Family & Relationships - 31 August 2007

Here's the short version. I have a very spoiled 14 year old niece. She has been posting some very disturbing things on her myspace page. I tried talking to her and she said she was just being "scene." I continued to be concerned and it came to a point where I brought her page to my brother's attention. His wife had my niece block me because apparently, according to her, I need a life. I am hurt that my brother didn't stand up for me, even though they didn't like the things she was posting either. They made her take it all down and told her she had to show it to them whenever they requested to see it. Also, I was not the only person to approach them about her myspace page. When did it become a bad thing to care about someone?? How would you feel?

2007-08-31 15:17:16 · 6 answers · asked by jadedgirl149 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

the guy i like is totally into this other girl. we are close friends, and he likes me alot, but not in that way. how do i get his attention away from her and onto me?

2007-08-31 15:17:04 · 3 answers · asked by lana s 2 in Singles & Dating

First of my mom doesnt cook at all - we only go out to eat. We are an average wealth family and can't afford to eat out. Anyway whenever we try to get her to cook (which she can) she just gets angry and locks herself in the masterbed room and crys. Anybody know how I can get through to my mom to change the way she acts. I bring this us because she is currently acting this way and I can't stand to hear her cry.

2007-08-31 15:15:22 · 9 answers · asked by pr33min3nt 2 in Family

friendship?

2007-08-31 15:15:12 · 2 answers · asked by Me 3 in Singles & Dating

Earlier I asked what it means when guys stare and i got plenty of good answers but now i want to know what guys think about when they stare at a girl in class.

2007-08-31 15:14:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is always on the computer looking at porn...and I mean ALWAYS. He even yells at me if I go into the room to clean or get something. I don't have anything against porn, and I understand that men love to watch it, but it is ruining his life. He'll stay up till 4 in the morning (he wakes me up when he climbs into bed) when he has to go to work at 10 the next day. I give him sex plenty, once a day, sometimes twice. I am currently 5 months pregnant and recently had an eating disorder. He says I'm very "sexy" and "hot", but I can't help but start to hate the way I look. I am so close to restricting my calories and over exercising, but I want to be healthy for my unborn baby. It's ruining my self esteem, and I feel hopeless. I just want to make him happy and he does not stop! What can I say to him? Please help?

2007-08-31 15:12:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you notice with a girl is trying to impressing you by dressing cuter and putting an effort into her appearance? Do notice how a girl smells?

2007-08-31 15:10:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, i have more than 3 months without having sex with my partner and the worst is that I don't feel any desire for have it, everytime he tries to start something, i think "what i can say for making him to stop" and well I always make up something and we ended doing nothing. I love him very much and i feel attracted to him, we are very affectionate couple, so I don't know what is wrong with me, it is the first time something like that happen to me, so I am really confuse. Thank you for your help.

2007-08-31 15:05:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so my old classmate has apparently tried to rob someone and stabbed him. he's about 18 or 19 and he has 3 felonies on him and his friend.

attempted murder, assault with deadly weapon, and attempted robbery..

so do you think 30 years is too much for beating a guy up? i mean the guy got stabbed and badly beaten up like knocked out with blood and **** but no permanant physical damage. he might be scared to go around a certain district but he walk and function correctly.

don't you get 25 for killing someone non premeditated? how are you gonna get 30 for not killing the guy though?

2007-08-31 15:01:53 · 23 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Friends

I recently searched my boyfriend of 5 years' computers to see if he was looking at online porn. I never thought he did ANYTHING like that until someone I work with, also a friend of his, said he's obsessed with it. When I asked my boyfriend if he looked at porn he denied it and says he rarely masturbates Recently I saw a show about how online porn addicts eventually engage in casual sex and cheat. My boyfriend is 27 and I always thought he just didn't have a sex drive. He works alot and I thought he never wanted to have sex with me b/c he was too tired. I always got turned down when I asked and we only had sex a couple times a month, which lasted very shortly. I looked online and hes been going to porn sites before work, after work and sometimes after going to bars several times a week. He's doing this before I come over his house. He's been looking at local sex ads of girls in nearby towns and I think he's cheating on me. Any advice? Am I overreacting? Do all guys look at online porn

2007-08-31 14:56:05 · 3 answers · asked by duclosall 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 14:55:55 · 1 answers · asked by peachandsmokey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I understand there is a high divorce rate among firefighters and wondering the reasons. thanks

2007-08-31 14:51:21 · 8 answers · asked by haloperidol4u 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why do guys always go for the sluts and not nice pretty people!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-31 14:49:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy needs to be set in place help me to make myself to make him so he stops doing it its wrong

2007-08-31 14:40:07 · 8 answers · asked by Kilee 1 in Singles & Dating

We wanted to have the mother/son and father/daughter dance at the same time. Please help us find a song.

Thank you ALL in advance!

2007-08-31 14:38:53 · 5 answers · asked by TJ 4 in Weddings

know one thinks aim pretty

2007-08-31 14:37:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Were all between 21-40 and we share stories about guys etc. So anyway, the other day were all talking and just about every one of us atleast once if not more times had there vibrators either stolen/taken/destroyed when breaking off a relationship by the ex..... so I was wondering how common this is and if its happened to you? Whats the reason for it? And guys, have you done this and why?

2007-08-31 14:33:09 · 11 answers · asked by JJ 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok well dont answer if u r going to say something mean but my last bf said that he broke up with me because he found someone else and thought I wasnt really good looking so I was just wondering what u think?http://www.usc.edu/student-affairs/IMREC/spirit/song/media/2005fball_hawaii06.jpg I am the one with brown hair and I have the blue and white stripe shorts on.Thx.

2007-08-31 14:31:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you consider beautiful for a girl or guys physical appearance?

2007-08-31 14:31:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One day I was just hanging out and a guy came up to me. He asked for my number and I said sorry I'm not interested. So then he grabbed my left breast and said "honk honk" (what an idiot) he started walking away and I asked if he wanted a suprise he told me yes and walked up to me. With all the strength I had I kicked him in the balls. He fell over in pain. I kicked him in the balls again and said "Do you want more?" He moaned and I walked away. Girls has this ever happend to you? And this is for girls and guys, was I right or did I over react? (I don't think I over reacted)

2007-08-31 14:31:09 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or is it usually the other way around?

2007-08-31 14:27:05 · 18 answers · asked by hello world 7 in Family

2007-08-31 14:24:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have just got accepted into med school and i've found an apartment with three bedrooms .. my room-mates are sooooooooooo very much diffrent than me .. how can i deal with them??!

2007-08-31 14:23:53 · 2 answers · asked by fo6a 2 in Family

Hello all. I have fallen in love with a wonderful woman. On many levels we are perfect together. I love her very much and im sure she definitely cares a lot about me. We have been together almost a year and have had some great times. We are currently living together. We are talking about a longterm future. We want the same things - nice house, kids, etc. However there are multiple clouds on the horizon - 1. She is 7 years younger than me (im 30). 2. She has a 3 year old daughter (who i get on well with) 3. Her previous relationship was abusive - we have great sex - but she finds physical intimacy difficult - i suppose we dont have sex as often as i would like 4. She is being sued in a civil case - long story short - she went drinking with some underagers, one of whom killed a man while drunk driving - im worried that she and if i marry her we will be liable for a lot of money etc making our future difficult. 5. Her ex bf is psycho - he is currently in prison for how he - continued..

2007-08-31 14:17:48 · 8 answers · asked by Pa J 1 in Singles & Dating

extra props if theyre country songs but not a must

2007-08-31 14:15:32 · 14 answers · asked by iminlocker11 2 in Weddings

So This Is How It Went Down-
We broke up cause he is not the same person and really Iiked this girl named Fatimah. My ex is spreading lies saying I broke up with him cuz I wouldnt F*** him and I always want my way, and yada yada. So I was like screw him, he can kick rocks! So his new girl Fatimah (supposed to be my friend) She came up and said "He's Mine Now". I told her I dont care cuz I really dont want him. So even though I like my best friend Steven, I still like Keytron (ex). What should I do about Fatimah? I dont know what to do! Help me out plz!

2007-08-31 14:14:56 · 14 answers · asked by niyah_chrisbrown 2 in Singles & Dating

OK...this is something I've never understood. Why is it that a guy can meet someone that he says is beautiful and that he loves her to death, but then turn around and go do the cyber sex thing with any woman who will let him? To me it makes no sense. He's got someone to love...someone who loves him...and yet he would rather do something like that. I even know a girl who tried it out for her guy's sake. He started the whole thing...stopped her within seconds with a lame excuse about people supposedly milling around the house...but the next night, she was talking to a another woman and he propositioned her to show herself on cam, even though he knew they were talking! She was so ashamed...and he never spoke of it after...nor did he speak to her after that. How could a guy claim to love someone and do that to her?
And yes...I know there are women who do the same...so let's say why do people do that? (Though I'm specifically looking for a guy's POV).

2007-08-31 14:13:16 · 18 answers · asked by Unpretty 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 14:12:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are your favorite qualities in a girl?

2007-08-31 14:12:36 · 5 answers · asked by peace♥love♥latex 1 in Singles & Dating

I caught my fiance' cheating (our engagement was on hold anyway) I checked his answering machine and he got 2 females on there saying "hey baby" and all of that crap. This relationship sucks, I want out but our lives are intertangled together right now, but I've had it I want him out! What can I do? He brought his little sister to our apartment to live, and this crap is not good at all the relationship is failing but he won't leave! I won't be with a lying, cheating man! What to do! How can I get rid of him! He has no car and no way to work, but I can't deal with this crap right now, because he should have thought about that before he cheated on me and when I asked him he said no!

2007-08-31 14:10:28 · 22 answers · asked by rashida_16 5 in Singles & Dating