what makes a girl pretty?

Question

i'm really not very pretty and none of the boys even bother talking to me because im not as pretty as all the other girls i've never had a boyfriend either. how can i change all of that? and what makes a girl pretty?

Answer 1

Your opening statement is what's working against you...you don't think you're pretty. Its all about confidence, sweetie. When you feel better about yourself and you are able to look at yourself and say "I AM BEAUTIFUL", everyone else will notice it as well. Its personality and attitude, completely. I was an ugly duckling from the age of 10-15...but when I started to say "Forget what everyone else thinks...I like me"...everyone else started to notice me. Try it...

Answer 2

Confidence makes a girl pretty. If you think you are pretty then other people will also see you as pretty too.
Also you may be so pretty that some boys are intimidated.
I know for me when I was younger I never had a boy look at me until i was well into high school. Before that i used to think the same thing. I dont know how old you are but if you are before or in pre-teen age, that is the hardest time in a young girls life. You are going though your awkward stage... but have no fear.... you will grow out of it.

Answer 3

I think what truly makes a girl pretty is not outward beauty but inward. If a girl has a fantastic personality and can talk to anyone I think that that is way more important than actual looks. You could see the prettiest girl in the world but her personality isn't usually that great cuz usually lotsa times very pretty girls are full of themselves.Just get out there and be more outgoing talk to everyone.

Answer 4

You haven't had success with boys because you have no confidence. It's as simple as that. As far as your appearance goes, try to make the best of it. Find a style and look that you like, and make it work. There is nothing that defines "pretty". It's really true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Not every boy is going to find you attractive, but many will, if you find yourself attractive and don't walk around with your head down. You have to talk to them too. Don't wait around or you'll grow old and gray alone.

Answer 5

I'm sure you're a great girl and you just need some confidence to let your personality shine. Buy a new outfit, fix your hair up differently than usual and put on some lip gloss and just start random conversations with people. You'll see how a little confidence can go a long way. Good luck to you!!

Answer 6

Don't worry about it.

I'm sure you're fine. I don't know how old you are but lots of people don't have girlfriends and boyfriends in high school. I'm 17 and I'm still single, and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm not ugly either. Just because you never had a boyfriend it doesn't make you ugly.

I know plenty of less good looking girls who have had more boyfriends than me.

Answer 7

Confidence! You need to feel confident with yourself, the way you feel about yourself really shines through in your personality. Find something that you makes you feel good about yourself and run with it. I was never confident about myself in high school and didn't have many guys trying to talk to me, at the end of my senior year I gained a lot more confidence and guys started noticing me more, then after high school, I started a sales job and really excelled, was always one of the top sales reps, felt very comfortable with who I was and all of a sudden, I had all kinds of guys trying to talk to me, it was great! And I was never a skinny girl either, not fat...size 12, but it looked good on me. Once I was comfortable with who I was, my social life took off. So find something that you're good at, something that makes you feel good and work on your self esteem issues. Then everything else will fall into place.

Answer 8

Have you ever noticed that there are girls who everyone thinks is pretty but they really aren't? Pretty starts on the inside. And also, a girl who acts pretty, dresses nice, is artful with her make up, can be attractive without being drop dead gorgeous. Lots of smiles and sparkling eyes, and personality help.

Answer 9

That will all change Sunshine , give it time, what makes a girl pretty is not all physical it is about personalities and caring about others. You will be fine, enjoy your long weekend and remember always ," You are the Prize " , don't ever think any other way...

Answer 10

They claim what makes anyone desirable is how symmetric their face is. The better you feel about yourself, the more people will be drawn to you. I have known people that weren't that attractive, but their personality made me gasp. The more you get to know someone, if their are other bonds than physical, the less physical will matter. How do you think old people get by? They see their mate for who they truly are, and don't even realize how old they have become at times.