Hey all!
Well I'm single. I fell in love & had a great r.ship with my gf for 2 years. We both went travelling, fact is, I didn't sleep with anyone, but I was 'interested'. I lied quite a bit. We broke up mainly 'cause of the distance and trust. 2 months I got back from travelling. My ex and I both said there was no one else, and we loved each other, but realised we needed time and change. So we gave it each other.
The main point is she feels insecure and intrusting & is scared, which I understand. I have given her all the time in the wrld, and respect. I love this girl, and lately even though she says she is too scared, but wants me, I find it hard to wait and be positive. Communication is on & off & I find it so hard to try & prove things to her. Am I a fool? Am I a fool for trying too much? should I try too much?When is the time to finally walk away? I'm sticking around but I don't wanna be used obviously because right now, she holds all the shots. Any help would be appreciated guys!
2007-08-31 11:35:23 · 3 answers · asked by the_randomone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey Moe... this is not about sex, I didn't dump her for sex:)
2007-08-31 12:07:32 · update #1
She only has as much power as you give her. If she does not feel secure with you after having 2 years to get to know you, then I think you are wasting your time. Trust is a big part of what holds relationships together. A relationship without trust and good communication after all this time seems like a dead end to me. If you want to be unhappy and always be the one making sacrifices, then keep the relationship. Otherwise find someone with which you can have a mutual trust and desire to communicate regularly.
2007-09-04 16:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by QueenBeeFee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your a fool if you would breakup with someone you say you love because she is not giving you sex. you apparently have found a decent girl that doesnt want to have sex until she is ready . why are you pressuring this girl if you love her as much as you say you will wait until she is ready.
2007-08-31 11:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound good she isn't going to get married or be with you forever and that is fact. so if i were you i woud just walk away and leave her alone.
2007-09-04 15:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋