question to the men......what do you feel during intercourse?

Question

I was wondering because my husband says that he only feels tight at the opening, maybe 2 or 3 inches within. (like a ring on your finger)The rest of the penis he says he feels like it's flying......you know what I mean? I was wondering if this is normal....or maybe I have a problem.......would it need to be tight all the way? (like a long tube) .....would a man feel better that way?

he says he feels it VERY tight at the opening and 3 inches past that....but then he feels like an empty space.....(that's what I referred to as flying).....maybe I'm loose, I know....I'll try to do lots of kegels see if that helps.
He mentioned that he had felt like that with all the women he had. maybe all of them were loose too.

Answer 1

Will try to be as open and descriptive as I may;

I had a sort of similar situation with my wife in the entrance as she would squeeze far too tightly.
A few cm after that does simply feel sort of loose until a good amount deeper where I am just about completely in. Then I feel a sort of second tight ring that I can only compare with anal sex.
(Usually we stop at this much insertion as it generally hurts when forced too much here on)

In my earlier girlfriends I had not had this "second" ring issue as I recall.
But I do clearly recall two girlfriends that I had not really felt it to be as loose (Looser none the less).
Shall I try to compare them, the sensation of being tight all through out was sort of related to how much they tightened the entrance. Coincidently all of those that were squeezing the blood out of my penis, the intercourse later on was more what like your partners description.
I guess it may be more from a comparative feeling that I was evaluating, because with the female anatomy it is pretty normal for the canal to be looser in the inner region.

As to “is anything wrong with me?”; as much as I can appreciate your wish to do the best for your husband (lucky man, I hope he knows it); you shouldn’t feel so insecure from these words. They are very much normal.

(An answer to those that presume he has a small penis; I doubt that anyone with a small penis would be complaining about any looseness… since technically they should feel the tight muscles of the vagina at full scale)

Answer 2

I understand it's embarrassing to invite approximately. I had precisely the equal main issue, and it nonetheless occurs sometimes. You can have vaginismus (sp?), a situation wherein you're tensing up. It's much more likely to occur for those who'd had some thing dangerous occur to you regarding intercourse, and as soon as it begins, it is much more likely to occur once more, simply on the grounds that you are afraid. I went to a gynecologist, and he prescribed a unusual (to me) therapy: candles. Start with a skinny candle, insert it, and maintain it in situation for quarter-hour two times everyday. Tense up and calm down in the course of this time. After two weeks, decide on a greater candle, and do the equal factor. Gradually paintings your method up till you are convinced with the dimensions. Your associate should be beautiful information, on the grounds that that is out of the query till the therapy is finished. Good good fortune.

Answer 3

I know you were asking the men but I can answer this for you. You have more space at the back of your vaginal canal around your cervix. This is perfectly normal. You can practice your kegel exercises to strengthen the muscles ...try to stop your flow of urine or put your finger in your vagina and try to tighten your muscles around it...now that you know what it feels like... tighten these muscles off and on through out the day. Strengthening these muscles will make intercourse more enjoyable for both of you. You can squeeze them during making love and this will make him very happy!!!!

Answer 4

U are just like my wife! Sometimes she is loose like you! And sometimes she is very tight, like a long tube. But either way, my wife is 39 and she is still good inside like a young girl teenager. Thats how good she still is, even at 39. lol haha

Answer 5

Unless he's complaining - stop worrying about it and enjoy.....

Yes - its usually tighter in the front section and "looser" at the back - its the physiology of it.

I HAVE TO LAUGH -
at all the ladies posting to do kegels.....

Exactly HOW do you KNOW what it should feel like to a guy inside his woman's hoochie ??? LOL :)

Answer 6

That's normal - the most sensitive spot on the penis is the little fold of skin just below the head (where the foreskin is attached - called the frenulum).

It's not to say that there isn't any sensation further down - but 99% of the sensation comes from that one small place!

Basically, it's the male version of the clitoris ;);););)

Answer 7

Well for one, every woman will feel different.

With my wife, it's tight all the way, especially when she orgasms. Been known to actually push me out of her.

But women experiance orgasm differently. Some clinch down like my wife, some go "barrel" shaped.

There's no right or wrong opinion here.

Answer 8

Feels like its flying??? lol

Kegel baby...kegel!

Answer 9

Should be tighter than that. Do Kegels

Answer 10

That's what I've always wanted to know. That's strange about how your husband says he feels. FLYING??