There is this boy, most people think he's ugly and I kinda agree with them but he's still a really cool kid. Well it just so ahpenes thjis kid is my crush. And most people know it. But I lied to them and said I dont like him anymore. I want to talk to him in 1st period because thats the only class I will get to talk to him,because my school doesn't have recess. Oh and if you are wondering I'm in the 6th grade and in middle school for the second year. Anyway bak to the question. Also in 1st period there are a bunch of guys that kinda make me feel bad about myself because they think I'm ugly.And evertime I try to say something there remarks cut deep and the only thing I can think of is to say something really stupid or get mad. How do I talk to my crush without him freaking out? I told him I dont like him but ya know he probably knows I still like him but I dont knw what to say to him. Could you help me out?
2007-08-31 10:08:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And he knows i like him!!!:(
2007-08-31 10:15:31 · update #1
Flirt, and act very feminine. Get him to lust after you by showing your best curves. Smile, and act very interested in anything he says.
2007-08-31 10:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's the same problem I have! I think you should just be kinda flirty. I no this sounds shallow, But it kinda matters what your friends think. Without friends your like nothing. So I think say hi. Twist your hair. Act feminine. Sit near him. Then drop your pencil see if he picks it up. If he does thats a sign he kinda likes you. Don't do this all in one day though. Spread it out. And people it's not shallow to care about what your think. What would you be without friends. Good luck!
2007-08-31 17:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by cami121312 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to tell your teacher or the principal about the others kids' remarks to you. If they're making you feel bad, I'm sure they're making others feel bad, and they have to stop. They will probably get in trouble but they will NOT know who told on them. It is the school's policy not to tell.
Other than that, I don't really understand your question. Just talk to the guy if you like him.
2007-08-31 17:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to date him? Then you shouldn't care what other people think; it only matters what you think of him. So take a chance - tell him that you like him. Forget about the people who make fun of you; they're probably just jealous and have nothing better to do with their time.
He might "freak out" by you being so honest, but if you don't try, you'll never know. Good luck!
2007-08-31 17:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello "In need of Help", I had the same situation in school..What I would do is stand out from the others and I would go with my gut feeling.If you like someone they would be meant for you and only you so talk to him and don't forget why does the little boy pull on the little girls pigtails in kindergarten........because he really likes her..............So go for it and when the others make fun of you tell them .....I don't care what you say I don't like you.........and that will get them thinking .....and leave you alone because they know that it doesn't bother you anymore and you are gonna do whatever you want (with in the law of course) hehehe......So please be good and enjoy your wonderful school years,,,,,,,,Bob.
2007-08-31 17:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sorta have the same problem im in 6 th grade too and hes in 9 th we dont talk anymore .when we see each other we stare and dont say a word.you could go up and talk with him and flirt.see if hes busy if not ask him out on a date.idk.if you can help me email me at juggalettes_1@yahoo.com
2007-08-31 17:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start flirting with him.
ask him if he wants to meet meet after school and see what happens from there then tell those stupid guys to get a life and crawl back into the trailer park were they came from and honey igorant them they are sad little creeps who needs a slap in the mouth.
IF YOU WANT HIM GIRL YOU GET HIM
2007-08-31 17:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you do like him and you were just embarrassed before. Who cares what other people think. I'm 15 and really dont care what other people think or say. If you really like him follow your heart.
2007-08-31 17:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have many crushes in future also. This age is such.
Enjoy the crush
This is age is finest for this where you don't care what he or she is you do what you want. No adult please now at this stage.
Don't go ahead do foolish thing like sex or dating.
If you call dating at your age as adult dating or you do adult dating then you are wrong path.
2007-08-31 17:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows you like him, I think. So let him come to you, instead of you trying to talk to him if front of other kids who are nasty. Get your relationship with him away from other kids. Don't give him mixed messages, I like you, now I don't. Good luck!
2007-08-31 17:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋