i mean im always left out i dont have any friends im literaly ignored by the whole world im lonely why do i fell like this its like im depressed. help.
2007-08-31 17:09:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well the thing is all the people im around says im way too optimistic andhave too much fun but inside thers just this feeling that know that im being left out if you had my life for a day you would feel the exact same way i feel.
2007-08-31 17:29:25 · update #1
...just try to make some friends...Just remember that who ever doesn't want to be your friend...doesn't need you...just be friendsly and go up to them....like at skool and stuff...
You feel like this becuz' ...i am guessing that you don't talk about the same things!
Oh yah...don't change who you are inside for someone else...
a friend should like you for who you are! ...Just keep that in mind!
Hope I could help!
2007-08-31 17:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go back about half way up the page and read and reread and make what iona m is saying part of your personality, read it again and again until you fully over-stand what iona m as said,
iona m as given you in a few words what has been prov-en over the last 200 years by research to work , or try the book from WHSmiths "Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway" something like that, I Gave it to my sister a few years ago and she said it was the best book she ever read,
But remember reading anything here or in a book is almost totally useless if you forget it by tomorrow, the thing to do is to read, reread, memorise and make whats useful to you a part of you, see also Paul McKenna's books at WHSmiths, Great Confidence Booster
If I were you I would copy iona m's words into a package like word 2003, print it and stick it on a mirror in the bedroom and read it every day and every nite for at least 3 months, if it only made a small difference, that small difference spread over the rest of your life equals a big difference
2007-09-01 11:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by David D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some good hobbies outside of the home.
I made friends while I was grocery shopping, Playing hoops with my kids at our local park...........
Make yourself more interesting and more available.
You'll make friends in the oddest places.. Don't try so hard as well. Be yourself.
Best of luck!
2007-09-01 00:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Tomak 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You always feel left out because that is what you always feel. Dont think negative, especially about yourself. What you feel mostly depends on what you think, what is running in your mind. So always think positive. When you think that people ignore you, they can feel what you feel, so unconsciously they will ignore you, it is natural. Spread negative thoughts and feelings and you will get yourself into negative situations. Think positive thoughts, happy thoughts, and you will feel happy and positive and you will attract positive people and situations.
Good luck Cam! :-)
2007-09-01 00:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used to be in your situation. . . i just changed schools, people were not as depressed at my new school and loved that i was so positive about things.
The funny thing was that as soon as i got the new friends the people from my old school wanted to be my friend. . . i was like o_0 ok then.
2007-09-01 00:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel that way??? You don't say much about your situation. Making friends is easy... finding good friends is more difficult.
Do you know who your best friend is in the whole world??
JESUS.
he will never let you down.
2007-09-01 00:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by Belle 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get off your butt, go out and make friends. Join clubs, do a school play, join a bowling league, something, anything...
2007-09-01 00:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quit feeling sorry for yourself first thing and loosen up and have fun relax and god gave you a mouth so open it and say hi to some one.
2007-09-01 00:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
um cuz your hair is green? lol. jk. do something drastic. ppl are bound to notice you after. or just change something about how you look. or just say hi to someone.
2007-09-01 00:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by ♥LuV sKuLL♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋