Family & Relationships - 31 August 2007

I masterbate like at least once a day, if not more. Is this normal...how much do other guys do it.

I also heard that girls think it's sexy when a guy masterbates a lot. Is this true?

2007-08-31 05:41:17 · 23 answers · asked by da boi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 05:39:37 · 20 answers · asked by mike b 1 in Singles & Dating

If your partner fell in love with somebody else, or had sex with somebody else?

2007-08-31 05:38:35 · 17 answers · asked by Becca 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 05:38:17 · 9 answers · asked by peaches6 7 in Singles & Dating

With differences bewtten both families increasing day by day.. this relation is nearly seeing its end...... and even though i know he is not the 'best' for me i love him a lot and i dont know how i am gonna survive without him..... Plz give me suggestions...... how do i save my relationship and ensure if he loves me a lot too

2007-08-31 05:37:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

In the winter I walk fully clothed, and when something fell off or I showed him a piece of skin, he would oogle and want some.

now in the summer, i walk in my birthday suit all the time, and he barely notices me anymore! he doesn't stare etc

and i don't like it one bit. what should i do to remedy it? could all that nakedness have de-sensetized his visual senses so much that he does n't look anymore or if he does look he's like "whatever?"

i'm 11 weeks prego btw, if that adds anything to this.

2007-08-31 05:36:12 · 18 answers · asked by chapped lips 5 in Marriage & Divorce

How could he not care?
I have/had a crush on a guy at work. The thing is we used be close friends and I started liking him as more than a friend and I told hm . I got the since that he liked me too since he always flirted with me and cracked jokes, etc. But, he has a gf in the Phillipines whom he is engaged 2 since I helped him get the ring for her. He only gets to go back there once every 2 years and I think we started experiencing sexual tension since we had a convo about doing it. I called him a dog since I thought he was comin on to me but then he denied he was serious bout it and said he was kidding. Iwrote a letter apologizing to him but then he started ignoring me. He said I should focus on someone else and it's best that we no longer be friends since I was 2 weird & obsessive bout him. I emailed him saying that we were both wrong for talking about sex, he blamed me for being weird. i got mad and told him not to b my friend. He said not email/talk 2 him unless work relatd. we're ignoring each other.

2007-08-31 05:35:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married 7 years and I believe I will love him forever... I stare at him sometimes when hes sleeping (I know creepy) and think how blessed I am.. he still laughs uncontrollably when I tell him that a yardsale gave me a woody (I am a women) . I guess its because we are so alike in so many ways..and yet very different..

2007-08-31 05:31:02 · 50 answers · asked by GrassRootsRabbits 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Tonight my fiance left to hang out at a mates place a guy apparently and I called and he hung up on me but not properly and I heard him talking to a girl he knew from the Gold Coast (ex girlfriend) who has tried to break us up twice before. I heard alot of the conversation that was going on then he finaly realised the phone hadnt hung upand hung up. We have an 8 month old together wat should I do?????? Also we have our whole wedding booked for December this year.

2007-08-31 05:30:32 · 24 answers · asked by Kmumofr 1 in Weddings

What a quaint way to know someone...
"Hooking Up" sounds too cheap and easy.

2007-08-31 05:26:56 · 8 answers · asked by Sammy The Surfer 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 05:24:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As far as cheating goes I have quite a dilemna to overcome?
My fiancee' and I were going through some difficult times with lack of communication and general discontent. She went out one night with one of her friends. I found out from that friend that she met this guy and ended up going to the bar with him. On the way to the bar they made out. On there way back they managed to find themselves in an alley where he was able to get her pants off. She said there was never penetration - just that he tried to put it in for a few minutes but didnt and then she said stop and pulled up her pants and "just licked it". Is this a believable story? I'm inclined to believe she is lying and that they did have intercourse. If it were the truth is it cheating...should I end our engagement...I mean is this going to happen again. It is a tough decision and I will make it with my heart but respectful outside opinions are very appreciated.

2007-08-31 05:22:15 · 42 answers · asked by diggittey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My kid's father seems to think because we have kids that he has to know about every detail in my life! He basically tells me because I'm his kids mother he HAS to worry about everything I do. OMG! I am not his kid and if we're not together I shouldn't have to deal with his BS anymore. I feel like he expects me to always come him when something is going on. Oh and did I mention that it's been more that a year since our split and I'm married to someone else! But still I'm arguing my kid's father like if we're still together. It's crazy!! If anyone else has had this problem and has solved it please give me some advice.

2007-08-31 05:21:09 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee' and I were going through some difficult times with lack of communication and general discontent. She went out one night with one of her friends. I found out from that friend that she met this guy and ended up going to the bar with him. On the way to the bar they made out. On there way back they managed to find themselves in an alley where he was able to get her pants off. She said there was never penetration - just that he tried to put it in for a few minutes but didnt and then she said stop and pulled up her pants and "just licked it". Is this a believable story? I'm inclined to believe she is lying and that they did have intercourse. If it were the truth is it cheating...should I end our engagement...I mean is this going to happen again. It is a tough decision and I will make it with my heart but respectful outside opinions are very appreciated.

2007-08-31 05:20:17 · 28 answers · asked by diggittey 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 05:19:30 · 25 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5 in Singles & Dating

Before my husband and I got married, we agreed that porn, dirty magazines....ect.....were not good for our marriage. Well, my husband used to have a problem with porn, but he says he no longer does. He used to also buy maxim, stuff....ect. Well, here lately, he has argued with me that the things in those type of magazines are not bad, and that he doesn't like to read them for the half naked/naked girls that are in them. Well, it really bothers me that he thinks like that because I am thinking he wants to get back into that kind of stuff. Am I over-reacting for being so hurt. Serious answers only please....I realize that some of you see nothing wrong with porn and dirty magazines, but I do think that they are wrong, and there is no way I will change my opinion of these things.

2007-08-31 05:19:30 · 27 answers · asked by Kelli S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't find a place that's reasonably priced. I am thinking about $8K (wedding and recption only) for something special. Is that reasonable? My family is really casual, as am I. I don't even want to carry flowers, I just want to hold my dad's hand. I want homestyle food, possibly even served family style, but I can't figure out how to do that with 50 people. A buffet is not something that I want. I want the whole event to be interactive. I want there to be a lot of outside activities for the rest of the weekend. We have a child, as do all of my future in laws, so I want it to be child friendly. I really don't want to spend $30 a plate for food the kids aren't going to eat. I am at a loss.

2007-08-31 05:09:02 · 15 answers · asked by Tara C 5 in Weddings

Unfortunately, I'm afraid my naturally ignorant self may have screwed up my relationship with a woman I know and like a lot. I've known her for about 2 months and saw her maybe once a week, in get-togethers with mutual friends entering my MBA program. After reading about flirting signals given (yes, I'm bad with those), I realized that she had been giving me at least 6-7, yet I didn't know at the time. About 3 weeks ago, I approached her in a bar and we spoke for about a half hour, and I got her number, but then nervous me said something along the lines of 'But I'm not hitting on you or anything'. That weekend, I was sick, and didn't call her as a result. The following week when I saw her again, we caught eyes across the lunch room, and we smiled at each other for an uncomfortably long 5-10 seconds. After lunch when I saw her, she complimented me on my new haircut........

2007-08-31 05:08:37 · 1 answers · asked by Sue 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has always been a lazy slacker. He's interested in all kinds of games, such as video games, making models, chess games,etc. He's chauvinistic, thinking women should do all the housework. He often wears dirty clothes to work with messy hair. I feel disgusted and hate him. Besides, we're sexually unharmonious. Not one in a year. Should I get a divorce?

2007-08-31 05:03:41 · 37 answers · asked by Cindy Q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hes into antomotive and hes 18...umm he has almost everything id buy him so what are some good ideas?? he like loves harry potter and he like smallville he has all the seasons already ummm well lets see he likes to play billards(pool) and he works all day and everyday except sunday what could i do and what could i get him to make it special???

2007-08-31 05:00:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm an educated woman with a decent upbringing. Hot stuff my friends say. I project an image that charrms people of all walks of life, BUT with a deep dark secret: I have fallen for a married guy. Tough for me, but I couldn't just break away. He's a poor guy, not college grad, and extremely good-looking. Whenever somebody eligible comes along, I'd feel guilty of two-timing , so I'd abruptly put an end to a good prospect. I get scared whenever someone is in dire pursuit of me. I get more interested with a reserved guy, someone who's hard to crack, who'd keep me guessing, am I the only one. There are times tho' when I'd prefer not to see this current boyfriend, when things get too comfy. This mood swing confuses me. Is it simply a woman's physiological imbalance? I wish I'd meet a soulmate who would make me feel complete. Or would I still stand a chance of finding one? I'm a nice person, in gen terms, nurturing, in fact, a top exec, intellectual, but lost. Oh, am separated, btw

2007-08-31 04:56:21 · 10 answers · asked by Gaea 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like the title says I am getting married! I met her at a cafe and compliminted me on my glasses and I complimented on how she looks so cute so she sat down and we talked she had a major in philosophy and was a college teacher. so we went on a date and it went pretty well she has a sparkling personality and she is pretty cute and pretty. so 5 years later proposed to her and she said yes!! now we are getting married tommorow and we follow the tradition of not seeing the bride till the wedding. my best friend is my best man. But am starting to get cold feet about this is that normal? I mean before we started she said that she was exited for sex on the honey moon but i don't think I'm ready for the sex yet and if I don't think that i'm ready for that then should I be getting married in the first place? I need your opnions on this.

2007-08-31 04:51:02 · 14 answers · asked by j.r. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-31 04:48:47 · 50 answers · asked by Heather H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating a guy for 2 month and it was my 30 th birthday yesterday ( thursday). I was also planning a party on 8th, the Saturday. I asked him on last Sunday ( 5 days before my brithday) if he wanted to meet me for a drink after work on my birthday and also give him the option that he is welcomed to the party but not forced to come. He said he would met me for a drink on my birthday and if he was busy he would re-arrange things. I was so happy to hear that!!
However, on Tuesday he text me and asked me if i like to have a drink on Wednsday, it seems that he completely forget my birthday. I called him and he thought i meant next Thursday , and he got the date confused. Since he already had plans he said he would re-arrange and let me know the next day. I thought about it and then i text him to say donot worry if it is too hard to re-arrange and i will be one year older with or without his witness! (...I'll write more in the added section.....)

2007-08-31 04:44:13 · 18 answers · asked by Sue 1 in Singles & Dating

I just dont get it. I'm not trying to be an ****** here. I am in good physical shape and so is my fiance. I just cant imagine being attracted to an overweight girl.

2007-08-31 04:44:02 · 23 answers · asked by Seamus 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in need of some serious advice. I am a stay st home mom and my husband is the only one bringing in any income. We live at his parents house since he doesn't make much money and we couldn't afford to pay the bills we already have otherwise. Now I find out nothing is getting paid anyway. I'm getting calls all day from collectors about this and that and I am completely in the dark. I just assume that since he is getting paid and we have no money that it is going to these bills. To the $500 a month car he insists on having, his $175 insurance payment, his 3 credit cards that he himself maxed out and a loan he took out a few years back. I have insisted on working and he flips out saying we absolutely can't put the baby in daycare and he just doesn't have the patience to take care of her while I work at night and on the weekends. I don't know what to do about this. It's just killing my nerves. He won't get a secong job or bend on anything.

2007-08-31 04:36:28 · 24 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Jazmine cashmere, Misti Love, Roxy Reynolds etc

2007-08-31 04:29:01 · 13 answers · asked by DM 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a fulltime student (stressful class load) and I work fulltime do you have any tips and balance and studying tips

2007-08-31 04:28:23 · 6 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Family

I have a large family (7 sisters and one brother, 28 nieces and nephews) and i can't afford to invite all of them and my friends, parents, ..... My fiance has a small family just one sibling and no neices or nephews. How do i decide who NOT to invite, without being rude or hurting anyones feelings? I am close with all of them. (I can't afford to feed them all at the reception is my problem)

2007-08-31 04:25:14 · 21 answers · asked by Miss Elizabeth 2 in Weddings

OK So I am a 16 year old guy. My friend of 13 years, is really a good friend to me. We have a lot of similarities and we tell each other a lot and trust each other.
I am starting to have a lot of strong feelings for her. Should I tell her.Or will it ruin the friendship if she doesnt feel the same way? How do I tell her I love her and ask her out? The problem is I have never had a gfriend b4 !!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE HELP
Thanks in advance for answering

2007-08-31 04:24:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships