i had this boyfriend.
he was my first and i honestly didnt like him at the time.
i feel bad about it cuz it was stupid.
it kinda freaked me out so i said yes.
anyway thats not the point.
i keep having these dreams where i end up kissing him in the end.
and...he has this girlfriend now.
and i think i ilke him.
but....iono if its cuz im jealous or what...
or if i just do...iono.
we broke up about 4 months ago...
what should i do?
2007-08-31 20:20:07 · 13 answers · asked by Freddie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um first off...
could we think of a nicer way to say "get over it" please.
i know what i did was wrong and it sucks.
second...
im not having sex............
and i have accepted that i made a mistake...
thanks everyone else though.
2007-08-31 20:29:44 · update #1
get over it...you lost him and now your jealous...
2007-08-31 20:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by oraple 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Accept the fact that you made a mistake.......and LEARN from it and move on.
Next time you start dating a boy keep in mind that at your age most of them just want to nail anything with BOOBS and if you don't respect yourself enough not to drop your panties for them they won't respect you after either and the last thing you want is the rep of being the skank of the school so just say NO!
Another thing to keep in mind is that the younger you are when you start to have sexual intercourse the more guys you are likely to sleep with by the time you are ready to get married. The more sexual partners you have the bigger the risk of sexually transmitted diseases, HPV which can lead to cervical cancer, and the silent ones like PID (Pelvic Inflammatory Disease) which sometimes has no symptoms at all and you find out that you have/had it when you are older and want to have children and find out that you can't because PID scarred your fallopian tubes so badly that you can't conceive.
When you take all those things into consideration boys aren't really worth the risk are they?
2007-08-31 20:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal to feel that way especially when a boyfriend has moved on.. it's also normal to feel "a change of heart" when you find out that he's with someone else. there may also be some instances where you wanna turn back time to put things back together again but we all know life doesn't work that way....
all i can suggest is that you make yourself busy just to take your mind off him.. why not got to your favorite mall? splurge on something you've been dying to get.. watch a movie, hang out with friends or if you don't have the luxury to go somewhere else and you prefer to stay at home. do things out of your daily routine, make pasta! bake! or whatever it is in your mom's cookbook...
everyone has been through this and i know that you can recover soon.. just keep on smiling and chin up high!
2007-08-31 20:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by angel in disgust 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby...this is sad...You will never forget him! But it looks like he is moving on...If is meant to be it will be! You can always tell him that he will always have a special place in your heart and thank him for the experience....But do not put yourself in a begging situation...If he is interested he will pursue you...as long as he is not committed game is not over Girl.....Best ,Mm
2007-08-31 20:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all true love will come and it wont hurt to wait!!! and if u r jealous its ok everyone is once in a while just hang with ur friends and everything will fall into place....
2007-08-31 20:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by Misty H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the jealous factor. when hes single, you think hes ugly an asshole etc. but when u see him with a girl, u get jealous. when his availability statust changes, ur attitude towards him changes 2
2007-08-31 20:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repeat the process and keep repeating, at reasonable intervals.A time would come when you shall know when to stop and be serious.
2007-08-31 20:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him how he feels and if he says something mean or doesn't like you then you weren't meant to be together.
2007-08-31 20:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Lecter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it there are plenty of other awsome guys :)
2007-08-31 20:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about it.
You'll find someone.
2007-08-31 20:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by Melli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him. just move on with your life, girl. you'll get over him in time.
2007-08-31 20:25:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋