my older sister is such a Bi tch! she is hurtful discietful rude evil and she treats me like her enemy more than a sister and i have never done anything to her i watch her kids i clean her house i drive her older boy to work i have never done anything to her that she can say wut i am saying about her about me! would it be wrong of me to cut her out of my life and never speak to her again! i would have done it long ago but i figure you dont do that to family but my God she is f n evil n i cant take it anymore it has gotten to the point that i dont care about her or what happens to her she has been that bad to me!! wut do u think should i just cut her off completely?
2007-08-31 09:15:36 · 10 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know you think i will weaken n miss her but believe me i wont!!
2007-08-31 09:16:59 · update #1
i would say just cut her off if she treats you that bad. if it was a friend that did this you wouldnt speak to her would you? your sister obvisiously doesnt appreciate you if she treats you that bad! id say by the sounds of it your better of without her! good luck xx
2007-08-31 09:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by stefii_623 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, she may be really evil but, you are a Good aunt for watching her kids. What ever you do, don't let the kids suffer for their mom's bad behavior. Just think you will deal with this just for your nieces and nephews. I am sure you love them. But, taking care of her kids should be an emergency thing, not a day to day job. You need to talk to her about that. And make sure you don't show any sort of attitude in front of the kids, or else there would be no difference between you and your sister. If you act calm and cool just watch her kids will respect you more, you'll win their hearts, and that'll give her a slap in the face!
2007-08-31 09:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by rika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly would not be harmful to cut her out of your life if you are feeling like you are being abused and/or mistreated by her. In an ideal world you two would be able to discuss this and try and work things out but it sounds like you may have already tried this method. Maybe some space between you will create a feeling of loss for you both and then you can be sisters once again. Hopefully you will not also lose contact with your nephew because of this choice. It's quite normal for family members to disagree and argue but to mistreat a sibling is just plain wrong. Best of luck.
2007-08-31 09:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I clicked on this question just to make sure my brother didn't post it, LOL, because ALL families have these kinds of issues.
People only treat you as badly as you LET them treat you. It's time you learned to enforce appropriate boundaries. If she won't respect your boundaries then, sure, cut her off completely.
But you should FIRST see if there's any way to salvage the situation and strike a truce. Have you thought of getting some counseling? Because you've got very "black and white" thinking, all or nothing, and it doesn't have to be that way. You can keep the lines of communication open and not totally cut her out of your life but you need to make some changes and quick!
2007-08-31 09:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she's your sister. You are family and that is important.
You are enabling her behavior by doing all those things even though she treats you bad. Stop doing all the things and start doing some things you enjoy. When she asks why you stopped, let her know how she makes you feel. If you are important to her, she'll shape up. Otherwise, steer clear of her.
2007-08-31 09:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to her? She obviously isn't happy with her life. Do you think she is jealous of you? There has to be something going on. It sounds like you have a bond with your nieces and nephews and this is what you will miss the most. Should you cut her off? The decision is yours but give her the opportunity to redeem herself.
2007-08-31 09:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if she's horrible to you, and making you're life more stressful, then you should cut her off. But, it would be hard to do, I know you think that you won't break, but she is your sister. My best friend completely cut her mom off though and it's been six years; so, if she can cut off her mom I don't see why you can't cut off your sister.
2007-08-31 09:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Chelsea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by using fact that's the internet. people won't be in a position to be butt holes in public so they act that way here quite. here they may well be that undesirable boy and hard woman they have continually wanted to be in genuine life.
2016-10-17 08:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by herrion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't cut her off your life but you can definitely stop doing things for her....don't allow her to take advantage of you...
2007-08-31 09:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by lvchic_702 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she doesn't like you much either
2007-08-31 09:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by twosey ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋