If i want to get married and my man doesnt want to get married what is a girl to do?

Question

Actually "more blow jobs" is three words and he get plenty of them without having to ask.

Answer 1

Find a man who does. Problem solved.

Answer 2

Either find a man that shares your feelings, or just live with the fact that he doesn't. If you love him, you would just go with what he wants. But you also have to realize that he must not love you so much if he won't do this one thing for you. Yes, it is a big thing, but it's what you want...
I understand why a lot of guys don't want to get married though. I mean, honestly if you look at the marriages these days and how long they last, it's just a waste of money to get married. And it's probably too much commitment, and they don't want that. Woman can be bitches and **** men over as much as they can, it's cruel, yes. But I think that men are getting smarter for not wanting to marry.

Answer 3

This is par for the course. Can you get him to enjoy Thanksgiving AND christmas with your loving family? That might give him a desire to have a family of his own.

If he's getting milk without buying the cow, consider a "chastity until marriage" ring, and stop givig away samples.

Ultimately we all know what men want. The selling point of marriage is comfort and security.

Wedded bliss lets guys know that are getting some at home conveniently, without "shopping" for it all day.

If he already has that, marriage will be a hard sell.

Answer 4

Hang in there. Is marriage in the future at all? You have to decide, do you want to sit around and wait for something that may or may not happen? Or do you want to cut your losses and move on and meet someone else just as great if not better that does want to marry you? Sit down with him. Have an open, honest conversation. See why he doesn't want to get married. Does he just not want to get married now or not at all? Then it's your decision.... to be with someone unmarried or move on and find someone who wants to marry you.

People who don't want to get married but say they are in love make me wonder... are they really, truly in love? If they are, then why not get married?

Answer 5

Why marry? Really, what is the point of marriage.
Just live together. a legal document does not ensure love or commitment. unless you just want the marriage just for show or to be able to say I am married.
so when you are tired of each other you won't have to divorce. and sadly enough, statistically, you will end up breaking up any way.

Answer 6

Dont get married...listen if he isnt ready to make a commitment to you then either wait it out or brake it off. If you do end up talking him into getting married then later he will resent you and it will end in divorce and you dont sound like you want that. I would think everyone wants marriage to last forever but in alot of cases it does not.

Answer 7

You need to express to him how important it is to you. Think ahead of what you're going to say and figure out why it is so important. If he blows you off or tells you he just isn't interested, you'll have to make the decision to wait around and hope he changes his mind or to end things and find someone more in tune with your stage of life and thinking.

Answer 8

She either accepts that if she wants to stay with him, there won't be marriage (at least not in the forseeable future) or she ends things and moves on in hopes of finding a marriage-minded fella.

Answer 9

1. You move on to a different man.

OR

2. You find a way to entice the man your with to marry you. (IE. - make him see a reason why it would be better for you to be his wife rather than his GF)

Answer 10

easy. find a man who wants to get married.

and not just any man who wants to get married.
find a man who wants to marry you.

because a marriage is not a marriage unless both parties voluntarily consent into getting into it.