word.......we all say things we really don't mean...I don't think your husband really believes that you are the C word....he just wanted to hurt you at that moment...and he did succeed evidently.
2007-09-15 09:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, that is the worst word in the English language my man could call me, and he knows it. Did you discuss with him that you find this word to be hurtful and disrespectful? If not, do so, getting it out in the open could make you feel better and keep him from making the same mistake again.
2007-09-15 09:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by loggerswife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
normally I answer all my questions seriously and with a lot of thought and feeling, however in this case .. I'm going to answer with a come back ... heh ... next time (hopefully there isnt a next time, but just incase for some reason there is... )respond with calling him an ANKLE... because as we all know... thats 2 feet below a C***. :) I heard that as a joke not to long ago, and forgive me, but I felt it was perfect for the situation :)
2007-09-15 10:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Things are said in a fit of anger that aren't meant. He probably already regrets having said it to you.
I know it's hard to forgive and especially to forget, but I think you should try if he's good to at all other times and ways.
You deserve an apology. Ask him for one.
2007-09-15 09:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by back from the dead 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think guys say it in anger because they are under the impression that it's the worst possible thing to call a woman. If you don't let it bother you, the word loses its power. Personally, it doesn't affect me anymore or less than other names of its kind.
2007-09-15 09:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by Miss D 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its disrespectful and tells alot about what he thinks of u or thought of u during the argument, i was called this once, never quite got over it really, could have gotten over it had there been a show of remorse but there never was any. he needs to apologize to u for calling u that word.
2007-09-15 10:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RE: 4 letter words beginning with e and ending with e?
2016-05-20 04:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever let him see or know that it bothered you. He might then decide he can say it whenever he wishes.
I quickly lose respect for name calling as it shows just how limited the mind becomes.
2007-09-15 12:10:14 · answer #11 · answered by outtahere2day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋