GUYS! WHAT DO i DO!?

Question

whats something that you look for in a girl? if she did it, you would start liking her? its its something to do with appearance - tell me. & if its something to do with confidence or personality or an action or whatever -tell me! be specific! please and thanks

Answer 1

I look for her to have a good personality, easy going and real friendly. What do you mean by "IF SHE DID IT" what is this "it"? It prolly is an attractive feature for some guys, but do not feel compelled to do it. Appearance is important i guess so look good. Confidence is important and personality that someone can connect with. but be who you want to be?

Answer 2

This is a question highly based on one's opinion so I will share mine.

There are many things that I personally look for in a girl when on the "prowl." The biggest for me is a sense of humor. There's nothing worse then a girl who doesn't laugh. I don't put much on appearance or looks because they really aren't important and DO NOT make the relationship strong and long-lived.

I believe that trust and honesty are so very important. Without those two, the relationship is bound to fail...no doubt about it.

Confidence is important...especially during the first stages of a relationship. People are more likely to respond positively to someone who is confident.

Personality includes all terms embraced in the above paragraphs. It's the total package. With the individual comes their personality. If you can find a guy who's personality clicks with yours, things will glide along a lot smoother.

In conclusion - if a girl were to display all the things that I look for, I would definitely be interested and quite possibly advance into starting a relationship (dating and what-not).

Good luck =)

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Answer 3

1st off, I've got to go with the disclaimer, that you shouldnt be, do, act, become something that you're not, especially just to get a member of the opposite sex to notice you....it's not healthy and can (and often does) backfire.........

now, unless you have a certain guy in mind, it's going to be difficult to be "specific" because each person is looking for something different (as I'm such your answers will tell you).....you should just try talking about something they seem to be into (note: DONT fake an interest, just ask questions if your truly interested).......find a nice icebreaker to use and approach the object of your affection.......truth is, sitting around waiting on someone to notice you or asking how a person should act to attract attention is a sure way to attract the wrong kind of attention (men in white coats, other crazies, etc).......now, if you're really interested in what each of users look for specifically, look up my email and drop me a line and I'll be glad to give you my opinion and my preferences on a one-on-one basis (no funny business - honest)

Answer 4

First of all (and this is EXTREMELY important) be yourself. Don't try to be someone else. It will only lead to a broken relationship somewhere down the line.

Second, be confident. (not cocky. confident.) believe in yourself. self-confidence is sexy. My wife would probably not turn heads walking down the street. She's attractive, but not America's top model, so to speak. But after talking with her for a little while, I've had people tell me how lucky I am to have her. She's intelligent and confident, and that *is* sexy. Men who don't care about intelligence and confidence are most likely just looking for a one-night-stand.

Answer 5

Okay first of all what really matters to me in a woman is how she carries herself, appearance is not everything, and yes confidence has a big role in a womans stature. A woman has to carry herself in a way that wants to make a man look at her rather than just to have him think " oh I am gonna hit that". It makes absolutely no sense to dress slutty or be slutty for that matter. Dont become a nasty person for some guy and dont do "it" unless you are sure of it. A woman , to me, is not a sex object and should not be treated like one....

Answer 6

If you have feelings for someone then you should let them know how you feel. The 2 most important things in a relationship that works in my opinion is trust and respect and the fact that I can be myself around the person I care about. If this person you like doesn't have the same feelings for you it's unfortunate but don't get into the role of doing "things" for people just to get them to like you because they won't respect you for who you are but for what you can do for them.

Just my 2 cents

Answer 7

Alot of guys notice a sense of humor in a girl and a girl who is outgoing and likes going out and is active. Of course appearance is probably not a bad thing to have so if you can improve your appearance any way it wouldnt hurt. If you flirt with a guy you like flirt with him and him only dont go around flirting with every guy. That is a deal breaker. Happy hunting!!

Answer 8

It take to know one To get her/him to like you 4 who you are not for where you come from Personally and appearance are good for looking in woman =)

Answer 9

When guys are young (or old) they want sex period.
If you give it up straight away where's the incentive to know you?
Sex NEVER equals a guy respect, interest, love or anything else. For him he just knows where to get it next time.
I'm not trying to be ugly but the confident girls ask guys to wait and the descent guys actually wait. It's that simple.

Answer 10

Good ?......I personally like a woman who takes care of herself and doesn't feel the need to lay down on her back to get a man. My advice to you is this....Love yourself and the right guy will come along. Never compromise yourself or sell out your beliefs. That is a sure way of a man losing respect for you