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hello there im 19 and a girl i no realy wants me but she 45 to old dont get me wrong she is nice looking but think my mats may take the pi@+ and wud be my 1st grilfriend and what shud i do ?

2007-08-31 11:59:10 · 28 answers · asked by james g 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

28 answers

For a 1st g/f it would be better to find someone a little nearer your own age. Theres nothing wrong with an age gap but get a little experience under your belt first hun

2007-08-31 12:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1 0

at 45 she's not a girl but a woman. Many men and women that age would like to get their hands on a 19 year old. By doing so they can fool themselves into believing they are still young teenagers. They are NOT. Steer clear of her as in the end you will be the one that gets hurt most.
there are plenty of 19 year old girls around and it is a certain bet that one of them will fancy you.
You need to be in the places where they are to find them so time to party.

2007-08-31 19:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy 3 · 0 0

she is just being nice, she is not interested, if you think it would look funny to your friends think how it would appear to her friends. You haven't even had a girlfriend before so you are in no state to be even thinking about getting involved with an older lady, you asking her out would just make her feel awkward and think you are a bit strange, leave it alone and look for someone your own age who will have the same interests and be emotional and experiance wise at the same level, what have you even got in comman with this lady? other than you think she is hot, sadly this won't make a relationship and you and her will just get hurt, forget dreaming and move on

2007-08-31 19:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by bet bet bet 3 · 0 0

Let me get this right - you're 19 and this woman is 45? Might be a bit too old, especially if this would be your first girlfriend. Your mates making fun of you might get to you too. Try and find someone your own age would be my advice. Would your parents approve also??

2007-08-31 19:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0 0

First of all any female at 45yrs is a woman not a girl, find yourself a fit young girl , to answer your question 45yrs is not too old , to be your mums friend or the next door neighbour, but way too old for a girlfriend, start enjoying looking for that fit young girl. Happy hunting

2007-08-31 19:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by linda h 2 · 0 0

I'm 45 and my hubby is 19 years younger than me. age is just a number if 2 people make each other happy. go out for a night and see how you get on. sod your mates, if they are real mates they'll support you not take the piss

2007-08-31 19:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by val f1 nutter 7 · 1 0

Yes

2007-08-31 19:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Please use spell check, and proper English next time. Your 19, she's 45. That is too big an age difference. She is at a different level of maturity than you. 26 years difference. She is old enough to be your mother. There is more to love and dating than finding soemone who is 'Hot'.

2007-08-31 19:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Look if she is 45 and you want to go for it then go ahead , you might learn something but i can tell you that you wont be happy for long. Not at 19

2007-08-31 19:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by BILL 7 · 0 1

I'm in my early 20's and I went after someone 27 years my senior. It's great fun. I say go for it.

2007-08-31 19:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by katsy82 1 · 0 0

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