Family & Relationships - 31 August 2007

Any suggestions????

2007-08-31 07:20:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you found out that the the girl you feel in love with and married was getting pregant with another guy baby while you were still married to her and in love with her????????????

2007-08-31 07:15:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 07:13:46 · 29 answers · asked by annleo04 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Found out two weeks ago my ex was seeing a girl since Feb. Him and I have been together for almost three years. Things haven't been great, I've broken up with him several times and we've gotten back together. When I found out about this I was devastated. The last few months were looking good, we were getting along better. Then he calls me up crying telling me about it. She says they had sex, he swears on his parents life they didn't. Who do I believe. Now I know I have issues and so does he. He is now saying that we need to work on these issues separately and that he still loves me and hopes we can get together in the future. He tells me this is the only way things would work. What does that mean? Is he lying? Why would he string me along?

2007-08-31 07:11:39 · 6 answers · asked by Nickle 2 in Singles & Dating

My guy is down for whatever so I figured I'd take him to the Lincoln Center in NYC to see Yo yo ma, get a hotel, spend a night on the town, maybe do a little shopping in the city, but that seems like something a girl would wanna do not a guy? What can I add to this lovely adventure to make it more of a guy thing? My boyfriend is a wood sculpture and he loves all kinds of music. Thanks!

2007-08-31 07:11:32 · 2 answers · asked by Benny 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

diffrent state who will have jurisdiction?

2007-08-31 07:11:25 · 8 answers · asked by Dannielle F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are both of legal age. If we happened to be sitting super close to each other and it's inevitable that we can kiss, should I make the first move or him? I really like this bloke and want everything to work out with him studying, but I do want to make out if it can happen. What should I do?

2007-08-31 07:11:01 · 16 answers · asked by Leona 4 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is causing arguements and when we argue he alway says oh thid aint gunna work and then breaks up with me for like an hour or 2 and i always begg for him back

2007-08-31 07:10:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is something that my husband wants to do in the bedroom that I am completely uncomfortable with and he nags until about one time a month he gets his way. I don't even want to be in the same room with him anymore. How can I make him understand how I feel about it. And is it even fair of me to say no?

2007-08-31 07:08:24 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I both work full time but she also goes to school, so we share the chores (but really I do most of them). I do not mind because I am a bit of clean freak, and I figure if I take care of a majority of the chores, she will have more time to concentrate on her studies and get more organized with her work/school life. However, my wife is the unorganized type and has the bad habit of waiting until the last minute to get things done. So when things aren't done, she gets mad and blames me for not helping her. The times that I even offered to help she would tell me that she will handle it, but then get mad at me when things go wrong. I tell her to ask me if she needs help with work/school, but she thinks she shouldn't have to ask and that I should know better. I feel like she thinks I should be like her mom and that she can act like an infant child and not look out for herself sometimes. Any advice?

2007-08-31 07:08:19 · 8 answers · asked by fsfdsfsf 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My Father is going to pay for our wedding but its a mexican tradition to include grooms parents, since they are not longer here how can I name them?
In Mexico we just put a + to let people know they passed away. e.g. Mr & Mrs. John Smith +

2007-08-31 07:06:41 · 9 answers · asked by Marquel 5 in Weddings

2007-08-31 06:58:16 · 39 answers · asked by know_no_no2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to his daughter?:
(As a child): "You've been trouble since you were born. We should never have had you.")
(As an adult after an argument): "I feel sorry for whoever ends up with you.")

Would it be normal for something like that to lower your self esteem?

2007-08-31 06:55:19 · 11 answers · asked by coz_6 1 in Family

my husband and i have been separated for a while now. he moved out of our house and moved in with a mutual friend of ours. he and i have been trying to work on our relationship, but recently i have heard from mutual friends that they are dating. i have also found pictures of them on websites. the pictures do not tell much. just regular pictures, but she write captions like... we are in love, and stuff like that. when i have asked him about it, he has always denied any relationship between them other then sharing a house. i know she is on medication and such. i'm starting to wonder if... either she is lying and this is her way of manipulating the situation in hopes of breaking us up for good or he is lying. how can i find out the truth?

2007-08-31 06:53:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

was with this guy for 8 months and it was a very serious relationship. We met at wotk and only knew eachother as workers and there was that "spark". After only 4 months knowing eachother we decided to go out, and we werent friends to begin with. Hes very sensitive and thoughtful and it was love at very first sight. We werent even friends to begin with and we got attached very quickly. I heard he had a very bad past and his friends, family and him kept telling me I was the only chick who treated him right(the others were verbal abuse and hes been hurt so bad all his life)then he breaks up with me, saying hes "confused, "not ready" "needs time to think" its you its not me" and what confused me the most is when he said "i cant show feelings, im emotionally muted"...I know hes an emotional wreck, and this is sooo confusing i dunno where to start. refuse to believe were not meant. Im also confused if hes using me as plan B saying we can maybe date in the futur n be friends for a while...:S

2007-08-31 06:53:14 · 1 answers · asked by Canadian19 2 in Singles & Dating

He's a senior and I'm a sophomore. We run cross country together and in the off-season I ran with him 3-4 days a week just for fun. He used to like another girl and I liked another guy, who I still like a little bit, but he hasn't mentioned the other girl in ages and about a week ago told me that I should probably give up on the guy, cause things aren't going anywhere (lol they really aren't). Anyway, he's really nice and asked me to the movies multiple times, but no plans ever went through, then he randomly asked me if he thought my parents liked him, never wears a shirt when I'm running with him and "teases" me all the time by sneaking up behind me and poking me in the side. I wouldn't mind going out with him, but would feel really guilty that deep down I still liked the other guy a LITTLE bit. Is he really being just a friend, or does he actually like me?

2007-08-31 06:52:29 · 8 answers · asked by Tomboy with girly tendencies 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-31 06:50:52 · 27 answers · asked by Sparkles 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was 4, my father was arrested and spent 5 years in prison.

He got out when I was nine years old and I seen him on and off until I was 13.

Then I wouldn't see him again until I was 18 years old.

My mother wanted nothing to do with him and didn't even want child support.

I am currently 20 years old, A full-time junior in college, and I make almost 30k a year working part-time (which often gives me the attitude that I dont really need him.)

He told me that he wanted to be part of my life when I was 18, (why come back when I'm grown) but I have been brushing him off for the past 2 years, what do you think?

P.S. Feel free to check out my Mythology/Christianity question.

2007-08-31 06:50:22 · 18 answers · asked by Chestnut_Hill_College_Undergrad 4 in Family

Ok, I will share it with you and I am so embarrased.
I work in a huge company with around 700 people all together.
I am not English so one of my work colleage (male) often asks me to translate for him messages he receives from his friend (girls), cause I speak the language. Today he gave me another text but the message there was dirty and with many sexual issues. I told him I was too embarrased to translate it but he insisted so I finally did in on a piece of paper and handed it to him. After he read it after few minutes he came back to me and apologised for it telling me he did not know what the text could have been about. I liked him so I said it was ok. After about half an hour ANOTHER colleage from the work came to me and said he had seen the text and asked if it was me who translated this. INSIDE I felt soooo low but kept cool. He said MANY people have read this and laughed at it. Am I to be blamed? I FEEL totally quilty. Many people know about it now. Why did he do it? Help!

2007-08-31 06:49:06 · 19 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Friends

I was recently set up with a guy and met up with him last weekend. It seemed like we had a great time together. He called me the next day, but I was busy and had to call him back. I left a message on his phone, but he never returned the call. He has, however, been sending me text messages everyday, telling me that he's thinking about me and hoping I'm having a good day. I'm not sure if it's that he's too busy to call or what the deal is. If he's not interested in talking to me why does he keep sending me texts?

2007-08-31 06:46:18 · 30 answers · asked by chicabonita 1 in Singles & Dating

i like to talk real good quick game to women, but my voice is real real deep. Some like it, but others seem to act like my voice is over bearing.

2007-08-31 06:45:07 · 6 answers · asked by gogetta 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is in Florida and sometimes when he gets really stressed/upset he gets sucidal, him and I were talking and he said something that made me really sad.. he got upset that he made me so sad and while we were talking, he started to talk funny... I thought that he was taking something or something bad had happend, he hung up and I waited for about 2 hours or so because I was trying to get a hold of him but his phone was turned off, I talked to his sister and then I called the police because she quit answering me and it had already been 2 hours. I wanted to make sure he was ok, my boyfriends brother deals "stuff" I would rather not say what but you know what I mean, so she got mad at me and I think it was because he does that... Well I thought he was taking something but little did I know he fell asleep with me on the phone... here is the conversations me and his sister had, Was I wrong? I know the conversations are long but here is the link, please read what you can

2007-08-31 06:42:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We're both in the 8th grade and we ride the same bus,but he always trips me. He calls me name and he like to hits me,but not hard.He only does this to me,but not to my other friends.When ever he sees me in the hallway with his friends he'll be like''My friend llikes you''GOD I hate him.Please help.

2007-08-31 06:38:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 06:32:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-31 06:28:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think my ex boyfriend likes my sister because well before I went out with him people said he only wanted to make my sister jelous. But i liked him so much I didnt care to listen. Well I broke up with him and now a month later he is trying to get ahold of my sister and my sister said she really needed to call him but wouldnt tell why. What Do you think.

2007-08-31 06:26:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just some tips that i could learn from for a great day!

2007-08-31 06:24:41 · 13 answers · asked by Laura C 4 in Weddings

I have a bunch of friends who always come to me for advice and yesterday one of them asked me how do you know if a guy really likes you? and if they do like you how do u know if thy are actually ready??

2007-08-31 06:24:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this is such a horribal thing i did but sometimes you just cant help who you fall in love with. ( Now i see it was lust) We both decided to break it off. So i recently met someone (2 months after we broke up) and he found out about it. Now he is the nastiest most cruel person to me ever. I dont think satin could be this mean. This is a really great job and i cant leave. Any advice? And NO, im not going to threten him with "im telling your wife". Thats just childish

2007-08-31 06:24:19 · 19 answers · asked by Page 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-31 06:22:16 · 14 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Friends