Ok last night me and my boyfriend were talking on the phone and he had just played in his first football game and won. So I asked him did his parents go and he said no because they don't love him. But I told him that they do love and him and he was like nah nobody loves him and I couldn't say anything thing. I mean I love him but do you think it's to soon to say I mean we only been going out for about 2 months now and do you think he was trying to make me say it?
2007-08-31 09:59:36 · 21 answers · asked by 2cute 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you shouldn't worry about telling him you love him, as long as you do love him. I told my guy 12 days after meeting for the first time. it just kinda came out, i had planned on waiting. That was 8 years, and 3 kids ago, and we are still happily married. There is no reason to wait unless you are unsure of your feelings
2007-08-31 10:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Always Right 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your worried if he's trying to make you do it, hold back for a second. It will mean the most to him if you say it out of the blue. Its never too soon to love someone. How could it be two soon? There's a minimum time? What you have to learn all his favorite things first? No. If you love him then you tell him, but if you are afraid he is always trying to get you to say it then you need to talk to him. Be open and honest and say Im not saying this cause you want to hear it or I think you should hear it. Im saying it because its true and if that doesnt mean what it should then its on you: I love you.
2007-08-31 17:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by DLT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tomorrow is promised to no one so dig deep into yourself and if after your self inventory you can still say that you love him you shouldnt be afraid to tell him. He will know if your telling the truth if your actions line up with what your saying remember that actions talk louder than words. Anybody can tell you anything but its what they do that lets you know if they are speaking the truth. This goes for everyone that you are in a relationship with : you never want the time to come when that person is no longer around and you wished that you had said it. The only things you should regret in life are the things you didnt do
2007-08-31 17:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by rai-rai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if that's exactly what he was trying to get you to say. That would have been pretty easy, since the first 'I love you' isn't always easy to say. Now you'll have to wait again to find the right moment for those three big, little words. Too bad. Not to say that you've blown it, you probably haven't. I think it's what he's ready to hear though. It's your choice. If you feel that he feels the same way, it wont be difficult at all. Tell him.
2007-08-31 17:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was fishing for information. You should pat yourself on the back for holding off. You did the right thing. Love is a very strong word and so loosely thrown around in our society. Be supportive of your man, but say it when you mean it.
2007-08-31 17:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using a ploy with you. He wants you to feel sorry for him. don't buy into it. He's not a good boyfriend. And what he is doing is controlling you. He will get more and more controlling if you buy into this kind of behavior. Let him pout alone when he doesn't hear the answer he wants. Then look for a boyfriend that doesn't think it's all about him! Good luck!
2007-08-31 17:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by P S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you care for him but it's too soon to tell yet if it's love. Then he knows you like him but are being cautious. Never let anyone rush you into something you aren't ready for.
2007-08-31 17:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is a little 2 early but it sounds like he really needs some one 2 tell him they love him so if you really love him then go for it!!
2007-08-31 17:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmine D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes having a hard time with his folks it sounds like hes not tryn to put it out on you .i thinkyou should tell him that he shouldnt think that way his family loves him very much.also tell him you care alot about him.get him something to try to make him feel better.if you feel like it talk to his parents about what he told you.good luck.
2007-08-31 17:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then tell him. He doesnt feel like he has been loved by others, maybe he needs to be reassured
2007-08-31 17:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋