its been 2 months since I dumped my ex bf..and it was very ugly the way it ended for him being selfish and just thinking of his needs.
So after 2 months he comes back wanting me..see thats not the problem,the real problem is his got his mother involved with this and now she wants me to come back to him..and he wont leave me alone.
But why wait for 2 months?
2007-08-31 09:02:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the problem here is you don,t realise what you,ve got till its gone,he must have worked this out over the 2 months.this will be why he,s trying to get you back.but remember this- an ex is an ex for a reason.and don,t get misty eyes from flowers and love notes remember why you split up in the first place,before you just jump back into it....if your sure you don,t want to get back with him,try and be kind about it cause love is a very strong feeling and can cut very deep.as for his mother she is just doing what a mother does and is trying help her son i no this isn,t what you want to hear,but it,ll be true,you,ll just have to stand strong and say back off to her.hope this helps
2007-08-31 09:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard that song about you can feel bad if it makes you feel better?
I think this is the deal. 2 months without someone you really love (infatuated with), or share a common bond (great sex) will make a guy think he has changed or would change to suit. The problem is that he hasn't found anything better because, A) he's an impatient mamma's boy.
B) he's co-dependent and should be on medication
C) he's developing blisters on his palms and chafing on his willie and his mom has grounded him from using any more of her lotion.
D) You were the only thing about himself that he really liked in the first place, but since he screwed it up so bad, he thinks you'll forgive him in 60 days.
2007-08-31 09:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if that really is your picture and you really are a "GOLDEN ANGEL", then I probably wouldn't let you go either. But then I would have to realize that I was selfish and screwed up. And I would only ask you once to come back to me. Then I guess I would have to move on.
I know one thing, my mother would never be involved......
Good luck with the stalker....lol.
2007-09-01 04:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Drake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs distance from you. Time totally apart. He is obsessed with you and it's unhealthy. I suggest meeting him in a neutral place and letting him know you are giving him the space he needs. He is not to call you, come over, or contact you in any way. If he says until when, say "until I initiate the contact."
If he doesn't abide by that clear definition of separation then file a restraining order.
2007-08-31 09:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok thats like creepy stalker type of thing. Someone in my church had a really similar problem, cept there was a baby involved in it. You need to get a restraining order before he resorts to violence. Cuz hes like got sum mental type of thing. Must run in the family if his mom is invlolved 2.
2007-08-31 09:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by nobody is home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Khalas..Khalas ...ou khalas!!!
once it's over it is over...an ex is an ex for a reason.
Maybe the loser realized he was being a d*ck and was wrong...but it's a little too late!
Ignore him...and tell him if he a man he wouldn't get his Mother involved.
2007-08-31 10:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by Future Mrs. Hamlet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahahhahahaha... he got his mom involved. lol
WHY IS HE BOTHERING YOU?!?! It's O-V-E-R! why doesn't he just get it through his head?
He probably waited 2 months to try and get over you. Or maybe he didn't want to seem desperate. =)
Who knows...
BUT, you shouldn't be with someone you don't want to be with. It's not like he can su you. ^_^.
If you can, put a restraining order on him. lol
2007-08-31 09:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by PaperHeart59 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Miss Golden Angel, If that is your picture, cause you"re beautiful ! Hon you deserve a gentleman. It is a guy"s job to give his lady her hearts desires !
2007-08-31 09:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with him tell him so. He is a fool and was probably cheating on you and now sees that what he thought he wanted didn't work out. Do what you want to do, there are plenty of other men out there...
2007-08-31 09:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by bonstermonster20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a mommas boy. why 2 months, he had something else going with another girl and she dumped him, that's my guess
2007-08-31 09:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋