Family & Relationships - 31 August 2007

We were engaged and together for 8 years. He found meth and got a girl that he doesn't really love pregnant. He is suppose to be with her, but he ALWAYS tries coming back to me. NO, I DO NOT WANT HIM BACK AFTER HIS METH MESS AND PRISON TIME. I'm kinda betting with friends, how soon it will be before he calls. lol What do you think? When do you think my phone will start ringing off the hook?l

2007-08-31 17:11:32 · 21 answers · asked by SHARI 3 in Singles & Dating

Am I the only one? I see groups of people all over campus and hanging out at night and going out and partying... I am a pretty, smart, and very kind girl but I am having a really hard time meeting anyone. I have only been a student at this school for one year (you'd think enough to meet people, but I haven't!). I have been bulimic and I isolated myself from all people for years but now I am sick and tired of being alone. I live off campus so I find that very difficult to meet people. And then class...you don't really get the chance to meet people. I feel so out of the social scene I don't even know if I would know how to do it. There is no reason for a normal 22 year old girl to be so alone! I think part of it actually may be though that I don't trust myself with other people, given my sick past and how I pushed everyone away. I am used to being along..but people aren't naturally meant to be lonely. We all need people! Any advice from others in similar situations. Please no rude answer

2007-08-31 17:10:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i mean im always left out i dont have any friends im literaly ignored by the whole world im lonely why do i fell like this its like im depressed. help.

2007-08-31 17:09:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am digging this older man so much! He is old enough to be my dad literally! For some reason i really have a crush on him... just because of the things he says, and the way he says them.... it helps that he is established and has an excellent job( and i do mean excellent).

At first he was really into me... he even followed me to my car, just to get a glance at me as I left...lol )he was unaware that my friend saw the whole thing)...
He also likes to check me out a lot.... he likes to stare at me and wont look away when i catch him!!! Im just really unsure how he feels now because we have drifted apart and barely see each other anymore....

Should I just get it over with and say hi to him, and see what page he is on? I am tired of wondering... my friend seems to think that he is unaware of how I feel, and he is intimidated by MY age.... should I let him know that im ready to "hang out" with him????...lol
by the way im in my early 20s and I know NOTHING about older men.

2007-08-31 17:08:04 · 28 answers · asked by Into The Thick Of It 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-31 17:08:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 18 and i got asked out by a 25 yr old. i was curious what are they thinking when they ask a younger girl out. is it for sex, are they looking to get married, do they wanted to be friends? can someone explain?

2007-08-31 17:07:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HELP ME TO STOP THIS!
when he sits next to , talks to , plays around in a flirty way with another girl it makes me soo jealous!!

2007-08-31 17:07:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He went to dropp his 13 year old daugther and friends to the movies. I think his daugther manipulates him alot. He was gone for 2 hours and he just called me to tell me that he is going to have to watch the movie with them because is a pg 13 movie. I think he could of just say sorry you guys have to watch another movie. Now I am alone at home in a friday to tell me what he was going to do. I am very upset should I?

2007-08-31 17:06:47 · 20 answers · asked by Ortega'swife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom talks to me just fine about my day & stuff. but 4 some reason, whatever advice she gives me or speeches she tells me, i always wantto think the opposite and not listen to her. i am an amazing student & the shy & smart girl, i knnow its bad to feel this way, but i cant stop it. Also when she talks to me, since i m the 11st child, she really doesn't know what to say. so she kinda talks to me like she was talking to a kid, but trust me, i m not anymore. for example, when i should have first started to wear a bra, she told me that it was "that time" and baby & slow talked to me. i didnt 4 a while bcuz i felt like i shouldnt bcuz she said i could. & idk y! Also, she always asks me my opinion on boys, whoi like, if i like that movie star, and tells me stories about her boyfriends. i feel like kinda shes pressuring me 2 date, so i actually am not, even though my friends are. Waht should i do about this feeling? did u have it when u were a teen?

2007-08-31 17:06:29 · 20 answers · asked by advice giver & needer! 3 in Family

2007-08-31 17:05:26 · 1 answers · asked by Juleette 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do SO many people think that people cut them selves for attention. most of the time, its not for atention at all! and they dont even really want anybody to see the cuts/scars, but if somebody does see them, they can't lie, so they have to tell them. and not just the EMO people cut the selves. step out of the labels people please. so many other types of people cut them selves too and theres always a reason behind it. also, why do a lot of people think that if somebody cuts them self they are insane and they immediately need phsyciatric help? all they really need is ONE person to talk to and help them sort out whats going on. Im really just wondering why people are so shallow to say people "emo" people cut themselves for attention andthey are crazy. now i know all of you dont feel this way so dont come on here hating on me, all im doing is asking ok?

2007-08-31 17:04:02 · 11 answers · asked by conviction_x 2 in Family

I'm turning 20 in less than a month and honestly I am freaking out. I still feel like I'm 16; like there are still so many things I haven't done. Its such a pointless age. I'm no longer a 'teen', I'm going to be in my.... 20s! Feeling depressed.

2007-08-31 17:03:22 · 15 answers · asked by loungequeen21 1 in Singles & Dating

i am casually seeing my exbf, we make out and have passionate, romantic moments and I enjoy it very much but he has a gf and he has lied to me about it and i found out but he still thinks i do not know..anyway, i want to continue hooking up with him, i am also seeing other guys..i am in college you know and i want to have fun..i am very physically attracted to my ex and he is great sexually, very satisfying, is it wrong to continue seeing him casually knowing he is in a relationship? i mean im just dating around and having fun, he isnt the only one im seeing what do you think?

2007-08-31 17:02:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was thinking of texting her this:

Hey xxxx, sorry for being an ***, k. I realized that I was pressuring you with my feelings and stuff. Was being selfish cause I didn't care of what you would think. Hope we can just be normal friends k?

Is this good?

2007-08-31 17:01:51 · 12 answers · asked by cowsmoo1711 3 in Singles & Dating

I wear glasses all the time (except when I am sleeping and showering of course). I am not wearing them in my avatar because I have a camera that glares. Do you prefer glasses or contacts/no glasses on a girl?.... or does it not matter?

2007-08-31 17:00:24 · 35 answers · asked by Kelly 4 in Singles & Dating

my gf told me not to talk to her on msn yesterday coz she was grumpy and she said that she ll talk back to me on monday and she refused to gimme the reason. Today i asked her again y she told me not to talk and she said that its not only me o_O, wat is she tryin to say? p.s shes never been like this bfore like NEVER

2007-08-31 16:59:17 · 6 answers · asked by Letsgofishing 3 in Singles & Dating

OUR 6TH ANNIVERSARY WAS WEDNESDAY-HE SAID HAPPY ANNIVERSARY AND THATS IT! NO KISS NO NOTHING-I TRIED TO GET HIM TO GO ON A DATE AND RIGHT NOW HE IS AT HOME DRUNK-WHAT AM I TO DO-SOMEONE SEND ME SOME FLOWERS-PAULA 22225 CENTURY DRIVE TAYLOR, MI 48180!!AND PLEASE GIVE ME SOME GOOD ADVICE!!

2007-08-31 16:59:01 · 14 answers · asked by paulalinettegarrison 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay lol When I & my ex hubby split, I said "No More Aquarius" simply because I know a few Aquarius
personally and Yes! our temperaments *crash* By the ways, I'm a Gemini....so maybe then a Gemini? lol Hey, why not? Aren't we the same way...don't ya think? Again, I know a few Gemini's personally....my own brother, my best friend & even an ex! Well, one think about Gemini's is that we get tired easily of the same person ;) So what about Libra's? Are they really all Good Hearted but Players? you tell me

2007-08-31 16:58:09 · 4 answers · asked by gmg2 3 in Singles & Dating

Try to imagine... You are in love, deep passionate love. You have been with your significant other for 2.5 years. Celebrated many holidays together with both families. Then one day you are engaged. Things are wonderful and exciting and new and fabulous. Occasional arguments? Like any other couple in the world, normal, right? Then a few months before the wedding, one of them cancel it because it is just to stressful and just too much. They want to have a destination wedding. Then that person cancels everything all together and it becomes so very sour and weird and uncomfortable. So you leave your home that you share togther. Keep in mind that coworkers, friends, family, and clients want to know EVERYTHING at least EVERY day. and you have no idea wtf is going on because that "love of you life" has showed up again and is calling, pursing, loving you.... like you were used to not long ago . You are so very confused also. So, just wondering, how bad would a situation like this embarass you?

2007-08-31 16:57:33 · 40 answers · asked by BrusselSprouts 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been going out on and off with this guy tony for about 2 years. When he lived here in the same city, he didn't like it when i wanted to hang out with other people, even girls. So, i spend almost every day with him. Now, for about a month so far, he is at Oklahoma University having the time of his life meeting people and joined a fraternity, as he says. I think he is a hypocrite for not letting me have fun then, and now HE is having all the fun, leaving me with no friends here anymore. Now, is it bad that when i talk to him over the phone i like to manipulate him and tell him that it's not right if he hangs out with people in college? I do it because i think he deserves it because i got treated badly by him. While he goes out and parties, i stay home because he doesnt like the ppl i hang out with. I know i should get over it and move on, but i just can't stop thinking about the fact that i hope he gets treated like crap the same way!

2007-08-31 16:55:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 15 and never had a truely steady boyfriend
i mean i have had aboyfriend but it rele only last a couple months..
is this normal..??

i mean ik other friends who have had such long relationship then me wit these sorta flings..i feel like im missing sumtin

2007-08-31 16:55:16 · 11 answers · asked by Nancy Pants 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok.... people keep telling me not to hug the guy that likes me.... but guys.... would you be turned on by getting hugged by the girl you liked? Sorry.... but this is a problem. Girls are welcome to answer too.

2007-08-31 16:55:02 · 12 answers · asked by "Spencer" 3 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy Ive been friends with for about 3 years now. But he just recently told me he has liked me for a long time. So, we've gone out on a few dates. He dedicated the song "Superstar" by Usher to me. He keeps saying he's not waisting his time. He's ready to find someone to settle down with and start a family. He is 30 years old, so I assume he's serious about that. At the same time I kind of feel like he's not serious. He hasnt said anything to make me feel like that though. He keeps saying he wants to spend more time with me. And I work 3rd shift but he works 1st shift. Hes asked me twice now if I could change shifts at work. But after all this. The next weekend after we had sex for the first time, we were suppose to go out. Well, 30 minutes before we were suppose to meet he said he got a call saying his friend was in the hospital froma car accident. My question is, do you think he wants to be with me or does he just want sex? Any advice!!!

2007-08-31 16:54:08 · 15 answers · asked by eranjc 1 in Singles & Dating

HE gave me a necklace, earrings, and a bracelet and his friends say it cost $180 total!! I loove them sooo much. How do I make it up to him. Please be serious. My friend already said sleep with him.

2007-08-31 16:50:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She says that I ingore her and that I don't pay her as much attention to her as everyone else when I was the one who was cheering with her when she got asked out and crying with her when her ex dumped her. She is just mad and she says I have to prove I am a real friend but no matter what I do she wont listen and I don't want to lose her forever. She is one of my BFFS. What do I do??

2007-08-31 16:49:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Can anyone give me some good advice to take with me into court over this.

My Ex who owes my children (ages 10 and 6) approximately $20,000 ($10,600.00 for year 2006 and approximately $10,000.00 for 2007) has hired not an attorney but a psychologist!!! A psychologist can not practice law ... can they?

This guy seems like a real crook (the psychologist) - even has a web site. www.chicagodivorce.com

If you investigate this Richard Delorto guy he has been in trouble with the State of Illinois for fraud, arrested for tresspassing, etc.

What are the penalties for practicing law without having the education and license to? What can happen to my Ex since he has hired this guy to represent him in court? What can I do to better prepare myself and my lawyer before we go to court in a few weeks?

I really need some thorough and sound advice to be able to defend my kids' rights in the best possible manner I can.

2007-08-31 16:48:33 · 2 answers · asked by Jewel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to write a letter to my cousin (we dont really talk that much since we both live in different states, and we're 14 years apart) anyway, i wanna write him and just kinda say hi, but i also want him to write me back, and i dont know what to write.

any suggestions to fill up a page? i mean i can only write SO big lol! but seriously, anything will help.

thanks so much!!

2007-08-31 16:48:27 · 2 answers · asked by nycLAgirl604 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-31 16:46:19 · 22 answers · asked by Alana R 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently posted " I feel trapped" It was recommended that my boyfriend and I should seek counceling. Thinking it was a great idea, I brought it up to him. He doestnt want to. He says "we dont need it" I asked if he wants our relationship to end and he said no. He says well do it when it gets to that point. I told him im not happy and he was shocked..like I havent told him 50 times or anything. I want to make it work with us. We have a daughter and she deserves both parents. Not if we arent happy though right? I dont want her to watch us arguing all the time and seeing her mom misarble. Thats not fair. What else can I possibly say to get it through is head that this is what we may need to save our relationship?

2007-08-31 16:45:27 · 7 answers · asked by Samantha 4 in Singles & Dating

like i said theres a confrence i have the time off to be able to go but she insist that i dont im afrraid she gots plans to meet someone there what do you think?

2007-08-31 16:43:48 · 12 answers · asked by hioutput_99 1 in Singles & Dating