Family & Relationships - 31 August 2007

Ok, my friend, 20, has a one year old. Just last night she left home because of her mom's and mother-in-laws constantly budding in on her parenting... So she ran away with the baby. Now both grandma's are threatening her that if she doesnt go home, they will take the child away, and they threatened her to take her to court... they've also harassed me and they think I had somthing to do with her running away.... What can I do? What can she do in this situation?? I need law advise!!!!
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-31 10:46:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2007-08-31 10:46:32 · 1 answers · asked by theonething42 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am getting married in march and one of my best friends it a boy. i was wondering if it is bad if i had him in my party??

2007-08-31 10:46:01 · 23 answers · asked by darkvamp4542 3 in Weddings

My friend wont let me help her. She acts like I'm the one causing it. Should I talk to her boyfriend since he is also my friend?

2007-08-31 10:45:34 · 34 answers · asked by Caslynn 1 in Friends

I'm not trying to be disrespectful. None of the homosexuals that I know or know of personally (not counting famous people because I don't think you ever really know what's going on with them) have grown up in a happy family. Either their parents were divorced and always fighting, or their dad wasn't around, or their parents were alcoholics, or their parents only cared about themselves and never gave their kids appropriate boundaries, etc. So my question is seeking anecdotal evidence to the contrary. Do you know homosexuals who came from a happy family, or if you are a homosexual, did you come from a happy family?

2007-08-31 10:45:08 · 11 answers · asked by valleygirl 3 in Family

I know this girl & I told her I like her, & lately shes been emailing me, talking 2 me more often...even when shes tired shes still willing to talk, she'll ask me how my day is, she says she misses me from to time & it seems like she likes me as well, anyhow, for some reason if i compliment her & say she looks pretty or her hair looks nice or nice compliments in a small manner. Now she says I'm lying or she thinks that shes not pretty enough & for some reason shes been getting moody with me, pretending to hate my guts, I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING! and then she denies it, whats her problem & does it seem like she has low self esteem & do these signs indicate she likes me?

2007-08-31 10:42:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok when ur textin a guy and he says 'ttyl'(talk to you later) does that mean he does like you or wanna talk to you? like he acts like he likes me-he flirts alot. but i just wanna know....

2007-08-31 10:35:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's been married a year and is 23. I'm 29 & have had problems with my marriage for the last 2 yrs (known new guy 1yr). Day after HE kissed me, he said he couldn't be w/me outside work in order to save his marriage. So, I was going to avoid him but he keeps coming up to me and saying he misses me, I look great, etc. and I can tell that he has feelings for me. He also asks a lot about my relationship with my husband (almost every time we meet). Is he waiting for me to say it's not working out with my husband before he makes another move b/c it doesn't seem he's being cautious on his wife's behalf (w/ the flirting, etc). I think we both are in love but scared. He asked me to do lunch last week but then said "sorry" he couldn't do it (guilt?). Now he says he's "struggling" with wanting to hang out w/me. I want to be fair to my husband & his wife, so I don't want to drag this on. How can I find out if we are meant to be and what he's really feeling? Should I ask why he's "struggling"?

2007-08-31 10:13:44 · 53 answers · asked by 9201css 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this boy, most people think he's ugly and I kinda agree with them but he's still a really cool kid. Well it just so ahpenes thjis kid is my crush. And most people know it. But I lied to them and said I dont like him anymore. I want to talk to him in 1st period because thats the only class I will get to talk to him,because my school doesn't have recess. Oh and if you are wondering I'm in the 6th grade and in middle school for the second year. Anyway bak to the question. Also in 1st period there are a bunch of guys that kinda make me feel bad about myself because they think I'm ugly.And evertime I try to say something there remarks cut deep and the only thing I can think of is to say something really stupid or get mad. How do I talk to my crush without him freaking out? I told him I dont like him but ya know he probably knows I still like him but I dont knw what to say to him. Could you help me out?

2007-08-31 10:08:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you? meaning from home/work/relationship etc. Or are you happy where you are now. why?

2007-08-31 10:05:43 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Well first of all I'm one of them fine black beautiful nubian queens that you would see on TV or something. And niccas is making dumb comments like, "just BC their white doesn't make them right", and then I got the hatin @ss (mainly white) females that roll their eyes and say stuff like " oh she think she the sh1t now!" Like hello I've been the sh1t my whole life! Then what makes it so bad is that my boyfriend is Russian and his English speaking is very strong accented so alot of people can't understand him like I can and they hate on me BC damn I'm with a hot rich russian boy (his *** could be a model!) And his parents can't understand that fact that he's with me! Sometimes I feel like they are on Hitler's side or something. He said he don't care what they think, he loves me and he likes big booty girls, which made me laugh. But sometimes I think about the movie hostel and wonder if I am making a big mistake. Should I let what people say destroy me and my man's strong relationship?

2007-08-31 10:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by danity c 1 in Singles & Dating

whats something that you look for in a girl? if she did it, you would start liking her? its its something to do with appearance - tell me. & if its something to do with confidence or personality or an action or whatever -tell me! be specific! please and thanks

2007-08-31 10:01:09 · 17 answers · asked by bowchickawowwowx3 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok last night me and my boyfriend were talking on the phone and he had just played in his first football game and won. So I asked him did his parents go and he said no because they don't love him. But I told him that they do love and him and he was like nah nobody loves him and I couldn't say anything thing. I mean I love him but do you think it's to soon to say I mean we only been going out for about 2 months now and do you think he was trying to make me say it?

2007-08-31 09:59:36 · 21 answers · asked by 2cute 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm really not very pretty and none of the boys even bother talking to me because im not as pretty as all the other girls i've never had a boyfriend either. how can i change all of that? and what makes a girl pretty?

2007-08-31 09:59:27 · 37 answers · asked by sandra k. 1 in Singles & Dating

I wondered how many others had their weddings(or other big event) video taped by someone incompetant. Our wedding video, taken by a relative, was actually EDITED and MISSING parts of the actual ceremony! Other problems too numerous to name. He volunteered, so we said okay. We won't do that again. So, anyone else have trouble with big event videos?

2007-08-31 09:57:11 · 4 answers · asked by Jed 7 in Weddings

A lot of women always have to be surrounded by at least one friend, they don't go out to the movies by themselves even if nobody wants to watch a certain movie with them and end up missing it, or go out and get a beer, they generally don't go out to grab a bite by themselves, are we that insecure? Its not like we can't take care of ourselves, or live in such an unsafe country where we may get kidnapped or shot. Should we be more independent?
Yesterday I went out to eat at a restaurant by myself and felt like everyone was looking at me in pity. I just help my head up and amused myself with thoughts, but couldn't help and wonder about the situation........
And in the past when I've gone out to get a beer at my local bar, I've felt like I have the words "I'm easy" on my forehead...... just awful, 'cause I sincerely do enjoy my own company!

2007-08-31 09:56:11 · 16 answers · asked by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3 in Friends

There is this boy that Ireally like and went to the movies on thursday and its was fin and all but the thing is that he has a crush on his ex girlfriend still but she is dating someone else and thats not all she cant kept aboyfriend without breking u with them and then instanty gettin a new one and the worst part is that the guy relizes this but stills want to date her again but i dont want him to get hurt or anything and he is always flirting with me and everybody says that we make a cute couple but the promblem is him liking his ex! What should I do??? I want to tell him that I like him but Im afarid that he wont like me more that a friend or something like that!!! Please I need help

2007-08-31 09:53:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so here's the deal, im 16 and im thinking about moving in w/ dad-stepmom, but my mom and my stepdad are against it, and so is my grandparents and aunt/uncle. when i told my mom she started yelling and saying things like, "I have had you under my wing since day one!!!" and stuff like "I nursed you and had you in my body for 9 months!!!!!" and i told her i loved her and it's nothing against her but she won't understand! i really just want to try something new and i want more freedom. i just need to breakaway for awhile. what should i do? what is involved in switching "custodial rights"?

2007-08-31 09:51:49 · 4 answers · asked by ♥snapple♥ 1 in Family

Well first of all, I'm really in love with my husband. We got married a month ago. But, there's this feeling that I have that doesn't go away. I see that he may not be really in love with me...he fell in love with someone he grew up with at the church..simply adored her...that was his first love....and he thinks she is the love of his life....
Do you all think that one day he'll fall in love with me and think that what he felt for her doesn't compare to the love he feels for me? or am I just lost...and won't ever feel like he really loves me?
I just really love him, I may sound selfish but I always dreamed of finding someone and marrying someone who would love me alot in return too not just me. Do I have hope or not?

2007-08-31 09:51:46 · 8 answers · asked by christy321014 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 09:50:51 · 16 answers · asked by semajjelin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean marriage is just a ring and a piece of paper. So why is it so important for women to tie the knot!

Is it so that when you get a divorce in two years they can take half of your savings and probably get to keep the house you lived in before you even met them!

or is it to do with wanting to feel secure that your not going to run of with someone younger and better looking and if you do, then they know they can still get their hands on half of whats in your bank account!??

or sensibly why is it ? i just mocked marriage there, but why is it?? whats so important about it

thanks

2007-08-31 09:50:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do y'all realize they are like 10 and 11 year olds on this site?! honestly! be civilized!

2007-08-31 09:49:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my best friends found out that they liked eachother and they started going out. Now he says really really romantic things to her. My boyfriend never says anything romantic to me. How can i get him to be more romantic?

2007-08-31 09:47:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 09:47:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

SO anyways, late at night when me and my man are kickin it, he loves when I get up and either make it clap in his face, drop it down to the floor and bounce, or just pop it. Either way I gotta get down so low, I am wipin the floor wit my booty. Sometimes I dont want to and he wont dance for me, but he dont like to have sex unless I do it. sometimes I am down makin it clap for like 30 minutes, how can I say I would like to not always make it clap?

2007-08-31 09:47:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in middle school and 1 of my teachers has nick names for every1 mine is rice patty(dont ask) so this who i liked before but not really anymore started 2 whenever he sees me in the hallway he goes hey rice patty and puts his hands on my shoulders n stuff...but we're sorta friends but not really well...does this mean he likes me or is he just bein friendly

2007-08-31 09:46:48 · 18 answers · asked by well hellooooo to you too 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so my parents think its normal for them to know everything and i mean EVERYTHING about my life...who i talk to on the phone, who i argue with, who im texting and i think thats way over the line...am i wrong or is that really weird and annoying?
im 16 years old and my brother just went off to college so im hoping they are just doing this cuz im the only one around but i dont know..?

2007-08-31 09:44:56 · 15 answers · asked by charlotte 1 in Family

i have a boyfriend and we kiss often. but one time i had to make out with my brother in a play, and it was great. know i just make excuses to kiss him and i do it with passion. my bf found out and he thinks it is weird and is thinking about breaking up. what should i do. this is really serious!

2007-08-31 09:43:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Indulge an old married crone for a moment and answer this question.....It seems to be an accepted fact that men have a tendency to see women in general as sex objects..so why do they act strange when older women look at them as sex objects???? I mean like at the mall for instance...guys you see an older gal say she is okay looking and she is looking at you with that LOOK in her eye....why do yu guys get a mortified look on your face and seem to run the other way?? SOme of us older gals do it to just watch your reaction and entertain ourselves but WHY do you RUN????????

I mean over 18 year old guys. I am not looking at minors thank you.

2007-08-31 09:41:51 · 13 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7 in Marriage & Divorce

told me so, but he says he is hurt and nothing is going to change his mind but over the last few weeks he's been coming around more, how should I act I really want to fix things between us. Some people tell me to act like i don't care and act as if everything is great without him, others tell me to keep apologizing and be extremely nice to him. Which one is the best advice?

2007-08-31 09:41:28 · 12 answers · asked by beba 1 in Marriage & Divorce