Well first of all I'm one of them fine black beautiful nubian queens that you would see on TV or something. And niccas is making dumb comments like, "just BC their white doesn't make them right", and then I got the hatin @ss (mainly white) females that roll their eyes and say stuff like " oh she think she the sh1t now!" Like hello I've been the sh1t my whole life! Then what makes it so bad is that my boyfriend is Russian and his English speaking is very strong accented so alot of people can't understand him like I can and they hate on me BC damn I'm with a hot rich russian boy (his *** could be a model!) And his parents can't understand that fact that he's with me! Sometimes I feel like they are on Hitler's side or something. He said he don't care what they think, he loves me and he likes big booty girls, which made me laugh. But sometimes I think about the movie hostel and wonder if I am making a big mistake. Should I let what people say destroy me and my man's strong relationship?
2007-08-31 10:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by danity c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-08-31 10:26:41 · update #1
dats my myspae wit my fine black @ss
2007-08-31 10:27:26 · update #2
NO...they're all jealous be/c your happy & they're not...live your life to the fullest & if that means being with a "HOTT" "SEXY" "FINE" white russian male, then sweetie...do it for yourself & not what everybody wants you to do.
This world needs to realize that we're all equal, & im white myself, if i want to date someone out of my nationality, then i can...no ones gonna tell me differently...it my choice, just as it's your choice to be with this man...if everyone has a problem then let them...be/c they're gonna probably be in the same boat as you in the future...i'd count on that
Most Parents say to their kids"we just want you to be happy"...if he is, then whats the problem, why do they have to act like this? If he doesnt care, then you shouldnt care. Just go on being happy!!!!
2007-08-31 10:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by **annie anytime** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never let what people say destroy something good that you have. just think what you are a part of in that relationship is just what mlk (martin luther king) was fighting for way back then, he didn't make it to see how far we came but that's OK grab that baton and run on. People are gonna talk anyway so let them talk, let them stare. Models have people looking at them always!!!!
2007-08-31 17:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by rai-rai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't let other people destroy your relationship, sure it may be a bit awkward betwen both families coz dey have never seen this but they'll get used to it and don't listen to all that crap other people have been saying about your relationship, they are just insecure coz dey have never seen anythiing like this, I've seen it all the time and the public don't even care
2007-08-31 17:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ben's Snake Pit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha Say "Privet " to him .
Im fine Russian boy too ,who loves fine black girls.
Dont be scared of "hostel" or Russian Mob, believe those soviet parents not gonna do anything.
Maybe you feel awkward cus of his accent ?
You have a myspace or somtn ?
2007-08-31 17:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gotta get past this. Bigotry is wrong whether it comes from white or black and is best ignored. Just "discount" who it comes from. My girl is black and I'm white, and yes, we get the "stare", but not too many "comments" cause neither of us looks like we would 'accept' comments. But mostly we ignore the looks, or we make jokes and laugh about it. But, yes, it does bother her more than me.
2007-08-31 17:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am russian too. Never mind if his parents dont like you. Many other parents may like you and may not. Just see what he says to you, thats it. Not what his parents say.
2007-08-31 17:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by Russian woman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and he get along together and are happy when you are alone together, then forget what anybody else thinks. You have to trust your own gut instinct about who is right for you.
2007-08-31 17:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by julie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit disrespecting yourself, by using broken english, it's not cute. Date who you want.
2007-08-31 17:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ACCEPT YOUR RELATIONSHIp then that way OTHER PEOPLE WILL ACCEPT IT.
ACCEPT YOURSELF love yourself...that way other people will LOVE AND ACCEPT YOu
2007-08-31 17:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ceci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋