Family & Relationships - 31 August 2007

In my highschool class I was writting some stuff on paper and some hot girl in my class grabbed my hand on purpose while she was walking by and messed me up on purpose and giggled and walked past. What is she trying to do? Is she trying to flirt or something?

2007-08-31 12:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey, so I've been hooking up with this guy for a while now, but I'm starting to have a kindof big crush on him, I know he's physically attracted to me, (cuz we have sex) and sometimes he does things that make me think he might like me, but how can I find out. I don't want to tell him I've started to have feelings if he isn't interested because it might scare him off

2007-08-31 12:03:46 · 4 answers · asked by Ariana C 2 in Singles & Dating

So I'll try to sum everything up in 1000 characters. I've been with my husband for 5 years. We got together when I was pregnant with #1 (not his). We had #2, got married. Had #3, and now I'm preg. w/ #4. He is out of the house from 7am till 10pm. We have our own little contractor business, so I stay at home with the kids, answer phone calls, do all paperwork, etc...He only does the physical labor. Then he comes home, eats and passes out. But not after waking the kids up to give them candy he bought them on the way home. So every night, I have 3 hyper kids at 11pm...and he's sleeping through it all. The kids usually pass back out around 12am, and I'm free to take my shower. Last night, He woke up at 1am as I'm getting into bed and told me that I had to go and find all of this paperwork he needed for today (we're moving, so everything is in boxes). I get done at 3am and am really tired and angry with him. Then he asks for sex. I say no, and he starts saying things.

2007-08-31 12:01:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been talking to this really nice guy online since June. We're really close and talk about practically everything. However, we've stayed just friend since we've both had crushes since we've been talking and his friend just cheated on him. He's afraid to get hurt again but he's said that he's now ready to resume the waiting game to see if anyone else comes along. I've told him before I have feelings for him and he said he'd thought of us together but didn't want to say anything because I liked someone else. (I don't anymore) We're going to meet in person in a few weeks and I don't know how to act! How do I know if he likes me as more than just a friend? Should I make a move or wait for him?

2007-08-31 11:59:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hello there im 19 and a girl i no realy wants me but she 45 to old dont get me wrong she is nice looking but think my mats may take the pi@+ and wud be my 1st grilfriend and what shud i do ?

2007-08-31 11:59:10 · 28 answers · asked by james g 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 11:59:02 · 4 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

I guess technically he's my ex now, but he still lives with me, and we have a child together. anyways he doesnt pick up after himself, and will only watch our 8 month old for about 5 minutes before he starts playing video games or gets on the computer or goes out. He doesnt get that i need time for myself too and that I'm not HIS mother and he needs to pick up after himself. got any ideas to get it through his thick skull?

2007-08-31 11:50:59 · 18 answers · asked by Sarah L. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I get so mad at my husband sometimes that I wonder why I married him. It's over small stuff. He doesn't abuse me or our children.

I have learned to drop my expectations for him. Like him helping me clean the kitchen after dinner or... expecting him to clean up after himself, etc. (He doesn't treat me like his maid.) When I dropped them, it helped me to not get so mad at him all the time. He's actually gotten better without me nagging him. Any way... I sometimes wonder if I really love him or not.

2007-08-31 11:48:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Things you can do at home..I Cant get out at the moment!.

2007-08-31 11:46:43 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been this girls best friend for YEARS. I love her like a sister, but the last 2 years she has really let herself go. She did crack for a while. She has cheaked onher husband many times (although he had it coming....it wan't a normal marraige) and then she divorced him. She has been on welfare for the last 10 years. She refuses to get a job and hangs out with deadbeats. I worry all the time about my 3 god kids but am helpless to do anything. I found out that 3 days ago she files a police report stateing that her ex hubby broke into her house and robbed her and the kids. (2 days before that a local church bought her a AC and the kids a bunk bed and food) What really happened was that she pawned all the stuff, even the food and kids new bed for money. Today she went back to this church to ask them to pay her rent and light bill. They said that they would... but then she took the money that she would have spent and blew it on new clothes for her, beer for her BF and- below

2007-08-31 11:46:02 · 4 answers · asked by Brandi 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a married girl and having a small kid and I am deeply involved with a guy who is 9 years elder than me and who is married with 2 small kids.We really understand eachother better than our spouses.My hubby hurts me emotionally every time and he has promised me 2 times that he will change but he keeps on hurting me degrading my character even before when I didnt have anything with anybody.This guy I love is married for 20 years and he is married to her not because of love but because of fear,She always threatens him like goign to jump from the balcony with the kids or even before marriage she used to bang him and threaten him saying she is going to jump from the subway and etc.I have seen with my own eyes how sge treats him and humiliates him in front of his relations and family .She yells and talks very rudely while this guy is bearing up everything.Nowadays we have planned to settle things with our partners and trying to get a divorce so we can move on and live together.willit work

2007-08-31 11:44:33 · 18 answers · asked by pinkgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there it is!here is a boy i dont know if he likes me! in the cafeteria he always watch me.and he sit with his friends but i dont know if he likes me.
And when his friends wanna tell me something he tell them to be quiet and in the cafeteria when i get my lunch he said to his friend that why i pass besides him i can pass in the other way that is the fastst way to get to my sit.so hellllllllp me!!!

2007-08-31 11:38:28 · 1 answers · asked by diaganaou 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey all!
Well I'm single. I fell in love & had a great r.ship with my gf for 2 years. We both went travelling, fact is, I didn't sleep with anyone, but I was 'interested'. I lied quite a bit. We broke up mainly 'cause of the distance and trust. 2 months I got back from travelling. My ex and I both said there was no one else, and we loved each other, but realised we needed time and change. So we gave it each other.
The main point is she feels insecure and intrusting & is scared, which I understand. I have given her all the time in the wrld, and respect. I love this girl, and lately even though she says she is too scared, but wants me, I find it hard to wait and be positive. Communication is on & off & I find it so hard to try & prove things to her. Am I a fool? Am I a fool for trying too much? should I try too much?When is the time to finally walk away? I'm sticking around but I don't wanna be used obviously because right now, she holds all the shots. Any help would be appreciated guys!

2007-08-31 11:35:23 · 3 answers · asked by the_randomone 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am home with the kids during the day and my DH has said, "don't yell at my kids" in front of our kids on two occasions. The first time was a while back and I was in tears. I contemplated staying with him or not. This last time he said it and my daughter who was watching the whole thing, not more than a few feet away- got a wry look on her face when he said it. I felt like she was thinking, "uh-oh. How you going to deal with this one, Mom?"

Ever since then I have been contemplating a way out. It's been 7 years and he berates me in front of the kids and never apologizes for this behavior.

2007-08-31 11:34:33 · 12 answers · asked by wawas7 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-31 11:34:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got married last year after meeting her for a week after a family introduction; our was to saty engaged for two years and get to know each other better before getting married; circumstances changed and was somehow married within three months. I know I was weak to get married looking back but there is little that can be down now. We broke up after she attempted suicide for the second time in a week after a few difficulties.
I had enough by that time as she forced me to breal contact with my family and forced me to move 400 miles away form london and live with her parents.
I was not happy. A year later she decides to start a divorce after my solicator said to her that we would start the process. She made allegations that I had been sleeping wiith prostitutes throughout the marriage and that i never gave her any money.
She is form a very wealthy family and is a diirector in her family business. Her father owns a business employing three hundred staff.

2007-08-31 11:31:01 · 16 answers · asked by omg my wife is a nutter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i live in NY, i was just curious if anyone on here makes around a 38k salary and what their take home pay is per paycheck (assuming bi-weekly)??

2007-08-31 11:26:01 · 14 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 15 years. I found out that my husband has been seeing the same woman for 5 years He is a good provider, father and caring husband. Their hasent been very much sex for about 10 years and I thaught it was because of his medical conditon I do not miss the sex but I do not know what to do I have spoken with him and he does not want to end the marriage but he does not want to give her up. What will I do.

2007-08-31 11:21:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a situation where a certain person is willingly violating policy to the point she would be fired if the truth was revealed. She is blaming everyone for starting the rumor but the person with whom she is involved is actually telling all of her business. Policy does not allow her to date this person because she holds a professional position, and he is a displayed consumer. She is boldly doing it and lying to her superior and co-workers. She then becomes wrathful and actually lies on innocent folk to circumvent what she is doing. She is so powerful and deceiving that she is going to get away with it. In a sense, she is a sociopath. Because of her looks and the sincere way she convinces everyone that she is doing nothing wrong, it is almost impossible to expose her.

2007-08-31 11:20:55 · 8 answers · asked by shawnLacey 4 in Marriage & Divorce

It makes me very uncomfortable. I am a bit larger than normal, but not extremely huge. How can I turn their interest in that element of me into a request for a date. (just dinner first! ;-) )

2007-08-31 11:18:29 · 1 answers · asked by LovesAssFlakes 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm so sick of having to wipe off pee with tp before i sit. its his pee!! its nasty and has got to stop. what can i do?

2007-08-31 11:15:15 · 16 answers · asked by bertinathompson 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 11:15:09 · 19 answers · asked by eiffelparis2005 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just moved to a brand new school. it's so tough. i get lost so many times and i have some trouble making friends. i'm a very friendly person but i guess someone could say i'm a little shy. i don't want to act stupid and just go up to someone and tell them my name. but i really want to meet new people friend-wise and relationship-wise. i have my eye on this cutie that rides my bus that i'm interested in. and i also met one girl and she's a really nice friend but that's the only friend i have right now. so any advice please?

PS: if this helps, i ride a bus and there are a TON of kids at the school.

2007-08-31 11:09:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a presure job,go and have a few tooo maney on friday night,back to work on sun/mon she complains . i earn 70K+ WHATDO I SAY OR DO.

2007-08-31 11:08:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is emotionally abusive. He curses me, tells me I'm nothing, says the next man will physically abuse me, and does a lot of mean things. When I ask him to change, he says he will but doesn't. He always brings up the things that I have done wrong (I don't clean enough, I've been mean, etc.) and says he's forgiven me so I should get over it. We've been separated for a few months now. There are times when things are good but they never last long. He says he wants me back but he has not changed. Why does he not want to end this marriage?

2007-08-31 11:08:38 · 28 answers · asked by lifeLover75 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and this guy met while camping about a month ago. We instantly hit it off and had a amazing connection. We live about a 1.5 hour plane ride away from each other tho...but i am going to see him in a week! He is always telling me he is so excited to see me and i feel the same way. I am falling in love with him, and im sure he is too. He has talked about moving here for me, but hasnt brought it up in a couple days, and i dont want to bring it up. I want this relationship to work, and he said to me that he'll do whatever it takes to make it work. How do I make this work?? what are things i should just let go and not get mad about? the long distance is hard and making me more paranoid (for no good reason) and I dont want to ruin it! How should I act towards him so he knows i like him, but to still keep him interested and let both our feelings develop properly??? I think we have something really great

2007-08-31 11:07:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you prefer complete honesty from your man about your appearance, or do you prefer him to tell you that you're completely gorgeous always regardless?

2007-08-31 10:58:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I havent seen them in a while they are15 and 13 I was expecting to have them this weekend and they both made other plans I wouldnt be upset or hurt if this hadnt been the third weekend in a row,they are supposed to come every other weekend but dad does what they want he ignores our divorce decree I dont have $ to go to court I also feel bad because If I buy them stuff they'll come and I feel like that is all they come for

2007-08-31 10:57:10 · 12 answers · asked by laura w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

in a divorce how can one spouse's lawyer ask the other to pay for their attorney fee?

2007-08-31 10:55:46 · 8 answers · asked by diana g 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Especially if he doesn't get that good of grades, and he's really nice and sweet toward me. So does his grades go down too?? And if so, how many guys would stay in a relationship for longer than 4 years??

2007-08-31 10:53:13 · 1 answers · asked by Mystify 1 in Other - Family & Relationships