I recently searched my boyfriend of 5 years' computers to see if he was looking at online porn. I never thought he did ANYTHING like that until someone I work with, also a friend of his, said he's obsessed with it. When I asked my boyfriend if he looked at porn he denied it and says he rarely masturbates Recently I saw a show about how online porn addicts eventually engage in casual sex and cheat. My boyfriend is 27 and I always thought he just didn't have a sex drive. He works alot and I thought he never wanted to have sex with me b/c he was too tired. I always got turned down when I asked and we only had sex a couple times a month, which lasted very shortly. I looked online and hes been going to porn sites before work, after work and sometimes after going to bars several times a week. He's doing this before I come over his house. He's been looking at local sex ads of girls in nearby towns and I think he's cheating on me. Any advice? Am I overreacting? Do all guys look at online porn
2007-08-31 14:56:05 · 3 answers · asked by duclosall 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, a man of 27 isn't having sex with his girlfriend.....he is getting it somewhere. You aren't over reacting. Everybody looks at porn...regardless of how much they deny it. That isn't a problem.....the problem is how it is effecting your love life. You need to dump this guy..he is looking for something new....he obviously isn't interested in you.....sorry.
2007-08-31 15:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be glad you are not married to him! i found out about my husbands "problem" after 4 years of marriage!!! dump him he is a loser and it will not get better.my husbands excuse was it was just a fantasy and meant nothing!!! bullshit if that was true he would not have done it secretly and lied about it all this time!!! like you i thought his sexual problems were because of long hours at work or other health issues so i tried to be loving and understanding when he was such a flop in the bedroom!!! what a joke he was looking at porn all the time!!! when i was sleeping or shopping or even taking a bath!!! if i asked even kidding was he looking at porn he would lie about it!!! he is 41 and after all these lies and crap the idea of having sex with a juvenile delinquent makes me want to puke!!! he was never that good anyway and i feel so betrayed that i dont care to even try because he still cannot function as a man!!! get out and be careful ,it is better to be alone than to wish you were!!! worse than that i was fired from my job because of a remark his loser a ss made at work,we both worked at the same place and he sat back and did nothing cause the self serving loser let me loose my job so he could keep his !!! had i known about the internet betrayal and non existent sex drive i would have dropped him like a bad habit!!! that said now that i do know i cannot throw the loser out cause i have no way to support myself anymore!!! i hope he,his family and every loser that set me up and lied and cost me my job get theirs and i hope i am around to see it!!! GOD WILL JUDGE!!!
2007-08-31 15:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know if he's cheating but if ur not comfortable with him looking at porn and stuff then i suggest you talk to him about it. Really, you should talk to him soon because if he isnt already cheating, then you dont want him to get that far. So just talk to him in a calm mannor and work things out.
Much love
-Ash.
2007-08-31 15:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by Truth be told. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋