Family & Relationships - 31 August 2007

My husband and I just got married (a lil court wedding) not too long ago, but wanted to have a bigger wedding when both of our dads get back from Iraq. I was just wondering if we had to get a new marriage license.. or basically is there anything extra or less that I have to do because we're already married?

2007-08-31 09:41:19 · 10 answers · asked by .:*giggles*:. 3 in Weddings

I find myself adrift at sea
Alone and tired I cannot flee
The currents and waves toss me around
My body and soul want to get out
Afraid of the waters I look for help
I shriek and cry out to God for help!
I ask God for strength and ask him for guidance
While winds blow me to the edge my boat my boat slowly, slowly subsiding
I ask God to help to stop all his anger
Tears don’t stop I am needing an anchor
The waters continue to grow while I am growing weary
My soul continues with out rest but still a feeling, a feeling so eerie
Wave after wave wind against wind
My God, my God watch over me for I am sinking!
Drip drop, drip drop again O lord my God I feel the rain…
Free me from my storm,
Free me from my own
As far away as you may seem
I look up and see a ray of light coming down upon me
I see your promise and I will not rest
I will get through and survive this test!!

2007-08-31 09:40:55 · 2 answers · asked by WhErE Do I BeGiN??? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been emotionally abused, controlled and manipulated by him for the last time.......I can't take it any more! I literally feel as though I'm walking on egg shells in an attempt to avoid him. Nothing I do, or say is right. It's been 7 years, and we have 3 children ages 5,3 and 1. I really thought he would get help, especially after two of our kids have been showing severe signs of emotional trauma. My 3 year old now grinds, and bites his knuckles when tense, stutters, and my 5 year old is even more sensitive to the situation. It's breaking my heart, and I am ready, to take action. I may seem like a weak hearted fool for staying this long,but until recently I actually believed him when he told me it was my fault for making him act this way. He has messed with my mind plenty, but I will NOT let him traumatise our children any more. I am so scared.Being a child of a messy Divorce myself, I know the devastation it can cause.But I also know it is a better option than living like this.

2007-08-31 09:36:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

does anyone else have the problem of sloppy poo. it seems like dhioria but ive had it for 4 years. it also squirts. what would you say to a girl if she saw you had no pen,is?

2007-08-31 09:36:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We went to court and they left the child support case open because he dont have a job but he claims he bought a house can I enforce child support.

2007-08-31 09:36:08 · 14 answers · asked by karam1982rahman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i recently hasd great sex with a guy i just met..but after about 6 different times over a period of about 3 hours i was exausted and sore, but he wanted to keep going... so question is...Can having sex a lot in a short period of time be bad???

2007-08-31 09:36:06 · 24 answers · asked by kelly S 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 and i am only 5ft tall. I have been this height since i was 16 and it is really annoying because all the girls are taller than me. Is there anything i can do to increase my height and will i be noticed.

2007-08-31 09:28:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering because my husband says that he only feels tight at the opening, maybe 2 or 3 inches within. (like a ring on your finger)The rest of the penis he says he feels like it's flying......you know what I mean? I was wondering if this is normal....or maybe I have a problem.......would it need to be tight all the way? (like a long tube) .....would a man feel better that way?

2007-08-31 09:21:14 · 26 answers · asked by christy321014 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so i was at my locker putting books into my bag. When my best friend/crush (Ugh i know, im crushing on one of my best guy friends but whatever lol) comes to me and starts talking. So we're chatting then His friend comes over and joins in on the convo. we share laughs blah blah blah yeah then all of a sudden This new guy that just transfered to our school comes up and hugs me! right in front of my crush! OMFG i was so mad becuz my crush (lets call him Joe) Joe was like "uhhh okay? Well... see you around..." then walks away. Ugh! but then his friend (mark) is still standing there (oh yeah not to mention the guy is STILL HUGGING ME!) and Mark's like "Dude get off her!" then shoves him to the ground.
End of story.
Now my question is.... What do you think Joe is thinking? He looked really mad and awkward kind of like that new guy was some kind of freak. (true)
Do you think that he lost a bit of interest in me or what? like im totally confused here!
Thanks!
-Ash.

2007-08-31 09:19:37 · 20 answers · asked by Truth be told. 2 in Singles & Dating

like he keeps saying "your bad" "your sooo bad" when you guys are making out and stuff

2007-08-31 09:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So i'm going to try and keep this short and to the point. There's this girl that i have really fallen in love with. She has recently gone through a bitter break up back in May. I have asked her out, the first time she said it was too soon after her break up and the second time she said she didn't have time nor did she trust boys anymore. I'm not the only one that has asked her out so i know its not all bull crap. I've told her i'm never going to give up. I wrote her a really sweet poem that brought a tear to her eye and i bring her flowers and so on and so forth. She knows i like her, she knows that i really want to go out with her, so should i just wait and see what she decides to do later on down the road, or should i continue to fight for her.
~Please don't leave any sarcastic crap, i really want some good advice. Thanks very much!!

2007-08-31 09:15:39 · 26 answers · asked by Silent.K 3 in Singles & Dating

my older sister is such a Bi tch! she is hurtful discietful rude evil and she treats me like her enemy more than a sister and i have never done anything to her i watch her kids i clean her house i drive her older boy to work i have never done anything to her that she can say wut i am saying about her about me! would it be wrong of me to cut her out of my life and never speak to her again! i would have done it long ago but i figure you dont do that to family but my God she is f n evil n i cant take it anymore it has gotten to the point that i dont care about her or what happens to her she has been that bad to me!! wut do u think should i just cut her off completely?

2007-08-31 09:15:36 · 10 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i met this girl i realy like alot that i hope to marry some day, the problem is she will not let me have sex with her, she said i'm to big. what do i do? i love her.

2007-08-31 09:15:06 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do u know if a chik likes u or if its to much online not face to face?

2007-08-31 09:14:58 · 4 answers · asked by ChemE 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend has nothing to talk about on the phone he ask what i had for dinner, i tell him a little about school that's pretty much. what should i say to make the conversation more interesting.

2007-08-31 09:14:52 · 8 answers · asked by trini4life 1 in Singles & Dating

It is so hard to keep my mouth shut.

2007-08-31 09:14:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bestfriend either thinks i'm stupid or she has lost her mind. she cheated on her husband and acts as thought her marriage is peachy. we saw the guy she cheated with and she tried to tell me that the two of them never messed around but she cried on the phone about it the day after it happened. and now she is trying to hook the guy up with an old friend of ours. should i tell the other girl,even though i dont like her? and should i call my best friend out about her infedility so she can get a glimpse of reality: that her marriage is screwed up and she needs help? cuase i seriously think that in time her marriage won't make it and it's better that she admits to her wrong doing now.

2007-08-31 09:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by shaunda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-31 09:13:40 · 18 answers · asked by (sandstorm222) Jason Carmichael 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have recently found 3 half brothers and 1 half sister. I dont know how my brother will take it any advice???

2007-08-31 09:13:15 · 4 answers · asked by Mrs D 1 in Family

is sex important in a relationship?

2007-08-31 09:10:23 · 19 answers · asked by ~Juicy~ 2 in Singles & Dating

It's been over a month since me and my bf of 2 years split. I'm 8 1/2 mos preggo and I'm doing fine. He did a lot of horrible things to me while we were together and I know I should have got out earlier. I'm thrilled about my preggo, I'm 34 healthy, great job, never depended on him. Every now and then I cry b/c I did love him so much and it kills me sometimes that he has just cut himself off from me and a baby that he wanted. I just wanted to make him happy. I know life will be better w/o him as he is immature (he's 32) irresponsible to me and has lied and been abusive as well, plus he admitted he had a another gf when I was 6 1/2 mos preggo. My heart is just torn and I am doing everything I can to get thru this. Why would someone do this to another person who loves them. I have always been very confident and I still am. It's amazing how one person can make you feel like this. I can't wait for my baby to be here, it's just hard going it alone.

2007-08-31 09:10:00 · 19 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4 in Singles & Dating

if too skinny, name your perfect celeb!

2007-08-31 09:09:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 09:09:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know that it depends on the situation of your relationship, but I recently mentioned to my boyfriend that, when we are married, with children, I wouldn't like his ex-girlfriends to be around my children. Is that wrong? I would give him that same courtesy with no problem.

2007-08-31 09:07:21 · 1 answers · asked by marshwiggle03 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i got married 6 months ago when my husband was here on leave.he is currently deployed and will be away another 5 months. i found out he cheated on me before we got married several times over months and i have been dealing with this the past months,. he wants to make up and be a good man now, but thats impossible with him being away (how would i know he isnt doing it still) and when he is back i dont see much of a chance and he knows this. i do love him still very much, unfortunaly, but he caused so much damage and now i am alone with all my pain. i feel very lonely and have a serious need to be held by someone, no sex! just be touched and cared for again. does anyone understand?

2007-08-31 09:05:46 · 11 answers · asked by not this way 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I do not have children yet, but we both want to have a baby. Maybe in a year or so....We both are busy, both own our own business and I am not a kind of a woman who can be a stay at home wife/ mom and be happy. I would like to stay at home with our future baby as long as I can, but eventually I have to go back to work. I think a live in nanny is a good idea. I mean I am not planning on working all day long and I want to spend time with my children and take care of them, but at the same time I know that I will go insane if I stay at home all the time taking care of the kids. My husband says that it is wrong to have a live in nanny because a mother should raise the kids, not a stranger. He thinks that I should stay at home until our future baby is at least 3 years old. He says that it is selfish and irresponsible to hire someone to take care of your baby. What do you think? Am I being selfish? Is something wrong with me?

2007-08-31 09:05:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its been 2 months since I dumped my ex bf..and it was very ugly the way it ended for him being selfish and just thinking of his needs.
So after 2 months he comes back wanting me..see thats not the problem,the real problem is his got his mother involved with this and now she wants me to come back to him..and he wont leave me alone.
But why wait for 2 months?

2007-08-31 09:02:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are Jewish but don't necessarily need anything all that religious. We are a quirky couple and would like to have some readings that are funny or unique and fun. Thanks!

2007-08-31 09:01:45 · 8 answers · asked by futureisgold 1 in Weddings

if a man gets excited looking at women butts and breasts, then what do women look for in the man?

2007-08-31 09:01:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has this friend who is constantly harassing him to go to the bars with him. I'll call him *Jon*. First off, neither my husband nor I have any interest in bars. We think they are a waste of money and we'd rather drink at home. Anyways, *Jon* LOVES the bar scene. He blows all of his $$ there, drinks and drives, and is constantly trying to pick up women, despite the fact that he has a gf. *Jon* doesn't necessarily like me because he wants my husband to be single again so they can party like they did a couple of years back. He doesn't like the fact that my husband has responsibilities. He is always trying to get him to do stupid things and he is always trying to talk to my husband about other women IN FRONT OF ME! WTF?!? I told my husband I don't care if he wants to go to the bars, but I don't want him going with *Jon*. Only bad things can come from it. I think *Jon* would try to get my husband to cheat on me, or at least not try to prevent it. Am I overreacting?

2007-08-31 08:58:55 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce