My bestfriend either thinks i'm stupid or she has lost her mind. she cheated on her husband and acts as thought her marriage is peachy. we saw the guy she cheated with and she tried to tell me that the two of them never messed around but she cried on the phone about it the day after it happened. and now she is trying to hook the guy up with an old friend of ours. should i tell the other girl,even though i dont like her? and should i call my best friend out about her infedility so she can get a glimpse of reality: that her marriage is screwed up and she needs help? cuase i seriously think that in time her marriage won't make it and it's better that she admits to her wrong doing now.
2007-08-31 09:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by shaunda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not your decision to make!! Sounds like you need something in your own life and you are jealous of the turmoil in hers. I know that sounds strange but why would you put so much energy in someone elses life?
2007-08-31 09:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you need to just mind your own business and let her deal with it. It's her marriage, her problem. Even if you think that she is in the wrong. you just stay out of it. Not only will you lose your best friend but you might just lose the respect from your other friends as well. The best thing to do is just know what you know and keep it to yourself. You should never get involved in your friends personal life, especially when she or he is married. Think about what you would be doing, even if you think that they may not make it. It is none of your business.
2007-08-31 16:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by Tessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business....you aren't being a friend. You are being a busy body. A friend lets their friends make the mistakes they need to make and then be there to help when the sh!t hits the fan. Better yet, there with them enjoying the ride and look over and say damn that was fun wasn't it.
I've got the horns and my best friend has the tail, we let each other use the other, but if you ask either of us....we both wear halos.
2007-08-31 16:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need to do this? If she talks to you like you are an idiot then just call her out on it and tell her to drop the innocent crap. Don't get involved with the other issues. Karma is a *****. It will get her in the end.
2007-08-31 16:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try to get her to cheat again, only this time, be ready with the Cheaters crew to videotape the whole thing! Can you spell D R A M A?
2007-08-31 16:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
it's not up to you to fix! she'll address the situation when she is ready, if she ever is!
as for her hooking her 'hook up' with an 'old friend' ... it's not a big deal and nothing you should sabatage. who is the dirtbag ... your friend that cheated or hook up guy? there is one person who is to blame for the 'situation' that occured and it's not 'hookup' guy!
2007-08-31 16:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by samsam04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. This is between she and her husband. It will come out when the time is right.
2007-08-31 16:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People that cheat will never admit to it--- they have eternal amnesia.
2007-08-31 16:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by Lucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. She got game.
2007-08-31 16:19:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you, I would keep my nose out of it....but I would let her know that you don't appreciate her lying to you.
2007-08-31 16:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋