if you found out that the the girl you feel in love with and married was getting pregant with another guy baby while you were still married to her and in love with her????????????
2007-08-31 07:15:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I`d go CRAZY! She obviously has been messing around dude, and not worthy of you or your marriage. Kick her to the curb!!!!!
2007-08-31 07:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by MISTY 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well unfortunately this happens alot to alot of people. Not just a woman being pregnant by another man, but just cheating in general. It sucks when it happens and it hurts a whole lot. That is one thing though that no matter what I could not stay with the person if they had a baby with someone else. Thats just to much and that means they did it raw.. have the decency to be protected if your going to cheat.
2007-08-31 07:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by luvhrtz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the case of something like this i probaly would be upset and hurt but what can i do besides ask her not to have the baby but i really wouldnt want to be with her no more becase what is to say that she wont be with this other guy i wouldnt trust her because a person like that cant be trusted if she did once she will do it again if you think that there is chance that she would be with you on the faithful tip ask her to get an abortion and if you dont think she will be faithful get a divorce and wish her the best of luck with her baby and her new guy and go on with your life as long as you dont have kids with her there are really no stringes attached woman come and go thats why they have things like getting a divorce because things like this happen to much if its the man or the woman what i say really is get over her
2007-08-31 07:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by pinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Wife, if you want to call her that, knew what she was doing behind your back was wrong, yet she did not care to protect herself,when having intercourse with this guy,and the result was this pregnancy. The Baby is going to be born, and what if the Man donor of the sperm, wants to see his child after he is born? You have to think of the pros and cons of this situation. so, it is up to you what you want to do? If you think your Wife still Loved you after this happened, and vice-versa, i would suggest you think long and hard about it, because what makes you think she would not do it again to you, if you stay with her. Do you think you will be able to love this Child as your own, once he is born? Do not get me wrong, the child did no wrong on this matter, but sometimes it does happens that the child is the one that takes all the negative aspect of the one that was wronged. So, I do think you should make up your mind on what to do with your future? With her, or without her.
2007-09-07 16:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel really hurt but at the same time my love for that person wouldnt change because of the situation. Because if you truly love her then it wouldnt change just because of obstacles, and trials,and difficult situations your facing. I do agree that she is in the wrong. But my advice for you is to keep loving her unconditionally, but if you choose not to be with her because of the fact she has a baby from another guy. Your decision is perfectly fine.
2007-08-31 07:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by {{* Misz. Wallson*}} 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a Jerry Springer moment.
So you married a girl you are in love with and she's carrying another's child? Is she still in love with the other guy?
2007-09-07 02:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would piss me off. I probably wouldn't talk to her for a while; I think about how much I actually love her; then make a determination on whether or not I could forgive her.
If that complicated scenario is something you are currently going through...good luck.
2007-09-08 07:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Micah H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
upset. In the real World, all preganencies were not planned. there are trillions of LOVE CHILD.. out there "never meant to be". consider going to a support group to help you with your inner feeling. only you can make that decision to go or to stay. A few years from now it want hurt so much.
2007-08-31 07:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sporty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah right. I'd be confused bc I would hope that if she ever found someone else that it would be a woman. BC when I tried to work things out .......well put it this way the make up would be that much better. I guess he's not invited to the anniversary party?
2007-08-31 07:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by thathirdrail 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well my friend you been had, I guess she never did love you to become pregnant with another guys baby, I would leave her at that guys house and say bye bye.
2007-09-08 05:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she pregnant when you married her? Did she cheat and end up pregnant? How do you know its not yours?
I guess I couldn't say how I would feel without knowing more details, but I'd wager it would be somewhere between heart break and murderous.... Good luck
2007-08-31 07:22:03 · answer #11 · answered by midsummer_diva333 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋