i am casually seeing my exbf, we make out and have passionate, romantic moments and I enjoy it very much but he has a gf and he has lied to me about it and i found out but he still thinks i do not know..anyway, i want to continue hooking up with him, i am also seeing other guys..i am in college you know and i want to have fun..i am very physically attracted to my ex and he is great sexually, very satisfying, is it wrong to continue seeing him casually knowing he is in a relationship? i mean im just dating around and having fun, he isnt the only one im seeing what do you think?
2007-08-31 17:02:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should have as much fun as you want. Its college, the best years of your life. and although hooking up with a guy with a girlfriend is wrong ALWAYS in this case i would really say that it depends on how serious they are. i hope i could help
2007-08-31 17:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by stancc123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to casually date several guys at the same time. However, it's wrong if one of more party is involved in an exclusive relationship. In this case, the boyfriend has a girlfriend and he should not be involved with you. It is best to end the relationship. He's using you anyway.
2016-05-18 03:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you do if you found out right now, that your ex was cheating on you while you guys were dating? Put yourself in the other girls shoes.
I think your acting like a whore and yes it is wrong! Doesn't it seem odd that he only wants to screw you but not date you??
Take my advice and get rid of him, get some self esteem and move on.
2007-08-31 17:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Beezy♪ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, I try to be objective. Not until you are or he is married, it is still OK to date. But why are you dating with him? Do you just want to show that you are so attractive? Sorry for the question.
But please don't play around with other's feeling. One thing for sure, if he is lying about his gf, he is not sincere to you too. He will do the same to you in front of his gf so please don't fall in love with him. Just friends. I'm not quite sure your "hook up" things. I hope it is just a "hanging around" things. No sexually activities involved.
2007-08-31 17:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by anwar.tirta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of interest, usually. But maybe he's unhappy with her, and sticks with her, because he has nobody else, to hook up with and date. As a friend, when the gf is absent, no.
2007-08-31 17:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T NEED TO READ YOUR PARAGRAPH, THE ANSWER IS NO! Just think yourself as the gf of that man what will you feel, dear?
2007-08-31 17:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you had a BF and some girl came along and did what you did? Does not feel good.
2007-08-31 17:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by carriec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't even read your explanation.....all I saw was the title....and I have to ask....would you want your guy to do that to you? If not, then you should stop immediately. He's getting his cake and eating it too....
2007-08-31 17:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by pep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with janicajayne
2007-08-31 17:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get caught you're gonna get slapped. why not just stay away and wait for him to end it with this chick.
2007-08-31 17:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋