like i said theres a confrence i have the time off to be able to go but she insist that i dont im afrraid she gots plans to meet someone there what do you think?
2007-08-31 16:43:48 · 12 answers · asked by hioutput_99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is she giving a speach? Maybe she just wants to give everyone her full attention instead of being distracted by you. Dont take it personally though. I dont think she is cheating but always ask just in case. Tell her how you feel and ask her reasoning. You need to be able to communicate to be in a relationship
2007-08-31 16:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a pretty big jump there. Maybe she just wants to be able to relax and enjoy the trip without feeling like she has to keep you company. And depending on the nature of the conference she may not have a whole lot of time to relax anyway. Unless you have some other reason to think she's cheating, you really don't have anything to go on here.
2007-08-31 16:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your Paranoid. Do you have a reason to think she is cheating? Umm well heres a Newsflash, mrInsecure. I am sure you are the only boyfriend who wants to trail along, Most of the time compaines dont pay for a single room. They throw you in a room with a Co-worker of the same sex usually. So what makes you think they need you tagging along all because you want to go. She may need the time to focus on the job or conference not on what you want to try to do while you guys are there. Let her go on her trip. She does not want the embarressment of being the chic who had to have a tagalong boyfriend. That Screams Abusive Psyco Relationship to your friends. Let her go. She will be back. Smell her draws when she returns, If you that insecure. GET OVER IT.
2007-08-31 16:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by Xplicit Parties *KIKI* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aside from trusting her you could follow her or ask her outright. It must be tough to be in that situation. My wife has a conference for work that she goes to each year but I never worry because were solid. She's also with another manager from work who I know is a stand up woman so I know she's not alone.
You seem to have to know but be aware that if you follow her and find out what you fear is going on to be the truth, you may not have control of all your senses and act irrationally. If you find out you worried for nothing and she finds out you followed her it could ruin the relationship not to mention it showing you don't trust her. If she's your love for life simply ask her because I'm sure she couldn't look you in the face & lie.
2007-08-31 16:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Fixguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 08:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by abdulla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax if she is cheating at least you didn't marry her or get engaged, be patient it may just be an ex boyfriend most ex's don't stand a chance, they usually get left behind for the same reason they did in the first place. If not maybe she is getting you a surprise.
2007-08-31 17:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this... but she's not going to be there alone. I've seen this before. You could always go, and watch from a distance... whatever you do, do not let her know you're there, or you went there, EVEN if you see she's messing around.
Always have the upper hand in that situation.
2007-08-31 16:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Yulik MahBaht 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to trust her and beside if she is going to a conference when will she spend time with you because most conference are all day. let her go and don't think the worst.
2007-08-31 16:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by sexyb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it. A conference could be anything but then again I am not in your shoes so I wouldn't really know.
2007-08-31 16:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably getting played
2007-08-31 16:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by biteme4455 d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋