Family & Relationships - 31 August 2007

What are the legal duties of a wife to her husband after marriage ?

What are the legal rights of a wife over her husband after marriage ?

2007-08-31 20:58:43 · 13 answers · asked by Pramod R 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have left my house with some money in my hand .... around 500 dollars .... actually i have left my house because of some house old problems....i mean my mom and dad fighting every day....advice me what to do...????

2007-08-31 20:26:29 · 6 answers · asked by Srishti G 1 in Family

have a close guy friend of mine whom I 've known for over a few years.He happens to happily married, and from what I understand he and his wife have what you would consider an"open relationship"...they've even went so far in having relations with other people outside of their relationship.During the time that me and my friend communicated, his wife was very aware that he and I we're phone buddiesI even thoughhis wife and I hadn't met each other face to face, she invited me out several times and she would invite me to family outings, but then I lost my job, and my friend rented me out a room out of thier house from that point on everything changed with his wife, she didn;t really speak to me, I'd smile and say hi, she would like at me all crazy..then everytime I'm at home she would close her bedroom door for some reason, she was just very mean , you can tell she really didn;t care for me and I can't figure out why?

2007-08-31 20:25:06 · 11 answers · asked by Sweetladi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i had this boyfriend.

he was my first and i honestly didnt like him at the time.

i feel bad about it cuz it was stupid.

it kinda freaked me out so i said yes.

anyway thats not the point.


i keep having these dreams where i end up kissing him in the end.


and...he has this girlfriend now.

and i think i ilke him.

but....iono if its cuz im jealous or what...

or if i just do...iono.

we broke up about 4 months ago...


what should i do?

2007-08-31 20:20:07 · 13 answers · asked by Freddie 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 yrs old and I want to propose my girlfriend which is 17.I asked my parents and they say I'm matured enough to make my own decission.I've bought a ring yesterday, at first i wanna give it on her birthday but I think I wanna ask her to marry me, I know its too early but what do you think?

2007-08-31 20:17:27 · 17 answers · asked by shapixx 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a close guy friend of mine whom I 've known for over a few years.He happens to happily married, and from what I understand he and his wife have what you would consider an"open relationship"...they've even went so far in having relations with other people outside of their relationship.During the time that me and my friend communicated, his wife was very aware that he and I we're phone buddiesI even thoughhis wife and I hadn't met each other face to face, she invited me out several times and she would invite me to family outings, but then I lost my job, and my friend rented me out a room out of thier house from that point on everything changed with his wife, she didn;t really speak to me, I'd smile and say hi, she would like at me all crazy..then everytime I'm at home she would close her bedroom door for some reason, she was just very mean , you can tell she really didn;t care for me and I can't figure out why?

2007-08-31 20:14:29 · 15 answers · asked by Sweetladi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got in this situation which got me into flirting with this guy.
My friend looked at the convos and thought he liked me.
She kept putting these thoughts in my head, about me and the guy, and I started to like him.
She kept trying to hook us two up. We asked him to hang with us, my friend and I, but then he couldn't go.
Then I left on an almost 3 week vaca.
When I got back my 'crush' and my friend had hung out alot, and then she started to like him.
So now she likes him, and I can't like him.

2007-08-31 20:14:09 · 14 answers · asked by Whompa 2 in Friends

I am 16 years old. I met him off Myspace about a year ago and he's very good looking. We've been together for nine months now. One day, I was looking through his wallet and saw his drivers license. He's 18 years older than he told me.

I love him. Should I stay with him?

2007-08-31 20:12:30 · 38 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

I recently ended a relationship of seven months and met another girl at the same time this relationship started. We talked as friends during this relationship and the other day in conversation it was mentioned that we were breaking up and she asked me if I was moving and invited me to a party and said I was invited back when it was planned but never told me till now. Also she has started inviting me to other things as well, my question is...why the strong insistence on whether I was moving or not before inviting me to these events?

2007-08-31 20:12:09 · 9 answers · asked by Loves Los Angeles 1 in Friends

My situation with my husband is a little hard to explain.. We've been married for 6 yrs. I did my part to try and save the relationship but i got too tired.. I pay most of the bills, sure I make more money than he did.. 3 Months ago I left him a letter saying that im leaving him and I moved to another state without him knowing where, sure its not the easiest thing to do especially im still married to him.. the good thing though is that we dont have kids, or properties together. Just a vehicle that is under both of our names but im giving it to him and an unpaid loan.. Now, I've been doing some research but cant find the right answer. I want to file for a divorce and I want to do it myself to save some money. The question is, is it okay to just do it myself and not hire a lawyer or is it best to get one?.. Thanks

2007-08-31 20:10:16 · 2 answers · asked by marsheena g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 21 years old and I have been married for almost 3 years. My husband and I are currently seperated. During our seperation I have gotten close to someone else. I am ready to get a divorce and move on, but my husband wants to stay together. I do love my husband as a friend and I do not want to hurt him, and at the same time I do not want to lie to him. Do you think that it's a good idea or a bad idea to tell him that I have feelings for someone else? I don't know what to do here.

2007-08-31 20:10:09 · 30 answers · asked by MrsWifey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

one day my husband had told me that he was going to stay to work... i believed him.... next thing i know next day i checked his pants there was a receipt of this HOTEL.... i asked him and he confessed that he went with a girl... and that he only kissed her... i did not believe that... so i went over to the hotel and lucky me the room was not yet cleaned from the time he left... they showed me the room... it seemed like he tooked a shower with that girl.. and for my surprised he had sex with her.. i found a condom wrapper ont he trash bin... this really hurts.... he lied saying he didnt do anything... if i wouldnt have gone to the hotel and i would have never known...we got a son of 2 and i dont know what to do... i love him so much but i cannot be thinking that he will be with otehr girls. he is a bartender and they would be nothing i can do.. help me. i need advise of what to do.. he cheated on me once i bet he'[s done it before...

2007-08-31 20:08:39 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah V 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a daughter(with 5 children) that uses me to the limit.If she is in the right mood I can see the kids in school holidays only to find that after I have returned them home I am being accused of saying terrible things.My daughter since the age of about 25 has always done this to me also she finds ways to blame me for everything that happens in her life(BAD THINGS) she has been on drugs for many yrs but I don't need to hear that this is why these things happen because it's not.She hits me,she has stabbed me not seriously but I had to get stiches.She tells me that she can beat me at any game that she plays with me because she can win mental games over me because of the kids,I love them!People have told me to forget her that she is worth the trouble but I honestly believe that a mother's love is unconditional,that's always been my motto.I have had to attend children courts with her,you name it I have gone through it with her.I'm at the end of the road of not knowing what to do anymore

2007-08-31 19:57:51 · 5 answers · asked by jamie h 1 in Family

i've had a crush on this girl since freshman year. I'm a sophomore now and I'm still have a crush on her. She has all the qualities I look for in a girl: She's smart, incredibly funny, and we both share some of the same hobbies like video editing. We both like the same tv shows, have a similar taste in music, and she's the nicest girl I've ever met. I know I should ask her out, but that's easier said than done. I have no clue if she likes me, and she isn't in any of my classes so I can never find the time to talk to her.I keep thinking about her and it's starting to just make me feel sad because I feel like I have no chance with her. Any advice?

2007-08-31 19:54:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together 5 and a half years. i want to get married and he says he does, buti dont know why we dont! he keeps making excuses telling me he wants to have enought money to get me a nice ring and do everything right....i dont care about thaht stuff i just want to be his wife! what do you think? do you need any additional details?

2007-08-31 19:54:25 · 15 answers · asked by Landis 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have got a lot of hot chicks around me at office who are my colleagues. I dont want to enter into a relationship with them because it is my workplace. So I act hesitant which turns them even more horny and they try to seduce me all the time. Should I make a move or carry on with my work?

2007-08-31 19:51:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister who lives in Philadelphia, is constantly complaining about guys always hitting on her. I saw this the last time I was home, so I suggested she come visit me for a break. She's just visited me for 5 days in San Francisco and complained that she got no attention. Is this something I don't understand because I'm a guy or is she just nuts?

2007-08-31 19:50:26 · 11 answers · asked by 媽er! 2 in Singles & Dating

I been with this guy 4 10 months now .weve broke up twice.We argue alot now. but then a couple days ltr he always come back with a line which would seem true if he wasn't such a liersometimes i feel hes all about talk.So, I tell myself maybe I should move on, but when I actually picture it, or even bring it up all of a sudden I feel like I'm going to die if he leaves me, so I relent. I feel like I can't live without him.But inevitabaly, a problem comes up again and I start the same cycle. Hesaid and done these things b4 . He lies constantly and denies that he lies even when i hold or is aware of the truth.He has cheated on me b4BUT ITS LIKE HE TAKES ADVANTAGE OF ME.I MEAN I STAND UP 4 MYSELF LAY DOWN THE RULES TELLS HIM HOW I FEEL HE SEEMS TO ONLY CARE 4 THE MOMENT. AS IF HE DOESN'T HOLD FEELINGS. I TRY 2 GETHIM 2 TALK. Now i feel like he holds no interest for me and im to the point where I think I should/could let it go i feel its time but still i don't want2breakup..watshould ido?

2007-08-31 19:46:58 · 18 answers · asked by Model*Material 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont find it right. It is my opinion,in case anybody wondering.
But i cant get why they need it? They need so bad with anybody, just to have it or because they need this kind of attention?
Seems, some girls jump to guys` beds right away.
Why makes them to do it?
I just wondering, coz see it everyday here in Yahoo answers and in our college.( I can hear what they tallk about)

2007-08-31 19:40:12 · 14 answers · asked by Russian woman 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi my sister works in the same office which is made up of lots of departments as me. Anyway i already work with one of my sisters and shes on about going for a job in a department connected to mine. I dont really want her to go for it how do i put her off without being rude.

2007-08-31 19:40:07 · 12 answers · asked by chinwag 1 in Family

first dance, father daughter dance, bridal party dance mother son dance..???????

2007-08-31 19:37:52 · 7 answers · asked by surethang 1 in Weddings

My best friend asked me to marry him over a year ago and I siad yes but now i feel like i have lost my friend and now jus have a husbad.........i want my friend back.

2007-08-31 19:36:23 · 14 answers · asked by exceptionallyexceptional 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother in law has been staying with me and my husband for the past month and he's really bugging me. He works but he doesn't give us any money for putting him up. I understand he doesn't make much working at the grocery store he works at but he should still give us something. He also takes one of our cars with out my permission and eats the grocery I buy and leaves the living room a mess and doesn't clean up the guest room he's using. I tried to talk to my husband about it but all he says is that it's his little brother and I shouldn't be so hard on him. Once I got into an argument with my brother in law and my husband actually took his side! I'm so sick of this and I'm at my wits end what should I do?

2007-08-31 19:32:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I live in Washington state and I am planning on moving to New York (yes, it is a legitimate reason) and I heard that there is a way my babies' father can stop me even if I have custody... which I do. The babies (who are 2 years old) live with me 93% of the time, he only takes them on every other weekend, and sometimes not even then. I heard if he gets a parenting plan, I wont even be able to leave the county.That would really suck. Is there a way I can prevent this?

2007-08-31 19:30:49 · 24 answers · asked by fuqaree 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is that true?

2007-08-31 19:19:22 · 18 answers · asked by Lonely Turkey 4 in Singles & Dating

A girl who is outgoing and flirty or one that is shy and quiet but opens up once she's more comfortable around you?

2007-08-31 19:14:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a straight woman and i love my guys YET sometimes i tend to have guy mentality so i understand guys better than most women.

I have ENOUGH self respect, have values, and i grew up with old fashioned parents so i'm old fashioned in love and life yet modern.

ANYWAY, my belief right now in life (since i'm young) is that there's a right thing for everything. I want to finish school, get that degree and job and love will HOEPFULLY be there later in life when i'm ready.

My timeline is exactly that - finish school, job, enjoy perks of youth, find a guy, marriage, and family. Girls can't understand that this is what "plan" is

Do guys have this plan too? Even in your early 20's, do guys think ahead as far as not wasting their time on girls who aren't "wife material" and finishing school to have a good career to provide later in life>

Do guys have a timeline like me?

2007-08-31 19:13:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine owns her own home. She let one of her disabled friends stay with her while he got back on his feet. He gets 900.00 dollars a month in disability and spends 70% of that on scratch tickets, and the rest on cigarettes. He has never paid her rent. She gave him a letter at the beginning of August asking him to leave by the end of the month. When that didn't work, she filed papers against him in court. He filed a paper back claiming indigent status (so it didn't cost him anything). He has thrown fists and made holes in her walls. His dog has no bowel control and leaves "messages" all over the place. The judge says that she has to refile next week. He also told the squatter that he was supposed to be out by the 1st, but the squatter has already stated that he has no intention of leaving. Anyone have any suggestions aside from a deep hole in the back yard?

2007-08-31 19:11:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 19 and my step-dad just saw my tattoo that I have had almost a year. He fliped out saying that I am white trash and all and Im far from white trash. My mom knew about it. So anyways today he told me not to bother cleaning my pick up.. So to make a long story short hes going to sale my truck because I have a tattoo..
And my mom wont do anything about it she wont stand up for me at all when it comes to me and my sister or him she picks him. Both my sister and my boyfriends hates him with a passion.

2007-08-31 19:11:34 · 6 answers · asked by SLIM 1 in Family

2007-08-31 18:45:00 · 32 answers · asked by chet gurung 2 in Other - Family & Relationships