Hi, i have more than 3 months without having sex with my partner and the worst is that I don't feel any desire for have it, everytime he tries to start something, i think "what i can say for making him to stop" and well I always make up something and we ended doing nothing. I love him very much and i feel attracted to him, we are very affectionate couple, so I don't know what is wrong with me, it is the first time something like that happen to me, so I am really confuse. Thank you for your help.
2007-08-31 15:05:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have you had a complete physical recently? Sometimes a hormone flucuation can cause a loss of desire. If your labwork is a-ok....maybe you just want a break. There's nothing wrong with that. There is no law that says you have to feel like having sex all of the time. I think women feel more comfortable with no sex then men do. Is it upsetting your partner? Has there been an upsetting event in your life recently? Change of job? Illness in your family? Stress at work? Maybe if the two of you sit and talk about it you will come up with the answer and possibly a solution. If that doesn't seem to be the answer you may want to see a counselor who deals with sexual issues. Good luck.
2007-08-31 15:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by lacrosselover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you find that when you are together that you are not satisfied by him? Is it the same old same old? If it is then that is probably the problem. If you were being satisfied then you would want it more. If he just jumps on, goes for it, and it's over before you start then yeah most women would be very turned off by that so that is normal. Try changing things up. Doing it in a different room, different positions, different times of the day. Try toys that you both agree with, lotions and body massage oils. Try just enjoying each other's bodies in the massaging way without making love for a few times. You probably just need a little spice back in your life. Good Luck.
2007-08-31 15:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well either his going to cheat or you are that is a fact..he sounds boring in bed loll.tell him..maybe you need to see a sex therpist or you seek help to save your marriage,.I was single for 1 in half year had no sex no oral nothing...dammit long time..at lease i was single and had excuse but you have a man..and you don't make honey lol..if I my new man now here with me..I would be getting it on all over the place lol..dammit even in the car..he he..don't be online go have wild time..i was with a man for 5 yrs so I know about sex issues lol..
2007-08-31 16:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might need to go see a doctor, therapist, or talk about it openly with a very close friend. Sounds like it might be in your head, and this guy is being very patient, but you can't do this to him forever. Go get some help, it might be depression.
2007-08-31 15:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋