i met this girl i realy like alot that i hope to marry some day, the problem is she will not let me have sex with her, she said i'm to big. what do i do? i love her.
2007-08-31 09:15:06 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all you can do is reassure her that you'll be as gentle as possible. a giant penis actually can hurt pretty badly so i can't say i blame her. did you consider that maybe there are other reasons she won't have sex with you besides your penis being oversized?
2007-08-31 09:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, there really isn't a whole lot you can do about your size, although I'm sure a plastic surgeon would get a good laugh about it!!!
Seriously, if you are large, you need to calm her down, take things nice and slow. If you get her turned on enough, she will be begging for it. Use your hands and tongue on her till she can't stand it, and then very very gently enter her. It is likely that she is inexperienced with one of your size, and it will take some time to find out what is comfortable for the both of you. I know women who claim too big is non existant, but believe me, I have issues with my husband hurting me, and we've been together for 8 years!!! I have had 3 children with him, and it still hurts at times, so just take it slow and easy and don't rush her. use plenty of lube, and i repeat, slow and easy. this is about the only way to get her to open up. She needs to realize you will be gentle and not hurt her. And if it does hurt her, you must be willing to stop what you are doing and try something else.
2007-08-31 09:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Always Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a virgin, she's probably scared. If not... you're gonna have to start out with something smaller (ie - finger) and work your way up in size so that she loosens up and it's not painful for her. Make sure you use lots of lube too. Communication man! You're gonna have to discuss it with her and then wait until she's ready to give it a try...
2007-08-31 09:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she a virgin? Cause seriously...big is a good thing. If she IS a virgin the thought of your...largeness...is most likely a bit daunting and scary. If she's not, then she's an idiot. So figure out what the real issue is and see what happens.
2007-08-31 09:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by Katie B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well. I will admit that it is hard to have sex with someone with an ENORMOUS penis. But my advice to you and to her is to maybe spice things up with toys. maybe your not the one with the problem .Maybe she needs to be stretched a little. Try toys! like dildos or something. Start small then maybe once that has happened she'll feel more comfortable to let you have sex with her. Good Luck
2007-08-31 09:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bill what I suggest you do is either wake up from this dream you are currently in or tell this girl to give you and honest reason why she won't marry you. Because trust me she is lying to you, if you are not embellishing this story yourself. Try be honest with each other and this relationship may just work out.
2007-08-31 09:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Their is no such thing as too big according to most girls!But just have respect for her and take it slow. She should not give in anyway until after you are married!
2007-08-31 09:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by sotagirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
HA HA! You wish! FYI, women give birth to babies through their vagina. So, unless your penis is 13 or so inches in circumference your not too big for her. She just doesn't want to have sex with you.
2007-08-31 09:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't the only way to be intimate. What are you, a nympho? If you truly love her, then you will respect her wishes.
2007-08-31 09:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by Dana Mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just scared. a womans "part" is made to open big enough to have a baby, so im sure she will be fine once she gives in. just take it slow the first time!
2007-08-31 09:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by Just call me Mo! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your so funny.... I heard about guys like you. My friend said the same thing about her man. She really did not enjoy having sex with him at all. Sucks for you.
2007-08-31 09:19:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋